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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 12:19:50 PM

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Nah, I'd rather do exactly what I'm doing. Telling you to fuck off is not nearly as fun as whacking you around like you were a candy filled piñata at a kids party

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 12:34:20 PM

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FR.

So, nobody asked me about my cmails. I know you care...

Guys get cmails also. I do. I get long ones and also the usual one or two liners. I don't answer them all especially the one liners. I get second unsolicited cmails from women and men. I can say for certain that I never considered any of the second unsolicited, second pass if you will, messages as "harassment" even if they were rude.

I don't think gender makes the difference nor do I think the quantity of separate cmails that women get means the second cmail should be considered harassment when they come from different mailers.

So with about 10 years of experience using cmail and never considering unsolicited cmail "harassment" I have to say harassment must be in the eyes of the beholder given all of you are so fanatical about calling it harassment. So much so that I can see you have been hurt badly by many cmails and so I wonder also why you even use cmail at all or even why you would visit the other side.

Here are some like views from others in past threads...

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2464924
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2465012
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2462885

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 12:36:25 PM

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Nah, I'd rather do exactly what I'm doing. Telling you to fuck off is not nearly as fun as whacking you around like you were a candy filled piñata at a kids party

Me too. So I posted a picture on my un-hidden profile just for you.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 1:02:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath
Here are some like views from others in past threads...

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2464924
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2465012
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2462885

Rather disingenuous, wouldn't you say?

One post is a single word answer that says "yes," that a reply shouldn't be expected.

One of the posts includes this: "I would say no, don't expect it, though yes, it would be nice."

The remaining says, "You can expect all you want. It doesn't mean that you'll get one."

NONE of them are saying anything similar to the postings that you've made on this thread. Even when women have SHOWN you that they don't appreciate you continuing on, asking about their physical attributes, being rude by hitting on them, or being offensive, that it's a good idea to treat them that way. Do you honestly not get that women who are not interested in you do not want you to keep going?

If you have to try as hard to get women interested in you as you have on this thread, I don't think I want to know about the contents of your email. You really have women interested in you this way? I do know some women continue to respond to certain interactions for some of the Return To Sender fodder but that's usually for the comedy factor.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 1:37:27 PM

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So with about 10 years of experience using cmail and never considering unsolicited cmail "harassment" I have to say harassment must be in the eyes of the beholder given all of you are so fanatical about calling it harassment. So much so that I can see you have been hurt badly by many cmails and so I wonder also why you even use cmail at all or even why you would visit the other side.

There is a difference between AN unsolicited Cmail and MULTIPLE unsolicited Cmails after being told no.

Not harassment:

You: I'll bet you have long hair. What color is it?
Me: Im not interested in conversing with you. Have a good day and I wish you well in your search.
You: Thank you and good luck in your search.

Harassment:

You: I'll bet you have long hair. What color is it?
Me: Im not interested in conversing with you. Have a nice day and good luck in your search.
You: My desires are to blah blah blah with a woman. I have blah blah years experience as a dominant man. I'm blah blah blah and I am looking to blah blah blah a woman for a lifetime of blah blah blah. Lets exchange numbers and meet for lunch Saturday st noon?

If you would not even respect me enough to respect my wishes as far as not talking with you goes....if you flat out ignore what I've said and attempt to push your own agenda anyway, there is NO way on Earth I could ever be able to trust you to respect my wishes if it came to a point of...say...respecting my hard limits or not hurting me badly after I've been placed in a position where I cannot defend or protect myself.

Your untrustworthiness, disregard for the feelings of others, and utter disrespect make you a very bad liability risk. Those are not the qualities of a rock solid dominant male. They are the characteristics of red flag "dominants" that any smart submissive should stay the hell away from.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:03:12 PM

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LOLOL

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:12:23 PM

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You think when a Dom is ignored by a woman he simply tucks tail and slinks away? In your dreams.

By ignoring you, a woman is saying "no". You're saying that a "Dom" won't accept that "no" from a woman.

