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horshamwhore -> Sub space (8/21/2016 12:15:20 AM)
During a session of play i literally flew into sub space i have never been this far before but unfortunately it feels as though i have crash landed back into vanilla world and i am full of negative feelings any other sub/slaves experienced this before? I am new on the scene

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Sub space (8/21/2016 12:28:42 AM)
Yeah, it's called sub drop, it's pretty common (common enough to have it's own term).

LilJuly76 -> RE: Sub space (8/21/2016 2:59:37 AM)
yeah sub drop bites the big one. it works real well if it's hours later and my Dominant is still there to fix it but if we play hard I usually don't drop till the next morning, in which I'm instructed to call him immediately if it happens.

horshamwhore -> RE: Sub space (8/21/2016 3:31:05 AM)
Well at least i now know im not loosing my mind!! I feel so strange today full of negative crappy emotions! Hope i can shake myself out of it! Thanks guy's x

LilJuly76 -> RE: Sub space (8/21/2016 7:12:19 AM)
hopefully you have a good Dominant to help you through it, if you live with them than make sure he does what you need to help you through, if you don't live with them, give them a call, and if he doesn't know what he's doing than well I got nothing to say....

DesFIP -> RE: Sub space (8/21/2016 12:50:38 PM)
Nap, water, food, orgasm, chocolate

OsideGirl -> RE: Sub space (8/21/2016 2:12:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: horshamwhore Well at least i now know im not loosing my mind!! I feel so strange today full of negative crappy emotions! Hope i can shake myself out of it! Thanks guy's x Think of it as an endorphin hang over. Lots of water, Powerade helps me, and trying to keep my blood sugar as level as possible.

LilJuly76 -> RE: Sub space (8/21/2016 3:02:27 PM)
also listen to happy music, helps me, if I listen to sad music it gets worse.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Sub space (8/21/2016 7:46:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Nap, water, food, orgasm, chocolate The universal cure-all. [:D]

horshamwhore -> RE: Sub space (8/22/2016 10:58:14 AM)
Thanks guys thankfully short lived feel so much better today! Was not very nice at all!! I was informed about the high not the low so kinda u expected! But makes sense you've gotta come down after any high i guess x x x

LilJuly76 -> RE: Sub space (8/22/2016 1:48:44 PM)
did you let the person you played with know? it's their responsibility.

horshamwhore -> RE: Sub space (8/22/2016 2:41:47 PM)
At first i pushed him out because i was weirded out by the way i felt! As the negative emotions were actually about him and myself and i just didn't want to talk about how I was feeling in case i disappointed him! So i literally asked him to leave! The next morning he called and explained its normal etc and that l must not shut him out if it happens again! This is a very new relationship and I'm a novice to this lifestyle where he is very experienced however maybe should of warned me before that this could happen! At least if it happens again I'll be more equipped to cope! Being very sore emotionally screwed like that is not a good combination x x x

littleone35 -> RE: Sub space (8/22/2016 2:44:08 PM)
Water chocholate and cuddling helps m through. Mattt's littleone

LilJuly76 -> RE: Sub space (8/22/2016 2:56:39 PM)
not every Dominant is capable of getting their submissive into subspace, but yeah he's right not to push him away. Very good Dominants will take care of their submissives when they come back down. The negative feelings are unfortunately normal. Mine usually happens the next day so my instructions are to call him as soon as it happens. He always reassures me that I did nothing wrong and that I'm a wonderful slave etc and that really helps. at least you didn't do what I did the very first time I got into subspace, couldn't get a hold of the Dominant so when I dropped the next day, I spent 300 dollars at a sex store.

Gauge -> RE: Sub space (8/22/2016 3:16:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: horshamwhore At first i pushed him out because i was weirded out by the way i felt! As the negative emotions were actually about him and myself and i just didn't want to talk about how I was feeling in case i disappointed him! So i literally asked him to leave! The next morning he called and explained its normal etc and that l must not shut him out if it happens again! This is a very new relationship and I'm a novice to this lifestyle where he is very experienced however maybe should of warned me before that this could happen! At least if it happens again I'll be more equipped to cope! Being very sore emotionally screwed like that is not a good combination x x x Yes, he should have warned you that it can happen, but frankly, it is an easy topic to overlook, especially if you are new. As a dominant, talking to a new submissive, after talking about everything I could think of to teach her, I can see myself forgetting this. We are not perfect, believe that or not. [:)]

LilJuly76 -> RE: Sub space (8/22/2016 3:49:02 PM)
oh heck I used to think it was an old wives tale until it happened to me

cloverodella -> RE: Sub space (8/23/2016 1:12:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LilJuly76 at least you didn't do what I did the very first time I got into subspace, couldn't get a hold of the Dominant so when I dropped the next day, I spent 300 dollars at a sex store. my inquiring mind is dying to know... on what?

LilJuly76 -> RE: Sub space (8/23/2016 1:44:24 PM)
kinky outfits that I still have and hardly use, anyone a size one? oh yes and butt lube-don't ask

DocStrange -> RE: Sub space (9/10/2016 9:19:24 PM)
Chocolate is much cheaper :)

LilJuly76 -> RE: Sub space (9/11/2016 3:31:54 AM)
yes it is but I learned my lesson, don't do it again hehe

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