Wayward5oul -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (3/24/2016 4:31:31 PM)
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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4893245 In the thread "Why would someone do this" we are currently discussing a situation all to common on the other side. The situation is a man finding a woman he want to write, he politely writes her a message using his best effort to attract her attention and she writes back "do not contact me again" and the man instead politely writes back asking something about her interests much like a guy would do in a bar meeting situation in hopes she will relent and decide he is not bad after all. We have five wonderful women, and I mean that honestly, on this thread who all agree the second message is "irritating" or bordering on "harassment". To be clear, the guy sends his best cmail message to a girl he might like very much and when she responds negatively he politely sends his best effort to politely get her to talk to him but then quits after the second negative answer. I suspect our sample of five or so ladies is too small over there and although adding more opinions might not change the view, I do ask and invite any woman, submissive or not, to look over the thread and add your view and experience if you like. Thanks ahead of time for your time, lovely ladies of the forum. There were several points on the other thread that I wanted to respond to, but I decided that it wasn't worth it. Now, after seeing yet another thread on the same topic pop up, I will answer your questions. But first let me explain why I decided that on the other thread it wasn't worth it to keep responding. Because it honestly felt like you were not going to be satisfied until some woman basically said "yes, we are shitty for doing that-yes we do it and we have our reasons but we know those reasons are stereotypical and irrational and make no sense, but we are so very sensitive and can't handle any sort of conflict so we just rudely ignore men who are being nice to us". Go ahead, roll your eyes. But the answers you got from women on that thread were consistent all through 14 PAGES-consistent in how we do (or don't) respond to messages, why, what our experiences in the past have been, etc... Yet you consistently question the responses you were getting, continually try to point out how we are not justified for our behavior, and after 14 PAGES of that, you now start the thread in another section because you still , after 14 PAGES of women trying to explain it to you, don't get it. Just like the dozens of men who started the dozens of threads on the boards in the past, always saying the same things that you are, and always getting the same responses from women. You have decided that it makes no sense, so you are not willing to be convinced. You are going to continue to question it until someone says something that you want to hear.
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