No means No.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:20:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath
You think when a Dom is ignored by a woman he simply tucks tail and slinks away? In your dreams.

By ignoring you, a woman is saying "no". You're saying that a "Dom" won't accept that "no" from a woman.

No means No.

No what? No conversation? You are sitting at a bar and a guy walks up and strikes up a conversation do you look at him and say "no speakie to you, Dom, go slink away now!".

Sure.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:32:22 PM

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you're not getting it, Oside Girl just spelled it out for you as well.

maybe you'll get it if a girl ever calls the cops on your because you don't want to take no, or being ignored as just that.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:32:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath
Here are some like views from others in past threads...

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2464924
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2465012
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2462885

Rather disingenuous, wouldn't you say?

One post is a single word answer that says "yes," that a reply shouldn't be expected.

One of the posts includes this: "I would say no, don't expect it, though yes, it would be nice."

The remaining says, "You can expect all you want. It doesn't mean that you'll get one."

NONE of them are saying anything similar to the postings that you've made on this thread. Even when women have SHOWN you that they don't appreciate you continuing on, asking about their physical attributes, being rude by hitting on them, or being offensive, that it's a good idea to treat them that way. Do you honestly not get that women who are not interested in you do not want you to keep going?

If you have to try as hard to get women interested in you as you have on this thread, I don't think I want to know about the contents of your email. You really have women interested in you this way? I do know some women continue to respond to certain interactions for some of the Return To Sender fodder but that's usually for the comedy factor.

I'm afraid not. All of them are saying something similar to my postings. For example in the first one, one of three you decided not to read entirely...

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would say no, don't expect it, though yes, it would be nice. I have a tendency to ignore email, cmail, whatever-other-mail whenever I sense insincerity, but I say that right in my profile. Especially if you're being sincere, and it's been a week or so and you're still interested, drop another message with your previous one at the bottom (if it went unread)

The second post, the one word "yes" was another girl agreeing with the first post.

The third is from a Domme who agrees with the "tactic" of a second pass...

quote:

Dominant women get a lot of email, and if a week or so passes, a polite "I don't want to pester you if you're uninterested, but I'm still very interested in you because of X and Y" can go a long way with me.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:34:25 PM

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You think when a Dom is ignored by a woman he simply tucks tail and slinks away? In your dreams.

By ignoring you, a woman is saying "no". You're saying that a "Dom" won't accept that "no" from a woman.

No means No.

No what? No conversation? You are sitting at a bar and a guy walks up and strikes up a conversation do you look at him and say "no speakie to you, Dom, go slink away now!".

Sure.

"No speakie"? So, you think that submissive women can't compose a sentence and act like a child?

If I'm out at a bar, I'm out to have fun with my friends, not have conversations with random men. I have said and will say that I'm not interested in talking to someone. At that point, I expect him to respect my wishes and leave me alone.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:38:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath
You think when a Dom is ignored by a woman he simply tucks tail and slinks away? In your dreams.

By ignoring you, a woman is saying "no". You're saying that a "Dom" won't accept that "no" from a woman.

No means No.

No what? No conversation? You are sitting at a bar and a guy walks up and strikes up a conversation do you look at him and say "no speakie to you, Dom, go slink away now!".

Sure.

"No speakie"? So, you think that submissive women can't compose a sentence and act like a child?

If I'm out at a bar, I'm out to have fun with my friends, not have conversations with random men. I have said and will say that I'm not interested in talking to someone. At that point, I expect him to respect my wishes and leave me alone.

Because you are out with your friends does not mean you should be rude to men who express an interest. It lacks class.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:46:37 PM

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NONE of them are saying anything similar to the postings that you've made on this thread. Even when women have SHOWN you that they don't appreciate you continuing on, asking about their physical attributes, being rude by hitting on them, or being offensive, that it's a good idea to treat them that way. Do you honestly not get that women who are not interested in you do not want you to keep going?

