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Kana -> RE: My Dom Hates Me (10/1/2016 7:23:33 AM)
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Cool.
So we go back to my question, why do you want to be a with a person that you feel you cant satisfy? and, moreso,
why be with a person that can't fill you but rather leaves you empty and questioning?
It's my experience that the first few months lots of"consequences or punishments or beatings or whatever the fuck you want to title the act occurs, then, as she gets to know me and my wants, y likes/dislikes and needs and tastes, she starts meeting my expectations and desires, things slide into place and the consequences diminish and eventually pretty much go away.
Here's a hint-if this is happening, communication is the answer.
If its past the few months mark, then likely one of two things is happening:
1-She is fucking obtuse or rebellious or for whatever reason incapable of meeting orders. This on rare occasion occurs, but it's more likely that:
2-He isn't a dominant and/or capable of training her properly due to lack of communication, consistency, vagueness and or general lack of keeping his house in order.
Despite what the guys say, my experience is that likely 9 times out of 10 its the latter (Because if it really was the former He'd have fired her worthless ass ages ago)
So why stay?
What are you getting out of this that makes you want to remain?
PS-Purely as an aside, I know a few chicks that love it when their guy hates them. They want nothing good, just blackness poured into and on them. That shit can be fucking fun.
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