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slaves. - 3/2/2016 4:51:07 PM

couldbetrouble

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Would like some other thoughts on the subject of a slave. Never released and now has another dom who does not know she was never released. Thoughts?

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RE: slaves. - 3/2/2016 5:37:24 PM

LadyPact

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Did she leave the first Dom? She's released. She really doesn't need some magical permission if she wants to and has left the relationship.

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RE: slaves. - 3/2/2016 6:11:03 PM

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She released herself.

If you want her to file stalker charges against you, feel free to contact her new dom and whine about how you still own her. Don't be surprised if the two of them file orders of protection against you.

Otherwise, grow up.

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RE: slaves. - 3/2/2016 11:30:36 PM

OsideGirl

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Oh, good Lord....stop trying to make relationships more complicated then they are. It's a fucking relationship. Either side has the right to move on and be happy. Reality is your friend.

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RE: slaves. - 3/3/2016 4:58:49 AM

LilJuly76

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yet another one that has some fantasy life. wait till the cops come knocking, it's illegal to keep people against their will, if she wants to leave then I cheer her on, obviously it's not working.

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RE: slaves. - 3/3/2016 7:02:42 AM

WickedsDesire

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I honestly do not know any slaves in the bad stereotype way you mean it. I am not saying they do not exist but they are a minuscule minority versus those who claim to be one or want one. Actually I think I knew one and that covers all my lifetime.

That aside I don’t actually understand your thread.
What happened to your last owner?
If you have a new owner…oh fukit I go with what oside and lily say personally I view you with more than a modicum of disbelief - I am entitled to my own opinion

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RE: slaves. - 3/3/2016 7:53:20 AM

UllrsIshtar

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quote:

ORIGINAL: couldbetrouble

Would like some other thoughts on the subject of a slave. Never released and now has another dom who does not know she was never released. Thoughts?

She's been released... by you.

The only way you are morally and legally entitled to keep a voluntary slave is by convincing her that she doesn't want to leave.

You failed to do that. Hence, you released her.
It doesn't really matter that you didn't tell her that she's released, because you already showed her through your actions that she was, and she knew it, so she left.

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RE: slaves. - 3/3/2016 11:19:08 AM

crumpets

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
She's been released... by you.

Like the lady said ... she's been emancipated ... by you.

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RE: slaves. - 3/3/2016 11:28:45 AM

freedomdwarf1

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quote:

ORIGINAL: couldbetrouble

Would like some other thoughts on the subject of a slave. Never released and now has another dom who does not know she was never released. Thoughts?

Are you for real??
Where do you get the absurd notion that you have to release her?

I concur with the other posters.
If you were unable to be a sufficient Dom to hold her mentally/emotionally, you are no dom and you let her go - so she is released.

As LP stated, she does not need some magical word/phrase to be released.
Your lack of dominance released her.

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RE: slaves. - 3/3/2016 3:12:06 PM

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I have a bit of a different take on this, but I don't know what kind of Dom you were.
I believe it would have been the right thing to do for her to say I'm releasing myself and move on in that way to her next Dom . But of course that's not always the way things work.
I personally wouldn't think it would be a good idea to pursue the subject any further though.

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RE: slaves. - 3/3/2016 5:07:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: couldbetrouble

Would like some other thoughts on the subject of a slave. Never released and now has another dom who does not know she was never released. Thoughts?

eeerr....she's moved on thus she's released.

Seriously, it's time for you to move on too.

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RE: slaves. - 3/3/2016 11:33:45 PM

SuaveGentleman

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I dont know if this is worth the post but I seriously do not follow the question. Is there a prequel I am missing?

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RE: slaves. - 3/4/2016 4:31:24 AM

crazyml

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Would like some other thoughts on the subject of a slave. Never released and now has another dom who does not know she was never released. Thoughts?

So... are you talking about someone who was your slave, who is now seeing someone else?

If that's the case... then it's "grow the fuck up o'clock". It's over. Move on.

It you're talking about someone who has come to you without having been released by her former dom... and the former dom is uppity then you need to tell them it's "grow the fuck up o'clock". It's over. Move on.

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RE: slaves. - 3/4/2016 4:31:56 AM

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I dont know if this is worth the post but I seriously do not follow the question. Is there a prequel I am missing?

- asn

Some Doms believe a slave must be told the relationship is over.

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RE: slaves. - 3/4/2016 5:02:57 AM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: crazyml
If that's the case... then it's "grow the fuck up o'clock". It's over. Move on.

I'm nominating this for the "CM Quotes Worth Repeating" thread.

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RE: slaves. - 3/4/2016 5:42:16 AM

LilJuly76

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I second it, accept for the F word yes it gets the point across nicely.

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RE: slaves. - 3/4/2016 1:04:47 PM

theHouseofAvalon

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ORIGINAL: couldbetrouble

Would like some other thoughts on the subject of a slave. Never released and now has another dom who does not know she was never released. Thoughts?

Master. Perhaps you can sell her for a token amount since she is not worth much and so satisfy honor? That would be best I think. It would be bad for business to do anything else, not for her.

the first girl of Avalon

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RE: slaves. - 3/4/2016 4:25:23 PM

WickedsDesire

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Op offered no reality well it has none at all It is not difficult to work out it is actually a guy and it is no actual slave..
The odd regular on here does, have a reality, and when they have a reality they can sit in judgement, as I do on my throne of many muffin wrappers and empty wine bottles strewn asunder, resisting, most of the time, an urge to stamp , nae stomp, on utter garbage, and those without reality proclaiming the higher moral ground.

Heh I am up late this eve now what one of the many shall it be, crumpets is exempt.
Now, I wonder what one of you ladies, who are not an actual lady shall I chose, Count to ten, before I declare a snake of poison and free muffins and shoes for all

Now who will it be, i wonder,

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RE: slaves. - 3/5/2016 5:21:26 AM

LadyPact

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That one, I'll give you. For all we know, this was some stupid chat room fantasy where the 's' was <cough> collared <cough> to one person one weekend for some sexy net chat and then the next weekend, was repeating the process for sexy net chat with somebody else. I tried looking at the OP's profile to get a clue but all I came across were some journal entries of the 'nobody wants to do things' variety, which make me wonder if any of it was real in the first place.

The OP had time to view my profile after viewing his, but none to come back to the thread. Maybe he didn't like the reality based answers much.

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RE: slaves. - 3/5/2016 9:37:20 AM

DocStrange

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quote:

ORIGINAL: couldbetrouble

Would like some other thoughts on the subject of a slave. Never released and now has another dom who does not know she was never released. Thoughts?

If she has another Dom, you might want to think about why she is no longer serving you? Relationships are a two way street. If she left, there is a reason for her leaving. If you do not know why she left? Well that is a problem.

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