If you have to try as hard to get women interested in you as you have on this thread, I don't think I want to know about the contents of your email. You really have women interested in you this way? I do know some women continue to respond to certain interactions for some of the Return To Sender fodder but that's usually for the comedy factor.

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NONE of them are saying anything similar to the postings that you've made on this thread.

I think in my previous post we see that is simply false.

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Even when women have SHOWN you that they don't appreciate you continuing on, asking about their physical attributes, being rude by hitting on them, or being offensive, that it's a good idea to treat them that way. Do you honestly not get that women who are not interested in you do not want you to keep going?

Nonsense. Pure nonsense. I've never suggested to keep on "hitting" on a woman who does not appreciate the company or conversation. That's what we are talking about, conversation. Can you converse with men not in "your community". I am having my doubts.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:48:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath
You think when a Dom is ignored by a woman he simply tucks tail and slinks away? In your dreams.

By ignoring you, a woman is saying "no". You're saying that a "Dom" won't accept that "no" from a woman.

No means No.

No what? No conversation? You are sitting at a bar and a guy walks up and strikes up a conversation do you look at him and say "no speakie to you, Dom, go slink away now!".

Sure.

"No speakie"? So, you think that submissive women can't compose a sentence and act like a child?

If I'm out at a bar, I'm out to have fun with my friends, not have conversations with random men. I have said and will say that I'm not interested in talking to someone. At that point, I expect him to respect my wishes and leave me alone.

Because you are out with your friends does not mean you should be rude to men who express an interest. It's lacks class.

Most would view hitting on a married woman as lacking class. I know I do when I get hit on.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:48:43 PM

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No speakie"? So, you think that submissive women can't compose a sentence and act like a child?

No. Just you.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:51:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath
You think when a Dom is ignored by a woman he simply tucks tail and slinks away? In your dreams.

By ignoring you, a woman is saying "no". You're saying that a "Dom" won't accept that "no" from a woman.

No means No.

No what? No conversation? You are sitting at a bar and a guy walks up and strikes up a conversation do you look at him and say "no speakie to you, Dom, go slink away now!".

Sure.

"No speakie"? So, you think that submissive women can't compose a sentence and act like a child?

If I'm out at a bar, I'm out to have fun with my friends, not have conversations with random men. I have said and will say that I'm not interested in talking to someone. At that point, I expect him to respect my wishes and leave me alone.

Because you are out with your friends does not mean you should be rude to men who express an interest. It's lacks class.

Most would view hitting on a married woman as lacking class. I know I do when I get hit on.

Even then you don't know if they know. They are just conversing. Nice try. Squirm some more.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:56:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath
Here are some like views from others in past threads...

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2464924
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2465012
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2462885

Rather disingenuous, wouldn't you say?

One post is a single word answer that says "yes," that a reply shouldn't be expected.

One of the posts includes this: "I would say no, don't expect it, though yes, it would be nice."

The remaining says, "You can expect all you want. It doesn't mean that you'll get one."

NONE of them are saying anything similar to the postings that you've made on this thread. Even when women have SHOWN you that they don't appreciate you continuing on, asking about their physical attributes, being rude by hitting on them, or being offensive, that it's a good idea to treat them that way. Do you honestly not get that women who are not interested in you do not want you to keep going?

If you have to try as hard to get women interested in you as you have on this thread, I don't think I want to know about the contents of your email. You really have women interested in you this way? I do know some women continue to respond to certain interactions for some of the Return To Sender fodder but that's usually for the comedy factor.

I'm afraid not. All of them are saying something similar to my postings. For example in the first one, one of three you decided not to read entirely...

quote:

would say no, don't expect it, though yes, it would be nice. I have a tendency to ignore email, cmail, whatever-other-mail whenever I sense insincerity, but I say that right in my profile. Especially if you're being sincere, and it's been a week or so and you're still interested, drop another message with your previous one at the bottom (if it went unread)

The second post, the one word "yes" was another girl agreeing with the first post.

