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RE: Your submission - 5/1/2017 2:59:18 PM

freedomdwarf1

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I think we need to rename danny as "dannyhasnoclue".

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RE: Your submission - 5/1/2017 5:11:19 PM

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Folks, we have dealt with Danny before. He is the same Danny that came on for awhile and used to blather on endlessly about his beloved Master and the blissful relationship they seemed to have and how he just blindly did whatever his perfect Master said.

Oh, and occasionally made time for not so blissful remarks regarding other posters.

He changed screen names a couple of times, I think because he got banned at least once. Hence the "not welcome" bit.

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RE: Your submission - 5/1/2017 6:50:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: DannyIsNotWelcom

People, I don't want to tell you what to do but if you call checking off items on a grocery list that was previously approved by you submission, what words are left if you do what you think your master wants you to do? The whip is a means of communication. It is not for the faint of heart but whether and when and how hard you get it sure tells you something.

Danny, I hate to break it to you. But this "slavery shit" ain't real!

A dominant only has a sub, IF the sub ALLOWS him and CHOOSES him to dom her.

So yes, alot of power are in her own hands regardless what. After all IF a submissive woman chose an extremely abusive Dominant, that onus is still on her, for making that bad choice. She is still responsible for her own life.

That's how it works.

I always say the "slavery" thing ain't real, because real slavery have no choices! Which is what you are suggesting.

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RE: Your submission - 5/1/2017 10:28:09 PM

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Typical clueless dominant

Manners. Manners, please.

I'm only familiar with female submissives. They are female first. I don't pretend to know what they as a general group want except for two things. Those are first for you to listen to them and second for you to talk to them. Everything else about these flowers will open up to you once you understand those two things.

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RE: Your submission - 5/2/2017 6:45:26 AM

DannyIsNotWelcom

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Danny, I hate to break it to you. But this "slavery shit" ain't real!

Greta, I hate to say it but you are in no position to break anything to me.

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I always say the "slavery" thing ain't real, because real slavery have no choices! Which is what you are suggesting.

That is exactly what I am suggesting. For the most part I don't even contradict what you are saying - far from it. (Also subscribe to every word that DaddySatyr wrote above. Show me where I went against that.) There is such a thing as an abusive master and the slave has a responsibility to look out for them and not pander to their evil ways. Actually, I am German (not Dutch, hello to the people who guessed it wrong) and in our constitution it says that human rights cannot be waived.

But, as far as you are saying that you always have a choice, that's simply not true. When my master says "On your knees, boy!" I am on my knees half a second later before I know it.

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RE: Your submission - 5/2/2017 6:53:41 AM

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But, as far as you are saying that you always have a choice, that's simply not true. When my master says "On your knees, boy!" I am on my knees half a second later before I know it.

Sorry Danny, you CHOOSE to obey - that's your choice.

Every sub/slave has that choice; no dominant can say that you have no choice.
It is errant of you to say that nobody has a choice.

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RE: Your submission - 5/2/2017 7:16:47 AM

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Every sub/slave has that choice; no dominant can say that you have no choice.
It is errant of you to say that nobody has a choice.

Well in that sense, sure, everybody has a choice. Bend over the chair or have your heart broken. I very much prefer to fetch the cane.

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RE: Your submission - 5/2/2017 10:01:55 AM

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There is no such thing as “slave” - only bad stereotypes and their misbegotten information: spreading their insane words to all who listen to waffle and fantasy.

All people have choice only an abusive person, bad stereotypes etc believes otherwise - same goes for victims-those prepared to allow that carnage.

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RE: Your submission - 5/2/2017 11:20:10 AM

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In summary. since you don't like the thought of actually being owned although you have fantasies about it, people who can pull that off must be either lying or in need of heavy medication.

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RE: Your submission - 5/2/2017 12:19:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1
Every sub/slave has that choice; no dominant can say that you have no choice.
It is errant of you to say that nobody has a choice.

Well in that sense, sure, everybody has a choice. Bend over the chair or have your heart broken. I very much prefer to fetch the cane.

No, there are more choices than that.

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RE: Your submission - 5/2/2017 1:28:50 PM

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No, there are more choices than that.

Describe them! Cough up some details.

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RE: Your submission - 5/2/2017 3:23:30 PM

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No, there are more choices than that.

Describe them! Cough up some details.

Really? You need someone to tell you that as adults, you have the choice to sit down and discuss issues like adults?

You have the choice to leave, if it's not working.

Life is not black and white. Relationships are not two dimensional.

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RE: Your submission - 5/2/2017 3:43:11 PM

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Really? You need someone to tell you that as adults, you have the choice to sit down and discuss issues like adults?

Yes, I am really completely unable to express myself. In six languages.

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RE: Your submission - 5/2/2017 3:47:54 PM

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Really? You need someone to tell you that as adults, you have the choice to sit down and discuss issues like adults?

Yes, I am really completely unable to express myself. In six languages.

Then it's even more of a shame that you seem unable to understand such a simple concept.

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RE: Your submission - 5/2/2017 6:03:17 PM

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To amswer the OP i am not sure what many subs wants, but this sub wants to be treated like a person get to the sub part later. Master and i talked Face to face for 16 hours over 3 days , to make sre we were in the same place with what kind of relatonship we wanted. Without all that talking i am not sure what would have happened. It worked because her we are 11 years later still goig strong.

Remembber the gril/woman is a person above all.

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