Should I label myself a switch? I've decided to tag myself with "evolving" right now.
Part of me thinks - perhaps I just need firmer handling?
Throughout life, we should always continue to evolve.
The only thing that does not change, is that All Things Are Subject to Change.
(Paraphrasing somebody and cannot recall who.)
You can be a submissive-leaning switch, or "bottom" heavy in terms of BDSM activities.
You could be a dominant-leaning switch, or "Top" heavy.
Rarely are switches exactly a 50/50 split.
It helps others if you can assess a ballpark split ratio (75/25, 60/40, 50/50, 40/60, 25/75), but that would be for you to decide and to adjust this shifting ratio as you see fit.
For example, you may find a master with whom you do not desire to switch.
The good thing about having flexibility, is that you could find yourself a dom-leaning switch or a masochistic dominant; whereas the majority of submissive women would be unhappy if their master acted less than *domly* in their eyes.
Further, there is nothing wrong with indulging in experimentation safely, with a trusted, fluid-bonded partner.
It can be hard on male switches, more so on line than at IRT events; however, female switches typically do not run into nearly as much intolerance or disdain with the "You're just confused" stereotype.
Best of Luck,
Lisa & Cub
"The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman's heart."-- J.G. Holland