The third is from a Domme who agrees with the "tactic" of a second pass...

quote:

Dominant women get a lot of email, and if a week or so passes, a polite "I don't want to pester you if you're uninterested, but I'm still very interested in you because of X and Y" can go a long way with me.

As all can see, these ladies are expressing my views from the perspective of being on the receiving end of the cmail contact. They are reasonable and even encouraging a second cmail. They are classy and confident and no where near as touchy as some of you have been. I suspect there are many more classy submissive women out there without a hair trigger on their delete button.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 2:58:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath
You think when a Dom is ignored by a woman he simply tucks tail and slinks away? In your dreams.

By ignoring you, a woman is saying "no". You're saying that a "Dom" won't accept that "no" from a woman.

No means No.

No what? No conversation? You are sitting at a bar and a guy walks up and strikes up a conversation do you look at him and say "no speakie to you, Dom, go slink away now!".

Sure.

"No speakie"? So, you think that submissive women can't compose a sentence and act like a child?

If I'm out at a bar, I'm out to have fun with my friends, not have conversations with random men. I have said and will say that I'm not interested in talking to someone. At that point, I expect him to respect my wishes and leave me alone.

Because you are out with your friends does not mean you should be rude to men who express an interest. It's lacks class.

Most would view hitting on a married woman as lacking class. I know I do when I get hit on.

Even then you don't know if they know. They are just conversing. Nice try. Squirm some more.

Oh, trust me...I'm not squirming.

I find it interesting that you think saying that a woman saying that she's not interested lacks class.

This discussion is about continuing on after the woman has let it be known that she's not interested, regardless of the method. If a man is rude enough to continue on after a woman has let it be known that she's not interested (for whatever reason) He deserves to be treated rudely.

I'm just amazed that there is someone so socially stunted that they think that unsolicited interest from stranger demands another person's attention. (You must spend a lot of time talking with the solicitors that come to your door)

I also find it interesting that you think saying that a woman saying that she's not interested lacks class

You seem to feel that you're owed that attention and you think that being a "Dom" gives you a pass on respecting the wishes of the very women that you wish to attract.

Your target audience is telling you what is going on....and you're just prattling on.

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 3/30/2016 3:07:09 PM >

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 3:00:21 PM

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you're not getting it, Oside Girl just spelled it out for you as well.

maybe you'll get it if a girl ever calls the cops on your because you don't want to take no, or being ignored as just that.

OsideGirl is solving a problem that is not there but deeply wants it to be. If you like to call the cops because men approach you then maybe you need help and maybe you don't get second cmails. Or first ones.

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RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would l... - 3/30/2016 3:02:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: ImperialPath
You think when a Dom is ignored by a woman he simply tucks tail and slinks away? In your dreams.

By ignoring you, a woman is saying "no". You're saying that a "Dom" won't accept that "no" from a woman.

No means No.

No what? No conversation? You are sitting at a bar and a guy walks up and strikes up a conversation do you look at him and say "no speakie to you, Dom, go slink away now!".

Sure.

"No speakie"? So, you think that submissive women can't compose a sentence and act like a child?

If I'm out at a bar, I'm out to have fun with my friends, not have conversations with random men. I have said and will say that I'm not interested in talking to someone. At that point, I expect him to respect my wishes and leave me alone.

Because you are out with your friends does not mean you should be rude to men who express an interest. It's lacks class.

Most would view hitting on a married woman as lacking class. I know I do when I get hit on.

Even then you don't know if they know. They are just conversing. Nice try. Squirm some more.

Oh, trust me...I'm not squirming.

I'm just amazed that there is someone so socially stunted that they think that unsolicited interest from stranger demands another person's attention. (You must spend a lot of time talking with the solicitors that come to your door)

You seem to feel that you're owed that attention and you think that being a "Dom" gives you a pass on respecting the wishes of the very women that you wish to attract.

Your target audience is telling you what is going on....and you're just prattling on.

Very well. Since we are on the subject of "prattling on", when did I suggest unsolicited interest from a stranger "demands" another persons attention?

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