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for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 8:36:00 AM

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I have a local sub that I'm very interested in. She is currently serving another Dom. She wants to leave him because they are not a good match. He has no use for her, and he has told me this directly. But,... He wants her to pay him back the four hundred and $50 that it took to bring her from Indiana to New York. He won't release her unless she gets the money to him. So naturally she has asked me for the money. I told her I would never pay another dime for his sub. And that's the truth never never never. So my question is if you pay for a sub to come to your location you're putting out the money on the chance, I'll say it again chance, that things will work out between you. If they don't work out between you and your son that's the chance that you took. It's like gambling in my opinion. You might win you might lose. But to force your sub whom you don't want anymore, to pay you back the expense you laid out to get her to you just seem so long. It sounds petty.

Your opinions please?

DomAndre

RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 8:42:53 AM

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Did you really just ask this.

Hell yeah! Go ahead and pay him. Be like the others who got arrested for human trafficking lately. Hey, if you tell me what jail they send you to, I promise to send you a card.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 8:48:35 AM

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Seriously - does anyone ever fall for this?

She's a grown woman. If she wants to leave him she is completely free to walk out. If he doesn't want to release her, so be it. He can go through the rest of his life boasting about how he 'owns' a slave that he has no contact with. Or control over.

If he wants his money back he can take her to the small claims court where he will have to prove this was a loan, not a gift.

And to be honest, she's not being particularly smart staying with someone who seems to be a bit of a dick.

I'd avoid both of them, IMHO.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 8:58:18 AM

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 9:34:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterAndre66

Your opinions please?

DomAndre

My opinion is that it's one of the most common scams on this site.

My next opinion concerns people that feel the need to sign emails and posts with "Dom" or "Master".......

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 9:51:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterAndre66

I have a local sub that I'm very interested in. She is currently serving another Dom. She wants to leave him because they are not a good match. He has no use for her, and he has told me this directly. But,... He wants her to pay him back the four hundred and $50 that it took to bring her from Indiana to New York. He won't release her unless she gets the money to him. So naturally she has asked me for the money. I told her I would never pay another dime for his sub. And that's the truth never never never. So my question is if you pay for a sub to come to your location you're putting out the money on the chance, I'll say it again chance, that things will work out between you. If they don't work out between you and your son that's the chance that you took. It's like gambling in my opinion. You might win you might lose. But to force your sub whom you don't want anymore, to pay you back the expense you laid out to get her to you just seem so long. It sounds petty.

Your opinions please?

DomAndre

How "experienced" of a "master" does one need to be in order to exercise the tiniest shred of common sense?

Good lord.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 9:56:00 AM

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hmmm...
I'd probably avoid the whole situation. Partly because of being asked for money but also because it sounds pretty sloppy...

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 11:16:37 AM

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Why would you be interested in someone who does not realise that to leave him, she simply needs to leave?

He doesn't want her and she doesn't want to be there.

So she leaves.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 11:32:24 AM

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Why would you be interested in someone who does not realise that to leave him, she simply needs to leave?

He doesn't want her and she doesn't want to be there.

So she leaves.

Even if it were real, why would you want to be with someone that looks for the new Dom while still with the old one?

Why would you want to be with someone that's not enough of an adult to find their own way out of a relationship?

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 1:24:55 PM

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Dude... it's a scam.

I had one woman lay out a scenario like this for me once. I played along, but the "Master" balked when I told him I wouldn't fork out a penny until I met her to see if we were even compatible first.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 1:51:51 PM

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Alrighty. $450.00 richer. What does everyone want for christmas? Don't be greedy pigs.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 1:53:27 PM

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Needles.

(I'm on a kick today.)

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 1:54:56 PM

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Needles.

(I'm on a kick today.)

You got it... and I'll probably put Blondefluff under your tree also, cuz you'll want to play with the needles and stuff.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 2:43:44 PM

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Doesn't anyone know what the 14th Amendment is in this country? - Dood, you really need to go back to school.
Then again,,,,, some people go their whole lives without an ounce of common sense.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 3:45:51 PM

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Thank you all for responding. I never ever ever would pay for her release. And I have seen money scams on this site many times so much so that even when this place was collarme, they post notices never to send money to anybody. I was just wondering whether or not there are Dom out there that would do that. Yeah I've been playing alone for a long time but its really funny how some people can actually believe what they write. It's that old saying if you tell a lie long enough maybe becomes the truth. Oh well keep playing around with her. Anyway thank you for all of your comments I do appreciate them all. I hope everyone is happy and I hope everyone has an excellent Thanksgiving Day

And for OsideGirl......

I'm Andy

Thanks everyone.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 3:48:10 PM

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Cool, a sane and rational new member.
Welcome to the forum.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 3:51:57 PM

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Thank you all for responding. I never ever ever would pay for her release. And I have seen money scams on this site many times so much so that even when this place was collarme, they post notices never to send money to anybody. I was just wondering whether or not there are Dom out there that would do that. Yeah I've been playing alone for a long time but its really funny how some people can actually believe what they write. It's that old saying if you tell a lie long enough maybe becomes the truth. Oh well keep playing around with her. Anyway thank you for all of your comments I do appreciate them all. I hope everyone is happy and I hope everyone has an excellent Thanksgiving Day

And for OsideGirl......

I'm Andy

Thanks everyone.

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/10/07/fbi-uncovers-red-state-sex-dungeon-ring.html

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 5:06:36 PM

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Alrighty. $450.00 richer. What does everyone want for christmas? Don't be greedy pigs.

New socks. Warm and fuzzy ones.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/17/2015 5:16:11 PM

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Alrighty. $450.00 richer. What does everyone want for christmas? Don't be greedy pigs.

New socks. Warm and fuzzy ones.

I think we've had enough new socks.....

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/21/2015 3:57:26 AM

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<tips hat>

I like your style.

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