NookieNotes
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I'll agree with what's been said here. I'll also say this: Just like regular dating, it can take time to find the right one. Time and dedication. Use sites like this and FetLife. get out to local munches and actually meet people that do this in real life (you'll find that a lot of people online are just playing online, and don't really "do" this). Know the difference between dominant and top. A top will do the activities like spanking and flogging and fire play. A dominant is a mental leader and guide. This is good to know, because you may want to play with tops while exploring your options, and create a relationship with a dominant. OR, you may find you want just a top and not a dominant, or vice versa. Dominants may be tops and tops may be dominants, but they are not the same thing. Some people will be very good at getting your body reacting, but not so much your mind. Know the difference for yourself, and understand that is just another part of the search. *smiles*
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