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So very true, some of the things that really get me going these days I try not to think about to deeply, as they are kinda disgusting/revolting.

God, you should see the inside of *my* mind.

I think in a bizarre way it's a constant pursuit to get emotionally closer with the people you're playing with.

This instinctual feeling that "If I can share that with them, that side of me, and they still cherish me after we're done, what we have must really be meaningful, because it's not like I could just do this with anybody and have them still accept/respect/love me.".

Its why you get closer and closer to the edge while you get older. The stuff you did before, (and frequently) is normalized by repetitive, and so you get driven to seek a new horizon of 'extremer than before' in order to get that renewed feeling of 'taboos shared'.

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ORIGINAL: Gunshow

Butt switches exist. I can attest to that.

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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick
So very true, some of the things that really get me going these days I try not to think about to deeply, as they are kinda disgusting/revolting.

God, you should see the inside of *my* mind.

I think in a bizarre way it's a constant pursuit to get emotionally closer with the people you're playing with.

This instinctual feeling that "If I can share that with them, that side of me, and they still cherish me after we're done, what we have must really be meaningful, because it's not like I could just do this with anybody and have them still accept/respect/love me.".

Its why you get closer and closer to the edge while you get older. The stuff you did before, (and frequently) is normalized by repetitive, and so you get driven to seek a new horizon of 'extremer than before' in order to get that renewed feeling of 'taboos shared'.

That could very well be, it makes a certain amount of sense.

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No. necrophilia is a limit for me. However, I guess it depends on what one considers "worse".

Well, have you ever bonked an American?

Ooooonly joking ....

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick
So very true, some of the things that really get me going these days I try not to think about to deeply, as they are kinda disgusting/revolting.

God, you should see the inside of *my* mind.

I think in a bizarre way it's a constant pursuit to get emotionally closer with the people you're playing with.

This instinctual feeling that "If I can share that with them, that side of me, and they still cherish me after we're done, what we have must really be meaningful, because it's not like I could just do this with anybody and have them still accept/respect/love me.".

Its why you get closer and closer to the edge while you get older. The stuff you did before, (and frequently) is normalized by repetitive, and so you get driven to seek a new horizon of 'extremer than before' in order to get that renewed feeling of 'taboos shared'.

That could very well be, it makes a certain amount of sense.

Either that or you're just really fucked up in the head. ; )

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Have you?

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No. necrophilia is a limit for me. However, I guess it depends on what one considers "worse".

Well, have you ever bonked an American?

Ooooonly joking ....

Have you?

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If he's submitting to you sexually he's not a dominant, no.

Well tell that to MariaB because her husband is listed as a Dominant on their profile despite how she just described him for us here in this thread.

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Presumably she's quite keen for a label that excuses her from calling her other half a bottom given some of the shite she's been spouting at male submissives.

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I'm not sure if you were around at the time, WM ... but back in the days of yore, this sort of subject was hammered out repeatedly, and everyone would devote their profoundest thought to it. One of the assumptions was that, yes, if he was a submissive in the bedroom department, he was labelled a 'submissive'. I think that was pretty much taken for granted. He could be world heavyweight boxing champion, but he'd still be a sub.

One of the common conclusions though - and perhaps of more interest to tamaka - was the commonly-stated preference from femdoms in their 'ideal sub male'. This was of a male who was strong (howsoever defined) but who would submit to the femdom in question. They got off on a strong man who'd 'give up their strength' for them. A few femdoms would actually want to 'take' the man's strength from him forcibly, or by wile, but that was rare. Most of them seemed to want the man to give it away to them, willingly. Inspire it, that is.

For me, I worked it out long ago that being a sub male was inherently a paradoxical thing. There were two sides of you, that couldn't be homogenised into one, comfy, easy and logical state. Beneath that: I never have worked out how being a sub male is 'rational'. But, then, an awful lot of things we do that get our dicks hard or our growlers wet seem pretty damned impervious to rational explanation. Fortunately, one doesn't always have to explicate a thing one does in order to enjoy it.

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Presumably she's quite keen for a label that excuses her from calling her other half a bottom given some of the shite she's been spouting at male submissives.

I have been giving submissives males shite on here???

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The one thing that is seriously attractive in a guy is his fussiness

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ORIGINAL: WhoreMods

Tamaka, not you. Sorry that wasn't clear.

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speshul snowflake

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I meant speshul
I said speshul.

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Have you?

I *really* had to think about that one. No, is the answer. Canadian, French, German, Japanese, Irish, Zimbabwean .... But not American.

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Have you?

I *really* had to think about that one. No, is the answer. Canadian, French, German, Japanese, Irish, Zimbabwean .... But not American.

Saving the best for last?

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Saving the best for last?