longwayhome
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ORIGINAL: DomStrictMale Older guys, unless filthy rich, usually can't get the young tight bodied chicks so they go for whomever will have them. A true BBW fetish is rather rare. There are plenty of younger and older guys who like larger women - for some of them it's a preference, for some it's a matter of precisely not having a preference so that they don't rule someone out just because they are larger. I don't happen to have a body shape preference and never really have. I do have a couple of physical preferences but overall body shape isn't one of them. That's nothing to do with who would "have me" and so my partners have not had a specific body shape in common. You will of course have to take my word on my own level of gorgeousness! I don't therefore think that what you say about older guys is true in terms of body shape, but it certainly is in terms of age, even if some people prefer a Daddy. It is a shame that someone with a preference for an athletic figure has a "preference" whereas we insist on saying that a guy who like big curves has a fetish. Sure for some men only really big women will turn them only, and the objectification amounts to a fetish, but we don't talk about someone having a fetish for thin, blond girls with big breasts (even though porn sites clearly cater for that "preference" as well as BBW). The sad thing is that social pressure and expectation often makes someone who is a BBW question the motivations of a guy who fancies them as if there were something wrong with him, whereas an athletic woman is less inclined to. And if you think money is the issue, just look at all the curvier women who make a living in the sex industry, sometimes far more successfully than their more athletic counterparts. It takes all sorts of people. Sometimes body shape is important, sometimes it's the evil glint in someone's eyes and their ability to see into your soul.
< Message edited by longwayhome -- 10/24/2016 4:51:47 AM >
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