LadyPact -> RE: When is it the right time for the slave to actually join you? (2/24/2016 12:03:09 PM)
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We're some of the folks who never had an issue with TriCare Remote. Luck of the draw, sometimes. What I'd really suggest to you is for you and your wife to side down and try to figure out what kind of poly relationship that you want. It's good to have an idea of how you are going to handle situations like family, friends, any potential children, employers, etc, etc, etc. You're not going to be able to be entirely "out" until your contract is over, so you have to think about how that will be handled, too. (I would highly advise you *not* to draw up contacts that say anything about kink, D/s, poly, or anything else because that could very specifically be used against you.) The sexy-fun time is the easy part. What does your day to day look like when you envision poly? How will you handle time with just your spouse? Getting the independent time that a lot of people need to feel healthy? How will the other person's expenses be handled? What happens if the arrangement has to come to an immediate end and the other person has to leave? There's a lot to think about.
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