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Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 6:35:22 AM

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Thought I would post this here.I need serious feedback from other s types.

My sub of over 2 yrs now has had an issue with orgasms.She can only do so with clit stimulation.I thought it would change over time but it hasn't and I am at a loss.Is there any fixing this or??

Thanks in advance..

RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 6:38:43 AM

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I believe different women have different orgasmic zones.

I have never experienced a vagina orgasm in my life either! It has to be gspot, clit or breast.

I know girlfriends who never experienced clit or vagina orgasm in their life and it became some strange spot, like neck or under the knees.

Every woman is different.

Also you need to check if she can cum through gspot. Because my theory is, most men's dick do not hit the gspot when penetrating. Thus some women who can cum from gspot like me, can't cum from penetrative sex at all, because it never hits the gspot. Whereas a finger which is more flexible can reach it and make me cum!

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 6:43:12 AM

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1. You talk about fixing it like she's broken. That's a sure fire way to keep her walled off from you.

2. Orgasms are not the be-all-end-all of sex. Relax. Does she even want to orgasm other ways?

3. Don't add any pressure. It will make orgasms more difficult.

4. Something that has really worked for women I know to unlock their potential is hypnotic orgasms and hands-free work. Once a woman can trust and cum that way, it can open them up to many possibilities and multi-orgasmic experiences.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 6:48:05 AM

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it can open them up to many possibilities and multi-orgasmic experiences.

But clitoral orgasms are multi-orgasmic anyway! And are seriously awesome!

Yea I agree about the point that, If she can clitoral cum, she is already having some of the best orgasms! It's like freaking awesome! That's what magic wands are for! Clitoral Orgasms that make you scream the house down!

OP Watch THIS and tell me this woman isn't having some of the best clitoral orgasms of her life! I am pretty sure she is just having clitoral.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 6:50:37 AM

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I don't see her as broken,so my choice of words may have been incorrect.Yes she wishes to experience orgasm in different ways and I only wish to help her not criticize or abandon.
Thank you for these suggestions and the enlightenment, I will explore them with her

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 6:55:18 AM

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Yes she wishes to experience orgasm in different ways and I only wish to help her not criticize or abandon.

I also suggest trying different types of dildos or vibrating dildos. And see if she can cum from that. I swear by different types of dicks, since they all come in different shape and sizes, ALL gives a different experience.
Those won't be clitoral orgasms if she orgase from any of that.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 8:55:13 AM

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I don't see her as broken,so my choice of words may have been incorrect.Yes she wishes to experience orgasm in different ways and I only wish to help her not criticize or abandon.
Thank you for these suggestions and the enlightenment, I will explore them with her

Since we don't know what you've tried, we can't really make suggestions. But, I will say that sometimes this is a psychological issue and seeing a therapist may help.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 9:56:47 AM

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From what I have read, 75% of women do not orgasm with normal PIV sex. Women orgasm with clit stimulation. So why are you concerned about her being normal? What is there to fix if she is normal? Why do you think she is lacking? Please don't tell us that you are making her feel inferior because she is normal.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 10:14:33 AM

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Is there any fixing this

Nope, because there is nothing to fix, nothing is broken

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 10:21:08 AM

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it can open them up to many possibilities and multi-orgasmic experiences.

But clitoral orgasms are multi-orgasmic anyway! And are seriously awesome!

Yea I agree about the point that, If she can clitoral cum, she is already having some of the best orgasms! It's like freaking awesome! That's what magic wands are for! Clitoral Orgasms that make you scream the house down!

OP Watch THIS and tell me this woman isn't having some of the best clitoral orgasms of her life! I am pretty sure she is just having clitoral.

Typically singular sweeping statement from you Greta.

My OH doesn't orgasm from cliteral stimulation and never has done.
It's not one of her zones that get her off.

If it works for you, then good luck.
But don't assume that your size fits all because it doesn't.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 10:50:08 AM

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Have you tried anal???
I orgasm from anal everytime

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 10:51:17 AM

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I'm a bloke. I can orgasm if I pull my trousers on too fast of a morning...

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 12:10:46 PM

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I'm a bloke. I can orgasm if I pull my trousers on too fast of a morning...

Hahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 12:34:41 PM

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There's nothing to fix.

Have you made sure she's thoroughly worked up before you insert your penis? Have you made her cum multiple times before insertion? Do you rub her clit during PIV intercourse? I would think having an orgasm, clitoral or otherwise, during PIV would help associate the two and make a vaginal orgasm more likely if that's something *she* wants.

Porn and erotica makes this big thing of man and woman cumming at the same time, but usually that just isn't the way it goes. And when it does happen for me, I'm no more or less pleased or satisfied.

For me, orgasms aren't the be-all-end-all for good sex anyway. I've has sex and cum 5 times and felt "eh" about it, and I've had amazing sex where I didn't cum at all. Sure, orgasms are great, but what feels good feels good.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 1:36:50 PM

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You are overlooking the largest sexual organ in the female (human) body. Her orgasm ends at her clit, it doesn't start there.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/20/2016 3:05:33 PM

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bloke is too funny, blimey ho!

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/30/2016 3:09:22 PM

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most woman like to have that thing licked an suck on the G spot an thy cum like that

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/30/2016 4:35:07 PM

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yeah don't put us all in the same dude who walks behind the rows

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/30/2016 6:49:18 PM

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most woman like to have that thing licked an suck on the G spot an thy cum like that

You can't suck on the G spot. Are you mental?

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/30/2016 7:09:32 PM

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most woman like to have that thing licked an suck on the G spot an thy cum like that

You can't suck on the G spot. Are you mental?

He must be some kinda sucker to pull that one off!

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