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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/1/2017 3:20:21 AM   
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Me thinks he doth protest too much! Also you've just shown the greatest lack of maturity of anyone responding to this post.

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/1/2017 6:08:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

Me thinks he doth protest too much! Also you've just shown the greatest lack of maturity of anyone responding to this post.



Who the hell are you talking about missy?

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/1/2017 7:26:26 AM   
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Some women envy the male genitalia in an unhealthy way.

Not even remotely.

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ORIGINAL: LTE
Conversely, other women love themselves and also worship the male genitalia.

I love myself as a good human being. Cock worship; or more appropriately, the lack of it, doesn't enter into the equation. Ever.

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic
It is better than selfish partners.

A vibrator is better than a selfish partner.

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ORIGINAL: AussieSub75
You torture their genitals because they want you to, not because you want to.

Bullshit. Being a sadist, I do it for my pleasure. I enjoy cruelty.
Then again, I end up giggling like the (Johnny Depp) Mad Hatter's and (Heath Ledger) Joker's illegitimate love child. Cruelty amuses me.

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Who the fucking hell are you calling a sock you asshole dude bastard? I am no sock I am a thread contributor you scum bad. If anyone is a sock you half wit then it is you and others like you. Not everyone who writes or replies to a thread is a sock just because you happen to disagree with them you dope. You really need too grow up child, honestly you do and some other associated turds on here also.

Aw, did someone's feelings get hurt? Here's a cookie.



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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/1/2017 8:33:38 AM   
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It's just a sadist using parts of the body to their advantage to inflict pain.


Exactly so. I like the diversity offered in shapes, forms, textures and different skin offers a variety of opportunities to experience, experiment and explore. I enjoy the option of creating whimpers, moans or screams..and like I said ..which of those I elicit depends on my mood. Sometimes it will be none of those and others might see me indulge in a cacophony. I have been known just to slap a humbler on a guy and giggle while he tries to move around because its just funny and perfect when superficial fun with little effort is required.

Scenes involving intense psychodrama and pulling someone as far into space as they can handle...also fun but takes more effort and for me, usually more satisfying.





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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/1/2017 9:37:53 AM   
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If you're not intelligent enough to figure it it out, then you will stay uninformed.

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/1/2017 10:52:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble
Exactly so. I like the diversity offered in shapes, forms, textures and different skin offers a variety of opportunities to experience, experiment and explore. I enjoy the option of creating whimpers, moans or screams..and like I said ..which of those I elicit depends on my mood. Sometimes it will be none of those and others might see me indulge in a cacophony. I have been known just to slap a humbler on a guy and giggle while he tries to move around because its just funny and perfect when superficial fun with little effort is required.

Scenes involving intense psychodrama and pulling someone as far into space as they can handle...also fun but takes more effort and for me, usually more satisfying.

Thank you.

I do think there are certain sadists, both male and female, who get that certain niche that I am trying to express. It's not going to be within the confines of just doing what the other person enjoys. From my view, it's a little different.

One of my personal favorites of anything I've ever written on the site, was this weird thing about why I love the toy that you (generic you) hate. I love engaging in that.

There are totally people on this site that, if given the chance, I would absolutely engage in the kind of play that they hate in the moment.



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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/1/2017 2:56:16 PM   
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Breasts are not to be tortured. They are there to be kissed, fondled and nipples suckled.

Well there's one guy who ain't getting into my pants a second time.

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/2/2017 9:19:42 AM   
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because they can and they are just hanging there. men protect them as they are very sensitive as well as what gives them alot of pleasure. cbt can be a fun part of play bringing a heightened arousal.


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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/2/2017 7:40:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick
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Breasts are not to be tortured. They are there to be kissed, fondled and nipples suckled.

Well there's one guy who ain't getting into my pants a second time.

Wait... Did he get into them the first time??


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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/3/2017 1:46:27 AM   
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I don't know why so many straight men have such a hard time grasping that the male body is not necessarily ugly to a straight woman. Female. Heterosexual. Hello. How do you think the species survived this long? Why would a straight female rather be looking at a pussy?

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/3/2017 1:57:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: cloverodella


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

<FR>

I always wonder why threads like this are not directed at sadists in general, rather than asking the "why" of women? Unless somebody is talking about safety concerns, nobody bats an eye over things like breast or female genital torture. No claims of hatred or envy then. It's just a sadist using parts of the body to their advantage to inflict pain.




Your question assumes that they ask for actual understanding and not for wank fodder...

You're dead on for that second point.



You are both correct. And fishing for "ugly penis" humiliation apparently. But I'll have to be a disappointment, since I don't think penises are ugly. Wah wah, sorry! :p


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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/3/2017 4:16:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LisaSadistic


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ORIGINAL: cloverodella


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

<FR>

I always wonder why threads like this are not directed at sadists in general, rather than asking the "why" of women? Unless somebody is talking about safety concerns, nobody bats an eye over things like breast or female genital torture. No claims of hatred or envy then. It's just a sadist using parts of the body to their advantage to inflict pain.




