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pain - 11/10/2016 3:14:01 AM

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RE: pain - 11/10/2016 5:43:54 AM

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My eyeballs as of two minutes ago...

Might I make a suggestion, a bold one, have you ever contemplated using the space-bar?

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RE: pain - 11/10/2016 8:58:16 AM

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themostpainfullesttaskyouveeverrrrrcompleted

Reading this post.

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RE: pain - 11/10/2016 11:35:12 AM

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Oh that's easy:

I had a blunt knife tip jammed into the sinus cavities on my face hard enough to draw blood.

I tell ya, it's even worse then getting a needle pushed into your nail bed (of which I would have sworn to you beforehand that nothing could be worse... note to self: Don't tell sadists "You can't do anything worse to me than that.").

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RE: pain - 11/10/2016 1:41:57 PM

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As of now, getting my cunt caned

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RE: pain - 11/10/2016 11:42:18 PM

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clit clamp for me is the most painful.

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RE: pain - 11/10/2016 11:43:21 PM

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Oh that's easy:

I had a blunt knife tip jammed into the sinus cavities on my face hard enough to draw blood.

I tell ya, it's even worse then getting a needle pushed into your nail bed (of which I would have sworn to you beforehand that nothing could be worse... note to self: Don't tell sadists "You can't do anything worse to me than that.").

More painful than having tits nailed to the table or something?

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RE: pain - 11/11/2016 3:04:28 AM

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I found that less painful than the caning.

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RE: pain - 11/11/2016 6:02:32 AM

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I found that less painful than the caning.

What's that?

Tit nailed to table or clit clamp?

I've had my pussy caned before. But I guess depends on how hard.

Caning is like strokes.

But clamp is like continuous with no let up! Nearly fainted with clamp.

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RE: pain - 11/11/2016 7:59:48 AM

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Oh that's easy:

I had a blunt knife tip jammed into the sinus cavities on my face hard enough to draw blood.

I tell ya, it's even worse then getting a needle pushed into your nail bed (of which I would have sworn to you beforehand that nothing could be worse... note to self: Don't tell sadists "You can't do anything worse to me than that.").

More painful than having tits nailed to the table or something?

I don't have experience with that one specifically (husband vetos it out of fear for scar tissue), but I do with other body parts, and extrapolating from there I would say yes, I think it would be worse than that.

Tits nailed to table is basically just a big gauge piercing. And the pain from piercings are pretty direct and immediate, and quite manageable and dull right after the initial sting, so I imagine it wouldn't be too bad.

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RE: pain - 11/11/2016 2:46:08 PM

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Clover clamps on my nipples would be my most painful thing - I have quite large nipples and clover clamps are quite ...... unforgiving.
I feel as if I can't breath it is so painful.
Give me a good (or bad) caning any day...................

edited to add - that it is a great shame, because the idea of clamps makes me nice and warm all over - I just can't find any big enough that have a variable pressure twisty thing. *sigh*

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RE: pain - 11/11/2016 3:13:21 PM

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She isn't looking for female experience. She's run out of things to do to the "submissives" that pay for her cam sessions.

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RE: pain - 11/11/2016 3:22:45 PM

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She isn't looking for female experience. She's run out of things to do to the "submissives" that pay for her cam sessions.

Yeah we know.

But we can still steal the topic and try to make it into something interesting.

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RE: pain - 11/11/2016 6:26:04 PM

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Tit nailed to table or clit clamp?

Both actually.

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I've had my pussy caned before. But I guess depends on how hard.

yeah! i agree 100%

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But clamp is like continuous with no let up! Nearly fainted with clamp.

i find my clit goes numb after a while, but until it does, then i am with you, the constant unwavering pain really does put me over. I just found the caning more painful.

I guess it also depends on the clamp, i mean there is a HUGE difference between a wooden clothes pin and an aligator clamp, right. :)

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RE: pain - 11/11/2016 6:28:15 PM

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Tits nailed to table is basically just a big gauge piercing. And the pain from piercings are pretty direct and immediate, and quite manageable and dull right after the initial sting, so I imagine it wouldn't be too bad.

yeah, hurts like a bitch while getting nailed, but reduces to an easily manageable sort of ache pretty soon. However if they proceed to violently fuck the shit out of you as soon as you are nailed down, well then that is a different story.

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RE: pain - 11/11/2016 6:34:12 PM

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She isn't looking for female experience. She's run out of things to do to the "submissives" that pay for her cam sessions.

Yeah we know.

But we can still steal the topic and try to make it into something interesting.

Exactly!

It's rare we get to discuss the actual stuff we do and how it affects us. besides it will help any prospective dominant of any gender, seeing as we all have different things that we find the most painful. maybe the newbies will catch on that each of our bodies will react differently to different things. Which in turn may just teach them to experiment with each new sub.

