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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

Well I can not believe that the OP was foolish enough to bring this thread back to life. I read it out to my son as a 'how not to'. He just pissed himself laughing. He's 22, and asked me if this guy is serious, not only for the original post, but for actually being daft enough to admit that he was ripped off yet again.

Needles

That's a very open Mother/son relationship. I don't think I could talk to my kids about that. But mine are all under 10

My son's farther wins no prizes with his son for dad of the year, and he lives literally around the corner from us, so I pull double duty. He's put us through hell. We were close anyway, but that just made us closer, and due to lies that my ex told my son I had to tell him the truth for him to understand what was really going on. My ex's plan backfired on him, but made my life easier, although putting me in a position with my son at the time I would not have chosen to be in.

These days our relationship is very much admired, and envied

Needles

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

If my male off-spring (who is your age, btw) were dumb enough to 'fall for it,' I would consider myself a failure as a parent.

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ORIGINAL: longs2serveBBW

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

If my male off-spring (who is your age, btw) were dumb enough to 'fall for it,' I would consider myself a failure as a parent.

So are your male offspring subs then? I'd really be interested to know as It's something I've often wondered about.

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ORIGINAL: Curmudgeonly1

I hope you've got broad shoulders, OPie. I bet you thought you were coming into a supportive, positive 'community', dincha?

I guess you've learned by now that all you'll get here is a bunch of neurotics desperate to make themselves feel better at your expense (it doesn't work, deep down they still know that they're inadequate) and fat whores.

You can tell they're fat because their pudgy little sausages keep mistyping whore as pro-domme.

Stick around, kid. It gets to be good for a giggle now and then when you're bored.

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ORIGINAL: Curmudgeonly1

I hope you've got broad shoulders, OPie. I bet you thought you were coming into a supportive, positive 'community', dincha?

I guess you've learned by now that all you'll get here is a bunch of neurotics desperate to make themselves feel better at your expense (it doesn't work, deep down they still know that they're inadequate) and fat whores.

You can tell they're fat because their pudgy little sausages keep mistyping whore as pro-domme.

Stick around, kid. It gets to be good for a giggle now and then when you're bored.

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Your username is apropos. Sorry for stepping on your lawn.

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ORIGINAL: longs2serveBBW
So are your male offspring subs then? I'd really be interested to know as It's something I've often wondered about.

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ORIGINAL: Curmudgeonly1

I hope you've got broad shoulders, OPie. I bet you thought you were coming into a supportive, positive 'community', dincha?

I guess you've learned by now that all you'll get here is a bunch of neurotics desperate to make themselves feel better at your expense (it doesn't work, deep down they still know that they're inadequate) and fat whores.

You can tell they're fat because their pudgy little sausages keep mistyping whore as pro-domme.

Stick around, kid. It gets to be good for a giggle now and then when you're bored.

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

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ORIGINAL: MariaB

A reputable pro Domme will likely take a deposit from a new customer because she's a busy lady and taking a deposit doesn't mean she has to lose out through 'no shows'. She will then take money up front before a session begins. If you know someone who takes money after, then you know someone who takes money after but that's not how it usually works in the world of pro Domming.

Exactly that.

It would only take a couple of people to not pay up for any woman in high demand, with expensive time and a lack of verifiable personal information about a new client to change her mind quite quickly about allowing new clients to pay afterwards. This would unfortunately be likely to happen on a fairly regular basis with new clients in a services before payment scenario in this industry.

I've been all over Europe and the UK with a bunch of truckers for more than 10 years that indulge in this sort of activity with regular monotiny and none of them pay up-front anywhere for anything when it comes to sex or sessions.
Whether that's private sessions, in a bordello, a street whore, a call girl, even in many red light districts.

It's always been service first, payment after.
Just like a restaurant, eat first then pay the bill.
Reason being, the client has the legal right not to pay if the service was not up to scratch or not as negotiated.

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ORIGINAL: Curmudgeonly1

And most people appreciate being reminded from time to time how easy it is to fall into this honey trap.

Despite what the professional trolls who try to dumbinate the boards want you to believe some very intelligent and ordinarily analytical and thoughtful people have been conned like this so don't let the arsewipes tell you it's some character flaw in you. These scammers are very, very good at what they do.
<snipped irrelevant & unprovoked lame attempts at ad hominens>

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ORIGINAL: Curmudgeonly1

That's lovely, dear.

Could you grab me a beer while you're in the kitchen making my sammich please?

There's a good girl.