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Greta75 -> How true are these about men? (1/24/2017 5:01:20 AM)

http://edition.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/10/25/o.glass.ego/


1) So if you told a man to do something and he forgot to do it, and you call him irresponsible. That is the WORST possible word you could say to a man? Really? That he would be so focus on the word "irresponsible" to refer to EVERYTHING in his life?

It actually suggests it's much better to simply call him an asshole than "irresponsible".

Not that I've ever dated a man who is irresponsible to start with, to ever start saying that "word". I don't date irresponsible men.

2) So, if you got a man who likes leaving his clothes lying everywhere. The solution is not to nag at him to please pick it up in the future or accusing him of disregarding her feelings, but to simply pick up his clothes and burn them? Wow! Really? Does that work? And he won't get mad?






WhoreMods -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/24/2017 11:40:23 AM)

You do realise that when rm sees this, he'll explode?
[:D]



PeonForHer -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/24/2017 11:59:28 AM)

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So, if you got a man who likes leaving his clothes lying everywhere. The solution is not to nag at him to please pick it up in the future or accusing him of disregarding her feelings, but to simply pick up his clothes and burn them? Wow! Really? Does that work? And he won't get mad?


Strewth. Not mad ... shocked. I reckon I'd think I've got a psycho of some variety on my hands.



WickedsDesire -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/24/2017 1:05:02 PM)

WM I told you his bitch keeps him in a cage and she lets creature run feral one to thrice per day - do you disbelieve me...not a path I would chose myself...her name is Ms Blowup silent Dolly and I am not sure he could even take that one - no strap on needed for that one...oh, i had two of those in my lifetime... fair enjoyed them myself.

What mischief are you up to this eve wifey5?



MasterG2kTR -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/24/2017 5:53:51 PM)


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ORIGINAL: WhoreMods

You do realise that when rm sees this, he'll explode?
[:D]



yeah.....except he rarely trolls this forum....[:D]



Greta75 -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/24/2017 7:38:03 PM)

Oh come on men! Answer the question! Good idea or not? Or suicide to the relationship?



DaddySatyr -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/24/2017 8:16:45 PM)



1) For my part, being called "irresponsible" would generate a conversation. Calling me an "asshole" would generate a packing of the luggage and a call to the cab company and a hotel that accepts trash-talkin' ladies.

I believe the worst thing ANY human being can be called is "useless". Just stew on it. That's pretty devastating.

2) Wouldn't work with me, at all. It would generate a 9-1-1 (emergency) call for police and fire services and I would be pressing the charges.

I have an ex-wife that was verbally and physically abusive, all the time. While I gave as good as I got, verbally, she KNEW that I would never hit her back so she was more than happy to engage in the behavior until I stopped tolerating it and had her abusive ass arrested. That's when I found the real bias in the justice system in this country.



Michael



Greta75 -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/24/2017 9:46:23 PM)

DS

So interestingly, the advice given above I mentioned is by a psychologist who is a Male himself.

But it's interesting how you contradict everything he said about men.

I am thinking about the man who is probably closest to my heart today, and he is a self-proclaim asshole and he knows he can be one, and I do call him an ass when he is being an ass!

And I did call my x-husband "asshole" alot. But I am pretty sure he was okay with that, because he knew I was foul mouth like that before marrying me. I call my brothers who I love alot "assholes" too. And my brothers do address me as "bitch".

But there is alot of love behind those words. We would always have each other backs.

But yea, the burning of clothes thing! I was thinking, I know for certainty that if I did that to my x-dom, he would have rolled on the floor in laughter that I would do something so outrageous and then "play punished" me for it probably for weeks, he will make my life very uncomfortable haha.




DaddySatyr -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/24/2017 9:54:27 PM)


Psychology, Psychiatry, sociology and the like are NOT what I would call "hard sciences".

Their practitioners run the gamut of believes and techniques. There are still psychologists and psychiatrists that think the art began and ended with Freud. I think Freud was a drug-addled, Oedipal, hack that projected his issues onto the rest of mankind.

So, I can easily disagree with a "scientist" and not necessarily be "wrong". In fact, I think this guy is a flake; more "quack" than anything else.

While you and your loved ones may have an understanding of a particular word, I may have a different understanding. Did you ponder the word: "useless"? As a submissive, isn't that one of the worst things your man could call you?

For me, "asshole" is just one of those words I won't tolerate; especially from someone with whom I'm supposed to be engaged in a loving, caring relationship.

Each to their own, though.



Michael



Greta75 -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/24/2017 10:03:00 PM)

Actually, I have a verbal abusive dynamic with my x-dom. And "useless" is one of the words he used.

In a BDSM play, it would be like, he ask me to suck his cock to make him cum. But he will intentionally not allow me to finish the job, and he'll pull out of my mouth and fuck me until he cums. And then he will then call me, "useless slut, I had to make myself cum."

It was used quite frequently. The after care and everything made everything okay. I know he doesn't think I am useless.

I guess as with everything, it depends on the dynamic.

And different type of words will be more sensitive to different people.

