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RE: Dominants that are sexual prudes - 11/1/2016 6:42:25 PM   
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Actually it was the "disinfecting" thing that turned me off.

I like cleaning myself with anti-bacterial soap. I disinfect myself and I have met men who refused to clean their cock with soap. And that would be deal breaker.

Usually, I'd love to personally clean their cocks myself, give them a little wank in the shower, but I like to personally wash them so I am assured they are clean.

Recently I learnt from was it Nookie? That this practice actually makes sense. Although she said some HIV strains that spreads to other parts of the body can't be killed with soap. But majority can.

Anyway, to me, responsible casual sex is not sexy if you really think of all the safety details involve and execute them accordingly.

But I think it's very clear that I am very unemotional towards sex. That's why I don't need feelings to have sex. I think it boils down to, the fact that I have been able to enjoy orgasms by myself since a child, so love has no relation to being able to feel pleasure.

I think it might be different for someone who first experienced sexual pleasure with a man. So they associated it with feelings and the man. But for me, Considering my I lost my technical virginity only at 20 yr old, which means it was the first time only at that age I experienced any form of penetration, and was cumming since 5 years old with continuous multiples. It's hard for me to correlate sexual pleasure with love. I just never experienced it in that order. Sexual pleasure came first for me. It never needed love since a kid.



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RE: Dominants that are sexual prudes - 11/1/2016 6:49:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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Actually it was the "disinfecting" thing that turned me off.

I like cleaning myself with anti-bacterial soap. I disinfect myself and I have met men who refused to clean their cock with soap. And that would be deal breaker.


Totally going on a tangent here, but you do realize that anti-bacterial soaps have been declared ineffective, are said to promote illnesses, and in some places are actually being banned?
http://www.fda.gov/ForConsumers/ConsumerUpdates/ucm378393.htm
http://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/five-reasons-why-you-should-probably-stop-using-antibacterial-soap-180948078/?no-ist

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RE: Dominants that are sexual prudes - 11/1/2016 6:52:17 PM   
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Totally going on a tangent here, but you do realize that anti-bacterial soaps have been declared ineffective, are said to promote illnesses, and in some places are actually being banned?
http://www.fda.gov/ForConsumers/ConsumerUpdates/ucm378393.htm
http://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/five-reasons-why-you-should-probably-stop-using-antibacterial-soap-180948078/?no-ist

Yes but that is only by American government. Our government disagrees. There are many medical stuffs like these that differing countries has different ideas on it's cause and effects.

Take Soy consumption for example. Some countries like New Zealand and Argentina got government health warning against it as it's artificially created milk, and not natural.

Whereas over here. I practically grew up drinking only soy milk. Never cow's milk. And I feel it's healthy. And we don't usually drink soy milk from supermarket preserved packages. We get soy milk freshly made everyday. Just squeezing the soy bean and adding water by machines, done on the spot for you, freshly made infront of you. Fresh soy. Just like freshly squeezed orange juice.

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RE: Dominants that are sexual prudes - 11/1/2016 6:57:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul
Totally going on a tangent here, but you do realize that anti-bacterial soaps have been declared ineffective, are said to promote illnesses, and in some places are actually being banned?
http://www.fda.gov/ForConsumers/ConsumerUpdates/ucm378393.htm
http://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/five-reasons-why-you-should-probably-stop-using-antibacterial-soap-180948078/?no-ist

Yes but that is only by American government. Our government disagrees. There are many medical stuffs like these that differing countries has different ideas on it's cause and effects.

Take Soy consumption for example. Some countries like New Zealand and Argentina got government health warning against it as it's artificially created milk, and not natural.

Whereas over here. I practically grew up drinking only soy milk. Never cow's milk. And I feel it's healthy. And we don't usually drink soy milk from supermarket preserved packages. We get soy milk freshly made everyday. Just squeezing the soy bean and adding water by machines, done on the spot for you. Fresh soy. Just like freshly squeezed orange juice.

Wow. Learn something new every day.

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RE: Dominants that are sexual prudes - 11/1/2016 8:49:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul
Totally going on a tangent here, but you do realize that anti-bacterial soaps have been declared ineffective, are said to promote illnesses, and in some places are actually being banned?
http://www.fda.gov/ForConsumers/ConsumerUpdates/ucm378393.htm
http://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/five-reasons-why-you-should-probably-stop-using-antibacterial-soap-180948078/?no-ist

Yes but that is only by American government. Our government disagrees. There are many medical stuffs like these that differing countries has different ideas on it's cause and effects.

Take Soy consumption for example. Some countries like New Zealand and Argentina got government health warning against it as it's artificially created milk, and not natural.
Actually the main reason soy milk is off the menu is because it depresses thyroid function, blocks oestrogen - thus fucking with your hormonal balance - and is linked to cancer. It is not a health food and NO-ONE should be eating it - particularly children.


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RE: Dominants that are sexual prudes - 11/1/2016 9:10:54 PM   
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Does this also hold for the unprocessed version of soy as edamame pods and beans?

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RE: Dominants that are sexual prudes - 11/1/2016 9:43:18 PM   
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Does this also hold for the unprocessed version of soy as edamame pods and beans?


Usually not, but not because it's unprocessed, but because when you eat it in its natural form, you tend to eat far smaller quantities of it. The same way natural plant sugars aren't bad when you eat them in their natural state, because dosages are much lower, but once you process and concentrate the sugar, it's much easier to get the bad effects because you're now eating them in obscene quantities.

Soy flour, milk, etc, has you eating soy -and all it's negative effects- in much larger quantities than you ever would eating them in their natural state -especially when you eat them as staples- which is exactly where the problem lays: excessive food consumption of any given food amplified all the things which are bad about eating that food, which ends up being bad with just about any kind of food out there (including 'healthy' foods). You need variety and diversity first and foremost, which is why any kind of processed food ends up being problematic (some such as soy and wheat more than others): it provides an excessive amount of calories from a single source, amplifying the bad, and making it less likely you'll eat a balanced diet overall, because you're getting a substantial amount of calories from only a few sources, and almost every source of food has upsides and downsides.

As such, unprocessed soy will still mimic your body's hormones, but when you're talking about eating such small quantities, there's actually evidence (from studies in mice, no evidence in humans other than anecdotal based on lifespans in populations in Asia with high consumption of soy products in their natural and fermented forms) that it offers some protection against certain forms of cancer.

Fermented soy products, such as miso, fermented soy sauce, and tempeh are generally considered safer than raw or processed soy products, because the fermentation process breaks down the phytic acid, and modifies some of the problematic soy proteins into safer forms.



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