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RE: Lying women or true Dommes Is there a way to tell? - 12/30/2004 12:30:02 AM

ABBOY4U

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ORIGINAL: RealityFix

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Is it a regression thing, with wanting a mommy?

Reality fix Sir
I must say your heart is in the right place Sir.
To understand a true AB you have to first talk with one:)
I am an true AB Sir and I can tell you it is nothing that I think about ,it is embedded into me Sir.
To be a womans baby is no differant than a slave wanting a Mistress or Master Sir.
It is no diff than a man wanting a wife Sir.
It is not about regression as much as it is about the control that regression demands Sir.
It is a very real desire and no one will ever begin to know how I feel unless they talk with me and know me as a person not just words Sir.
It is not about helplessness !! I wrote before I have a career ,very professional and I am ,in the vanilla world ,very dominant Sir since I have the position of Supervisor over others Sir.
I also enjoy all outdoor and indoor activities adults do Sir but I am the most happiest when I have someone that loves me for me and excepts who I am and truly appreciates what I have to offer Sir.
I have in my life found that all the (adult activities) just seem to be too fixed and boring and there is no excitement or change Sir.
In my life as a baby everything is always changing ,new toys,new baby clothes,new way of looking at simple things and finding wonder in them Sir.
I feel so good waking up in diapers and my pacifier and my bottle and seeing the sun shine thru the window and know I am innocent and I can walk out in the morning air and understand I belong Sir not because of my desires to be a baby Sir but because I am a baby!!
It is hard for someone to understand that I have been on this earth for so many years and not call myself an adult?
Well I am not !! I am a baby that has learned how to live in a world of adults as I got older and yes I am very much learned and knowledgable but not as an adult.
I have been kept innocent of the adult world and I am an true infantilist Sir.
No one knows or can explain or talk about an true AB until they understand that they themselves are an adult and have lost their innocence Sir.
This is what a true AB is, an innocent Sir.
Again thank you for your reply Reality Fix Sir.
Larry

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RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? - 4/18/2005 2:22:19 AM

MissCrystalBlade

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I absolutely love that this thread was created. My alpha is primarily a sissy baby. As to AB's original question to the "differance of submitting completely as a sub in an D/s relationship compared to completely giving up all adult rights and be contolled and disciplined as a child by a loving mommy domme?"

Dont get confused by seperating the two. A Mommy/baby relationship is very much a D/s relationship. That doesnt mean that you are looking for a Mistress, keep in mind that there has to be some satisfaction for the Mistress. She may not want you to regress too far or she may want to encorporate humiliation into your scene. Very rarely is she going to want to cater a scene strictly to your needs. My sissy has done speeches and demos for several support and education groups within the Southeast U.S. on AB's and roleplaying specifically to introduce more people within the community to this type of play. It is just another aspect of this community. The problem I have seen with other AB's is that they want a Mistress to become a Mommy. Not all Mistresses are interested in that softer type of play. While my sissy is my baby first, she can also regress to a slightly older age to facilitate more impact play. For a Mistress, it becomes a matter of knowing how to recognize where the subs regression is and where you want to keep it for the scene. Mine tends to slowly regress with small signs like changes in speech pattern, more exagerated body motions, and an increase in energy. If I want to involve impact that isnt appropriate for the baby in her, I simply begin use vocal cues to help push her headspace towards the age I want her to be at and then begin the warmup for the scene. With AB's, a Mistress really has to learn to pay closer attention to those signs. I know our first scene was a very bad experience for the both of us because of me not recognizing where her headspace was and going where she wasnt ready. The worst thing for an AB can be for them to regress too far for the type of play they are subjected to. It can be very harmful psychologically and takes a lot of work to repair the damage. I have also found that aftercare takes more time with AB's to slowly bring them back to their adult self.

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RE: Lying women or true Dommes Is there a way to tell? - 4/18/2005 6:06:31 AM

diaperedbaby

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I think many have a different view of the AB scene. On both sides. Some do provide it as very one sided. With the Mommy doing everything for the baby. This tends to be one that like to be treated as a total infant at all times. I think this only works over a long period of time if the baby is providing something else. A skill or something financial.
I think there has to be some give and take.
In my own little world yes I like to be regressed, but only when the Dom/Mom wants that closeness of a baby. Since I am a sissy, I like to be controlled through the use of this disipline. This gives great motivation for me to take care of the dom whether through personal service, housework or any other desires they may have. The only difference is I like to be dressed as a sissy in diapers while I perform these tasks ect.
As you can tell, everyone has a little different variation to this fetish.
For my own personal experience I think it isn't much different than any other fetish.

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