I think this is a very common scenario.
Fulfill all your fantasies.
Then later, the real control sets in and if you disobey, he threatens to dump you as a form of exerting his control.
That's why I think it's important to make sure kink matches with each other first. Otherwise, you'd get too attached and then all these nonsense sets in.
Everything is an ultimatum.
Personally, if he is threatening to leave you IF you refuse to go through with this.
THINK very carefully about this person. After the piercings, he will come up with something else just as distasteful or worst, and then use the same old thing again. And all you have done is get yourself permanently pierced for nothing, just to have him threaten to leave again.
Personally, I'd call his bluff and tell him to go, and walk.
At times like this, you got to be tougher than him. And if he walks, then, well, end of the day, if someone keeps pushing boundaries by threatening abandonment, I don't know if there is a happy future with such a person.
< Message edited by Greta75 -- 11/2/2016 4:54:32 PM >