Here's a follow up question. Do you find that what hurts the most varies depending on who does it to you? I don't mean because one person spanks harder, but does it matter who does it to you. I find it doesn't really hurt more, but I get off more when the Fella does shit to me. Something about being tortured by the father of my child sort of thing.

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RE: pain - 11/11/2016 7:39:05 PM

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Dammit. Posted with the slave's account.

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RE: pain - 11/11/2016 7:41:13 PM

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But clamp is like continuous with no let up! Nearly fainted with clamp.

i find my clit goes numb after a while, but until it does, then i am with you, the constant unwavering pain really does put me over. I just found the caning more painful.

I guess it also depends on the clamp, i mean there is a HUGE difference between a wooden clothes pin and an aligator clamp, right. :)

See, I've never had my clit clamped, but I've had a dude grab it and the upper part of my labia between his fingers (super strong mechanic's hands) and pinch/twist the shit out of it.

While it's a pain that certainly takes your breath away, it's also one I really like. I had my clit/pussy bruised for a week afterwards right where I put my hitachi, and it made for some of the most delicious masturbation ever.

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RE: pain - 11/12/2016 11:06:37 AM

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yeah, hurts like a bitch while getting nailed, but reduces to an easily manageable sort of ache pretty soon.

So any lasting scars left? How about internally (that you can tacitly feel under the skin)? How long did it take to heal? How deep in the breast did you nail (nipple area, or full breast tissue)?

I have the -somewhat annoying- situation of my husband not being a hardcore sadist. He lets me play with others, but only if they're like zero risk at any lasting marks/scars/etc. Everything needs to be healed in two weeks.
And even the two weeks is a new threshold since getting him a slave girl he can fuck with while I'm healing and 'not pretty'.

Though I do have some pretty nice marks right now from a scene 3 weeks ago where I got spanked with the sharp end of a knife, and he doesn't seem to mind those as much.

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However if they proceed to violently fuck the shit out of you as soon as you are nailed down, well then that is a different story.

If you don't do that, what's the point of the nails really?

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RE: pain - 11/12/2016 11:18:17 AM

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Here's a follow up question. Do you find that what hurts the most varies depending on who does it to you? I don't mean because one person spanks harder, but does it matter who does it to you. I find it doesn't really hurt more, but I get off more when the Fella does shit to me. Something about being tortured by the father of my child sort of thing.

It depends on what it is. I am both a masochist and an endurance bottom.

There's some kind of pain that just registers as pleasure for me, no matter what (heavy thud, punching on the ass, etc). With that sort of stuff, it matters very little to me who's doing it to me, because the thing itself is just nice.
I could do that sort of play with a Top I don't really like or respect, and as long as he did it right, I would still enjoy it, and enjoy it for its own sake about the same then if somebody who I really loved did it. However, in that type of play with somebody I don't respect (where it's the sensation only that counts, not my interaction with the Top) there needs to be no actual D/s component at all involved. Just strictly pain play, and don't try to Dominate me. At that point I'm really more in charge of the whole interaction though, because I'm basically just directing a Top to give me what constitutes to an erotic massage to me, even though the type of stuff I like in such a scene most people would already consider 'hardcore'.
If I respect the person, but don't have a real bond with him. there could be some D/s roleplay involve, but in the end I'd still very much be the one in charge, even if we play it differently, because I'd be very specific about what he is and isn't allowed to do.

Then there's other pain that I hate for the pain itself, but love to experience suffering for somebody else.
My endurance scale, where the pain becomes more real, and sometimes so real that it's not really at all mixed with pleasure for the sensation in and of itself anymore, needs a bond with the Top. The stronger that bond, the better the play, because the reason I like to go to that place of 'real' suffering is for his pleasure, so if I don't give a rats ass about the guy, and therefore don't care about his pleasure, it doesn't work because I don't get off on the pain for its own sake, I get off on experiencing the pain for him. D/s is essential for that type of play, because I need to fundamentally feel submissive to the guy, even if we're not doing any hardcore D/s play in that specific scene and it's more casual laughing and giving each other shit kinda tone.
In those kinds of situations, the men I play with basically have full consent to do anything they want. I don't direct the scene, or limited them, or have a wishlist of any way. The only real limits are legal stuff, and whatever limits my husband places on them (like scar risks).

Usually when I play with people I have a bond with, those two scales tend to mix up, and have quite a bit of overlap. It's not like we're just constantly either in "this pain gets me off without caring for the guy" land, or in "I hate this pain, but I love feeling it for him" land. It just kinda all blends together, and we go from one to the other and back a bunch. Ideally until it's really hard to tell when I am enjoying the pain for its own sake, and when I'm enjoying it because he's enjoying it.
However, with people I don't have a bond with the endurance play is always off-limits for obvious reasons.

I also don't always want to play hardcore. I can enjoy soft, gentle, sensual sensation play just as much, and hardcore extreme pain stuff. It all depends on my mood, and the energy I've got with the person I'm playing with that night.

Anyways... I don't know if any of that made any sense... it's hard to talk about this stuff.