The worst word for me is "fat" anything. But it stems from, I have been fat shamed by my own mother constantly since I was born. So it is something that distresses me alot. I know a few in this forum knows it and deliberately use it as a personal attack constantly on me.

Even if i see my mom today, her first greeting to me would be to look at me like the sight of me disgusts her and say, "Why are you still so fat?"

So first of all, I would never date a man who thinks I am fat to start with. Won't take that from a partner. And considering my x-dom really had quite a mouth on him, he instinctively know if he ever trespass the weight part, I would leave him immediately. I never have to tell him, I think he just knew.

Irresponsible, Useless, Dumb, whatever, all that, doesn't really bother me.



WickedsDesire -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/24/2017 10:18:00 PM)

Now, If a women of clarity asked this question...I think a man such as me would answer before shattering its loins into incomprehension and selling the remnants for a mad goat.

Are there any women of clarity here or men, other than me. I will wager complete shag all save the destitute and feeble nothingness at all
Wicked does yearn you know…but for more than wheelie-bin offerings of garbage – cal me picky eh!



WhoreMods -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/25/2017 4:54:40 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr
There are still psychologists and psychiatrists that think the art began and ended with Freud. I think Freud was a drug-addled, Oedipal, hack that projected his issues onto the rest of mankind.

You probably shouldn't be using Freudian terms like "Oedipal" to describe his psychology, then.



DaddySatyr -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/25/2017 5:05:53 AM)


Surely, someone as smart as you isn't conflating a reference to Oedipus (by myself and Freud) with the origination of Oedipus by Sophocles?

I mean, I'm flattered and all, but I should warn you that Freud didn't "invent" Oedipus Rex. He used that great work ... in fact, he co-opted it to explain and project his own psycho-sexual afflictions.



Michael



WhoreMods -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/25/2017 5:21:42 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr


Surely, someone as smart as you isn't conflating a reference to Oedipus (by myself and Freud) with the origination of Oedipus by Sophocles?

I mean, I'm flattered and all, but I should warn you that Freud didn't "invent" Oedipus Rex. He used that great work ... in fact, he co-opted it to explain and project his own psycho-sexual afflictions.



Michael

It's properly Oedipus Tyrannos (or King Oedipus in English): "Oedipus Rex" is an appalling mash up of Greek and Latin that I've seen goad Classicists into a fury. Sophocles originally titled his play Oedipus and the bit about his protagonist being the King was added centuries later to distinguish it from his other play about Oedipus. If you're going to resort to pedantic erudition in an attempt to look smart, try to get it right, eh?
The use of Oedipal as a term to describe a psychological condition, on the other hand was coined by Freud. Nobody used the term in psychology or psychiatry before Freud "co-opted" it.



ThatDizzyChick -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/25/2017 12:05:24 PM)

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So, if you got a man who likes leaving his clothes lying everywhere. The solution is not to nag at him to please pick it up in the future or accusing him of disregarding her feelings, but to simply pick up his clothes and burn them? Wow! Really? Does that work? And he won't get mad?

No, the solution is to gather them up, run them through the laundry, fold them, and put them away.



tamaka -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/25/2017 1:06:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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So, if you got a man who likes leaving his clothes lying everywhere. The solution is not to nag at him to please pick it up in the future or accusing him of disregarding her feelings, but to simply pick up his clothes and burn them? Wow! Really? Does that work? And he won't get mad?

No, the solution is to gather them up, run them through the laundry, fold them, and put them away.


You forgot to run the iron over them. ; )



Cell -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/25/2017 1:13:30 PM)

My advice is don't take relationship advice from a pyromaniac...

I thought I should actually read the article... strike my comment. She's not a pyromaniac, she's just an idiot...

Edit* further research... Carter is a dude... for fuck sake what's wrong with this guy... this article is written by an idiot for the consumption of idiots.



WhoreMods -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/25/2017 1:29:35 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Cell

Edit* further research... Carter is a dude... for fuck sake what's wrong with this guy... this article is written by an idiot for the consumption of idiots.

His woman burned his clothes, obvs.



Cell -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/25/2017 1:42:11 PM)

Probs.

I duno... I have to remind myself sometimes that not everyone thinks like I do (this stuff could be just the trick for some people) so maybe I'm being a bit harsh about the author/readers... but I also think that's something that Carter guy would benefit from doing too... Not all guys are the same.

That guy for example is a quack.



Greta75 -> RE: How true are these about men? (1/25/2017 4:33:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: tamaka


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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

quote:

So, if you got a man who likes leaving his clothes lying everywhere. The solution is not to nag at him to please pick it up in the future or accusing him of disregarding her feelings, but to simply pick up his clothes and burn them? Wow! Really? Does that work? And he won't get mad?

No, the solution is to gather them up, run them through the laundry, fold them, and put them away.


You forgot to run the iron over them. ; )


Lol!
The funny thing is. I honestly never ever dated a man who throws his clothes around to start with so I don't even know how I will feel about it.

All the men I have dated are even tidier than me. Even my x-husband, he loves everything tidy and organized. He would always throw his clothes into a laundry basket. My x-dom is x-military, so military guys are like fiercely neat. Trained by military.



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