Your question assumes that they ask for actual understanding and not for wank fodder...

You're dead on for that second point.



You are both correct. And fishing for "ugly penis" humiliation apparently. But I'll have to be a disappointment, since I don't think penises are ugly. Wah wah, sorry! :p




Whip my genitalia why don'y you missy?

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/3/2017 1:17:50 PM   
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Because my name isn't missy, and I don't even know you.

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/3/2017 3:18:08 PM   
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Myself, if I were to come across a woman who liked giving a man's bollocks a hard time, I'd assume it's mainly because a) there they are and b) because she can.

In general: I'd assume that women don't really understand bollocks, on account of they don't have them. They're a really delicate part of males' anatomies and that, in itself, must seem an odd thing.

You can't interrogate this sort of stuff too deeply. George Mallory when asked why he wanted to climb Everest, replied, 'Because it's there'. I think you get women who'll see a pair of bollocks and when asked, 'Why do you want to play with them?', will reply, 'because they're there'. Femdoms will just want to go a shade further, that's all.

Or so I've always vaguely assumed. I'm more interested in watching their faces as they do whatever it is they want to do.

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/3/2017 4:53:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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Myself, if I were to come across a woman who liked giving a man's bollocks a hard time, I'd assume it's mainly because a) there they are and b) because she can.

In general: I'd assume that women don't really understand bollocks, on account of they don't have them. They're a really delicate part of males' anatomies and that, in itself, must seem an odd thing.

You can't interrogate this sort of stuff too deeply. George Mallory when asked why he wanted to climb Everest, replied, 'Because it's there'. I think you get women who'll see a pair of bollocks and when asked, 'Why do you want to play with them?', will reply, 'because they're there'. Femdoms will just want to go a shade further, that's all.

Or so I've always vaguely assumed. I'm more interested in watching their faces as they do whatever it is they want to do.


Wrap them together tightly with tape and poke needles in them. I think your face would be more interesting to watch.

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/3/2017 5:08:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tamaka

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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Myself, if I were to come across a woman who liked giving a man's bollocks a hard time, I'd assume it's mainly because a) there they are and b) because she can.

In general: I'd assume that women don't really understand bollocks, on account of they don't have them. They're a really delicate part of males' anatomies and that, in itself, must seem an odd thing.

You can't interrogate this sort of stuff too deeply. George Mallory when asked why he wanted to climb Everest, replied, 'Because it's there'. I think you get women who'll see a pair of bollocks and when asked, 'Why do you want to play with them?', will reply, 'because they're there'. Femdoms will just want to go a shade further, that's all.

Or so I've always vaguely assumed. I'm more interested in watching their faces as they do whatever it is they want to do.


Wrap them together tightly with tape and poke needles in them. I think your face would be more interesting to watch.


The Japanese had a quaint cbt thing they did during the war. They inserted a glass rod up the urethra, and then smashed it with a hammer. That must have stung a bit.

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/3/2017 6:59:20 PM   
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I find myself shocked and dismayed at the lack of respect in some of the responses in this thread by some of the participants.
Asking a Mistress a question should be done with respect. I think showing respect will result in respect being returned.
Much of what I read seemed to degenerate into trading insults, which profits no one looking for an answer to the question.
The reasons a Mistress may, or may not choose to engage in this activity are as varied as the Mistresses and the slaves themselves.
I would not answer for a Mistress, but suspect that Their perception of male genitalia as valued or not, ugly or not, desirable or not is again, as varied as the Mistresses Themselves.
I would also think that the perception of a penis being 'ugly' is more likely to occur in the mind of someone who is transgendered who desires SRS or a pre-op transsexual who in unable to afford her surgery. Please forgive me if these two labels are the same as I'm unsure how to differentiate them.
I would also agree with the Mistress who lamented the lack of moderation that would normally have censured the discussion, or at least 'moderated' it.
Anyway, those are my totally unsolicited thoughts on the matter.
I'd like to offer my thanks to the Mistresses for their thoughts on this subject and the others who provided thoughtful comments as well.

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/3/2017 7:58:54 PM   
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I think I just sprained my optic nerves from rolling my eyes so hard.

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/3/2017 8:14:22 PM   
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I think I just sprained my optic nerves from rolling my eyes so hard.

Poor mistresses,having your ass kissed that hard has got to leave a bruise.

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RE: Why do Dominant Women enjoy whipping and torturing ... - 4/6/2017 12:43:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NoirMetal


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ORIGINAL: stef

I think I just sprained my optic nerves from rolling my eyes so hard.

Poor mistresses,having your ass kissed that hard has got to leave a bruise.


4th post, new to the board signed up recently, give her a break, I dropped her a note that it's not a BDSM event and that we're just exchanging information or discussing stuff, but it can be all a bit overwhelming, she's still a lot better than the socks and "I demand my kink to be serviced" types that seem to multiply like bunnies.

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