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Chaska -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 5:43:41 AM)

Welcome to the forum it is nice to see a new face.




longwayhome -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 5:55:03 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: heavyblinker

Greta, I know we disagree on many things, but I am absolutely certain that you would be a great lay for those who are interested and that you deem worthy.
Well, provided you don't offer a running commentary resembling what you've disclosed here, of course.


Lol, so liberals will hate me in bed after I sing praises of Trump. The funny shit, all the guys I naturally click with often happen to be naturally Right Leaning. Can't explain why. I never really get Left Leaning guys after the sexual questions to find the match, like after establishing that there is common ground in sex.

Even if it was European guys, I am even surprise I am meeting European guys who support Trump. And I usually don't tell them what I think first. I start by asking them what they think of Trump.

Have I ever had sexual compatibility, and then the moment we talk politics, things go south and I decided not to sleep with the guy anymore? Yes it happened. I remembered I had one British Dude who I have no idea how the topic change to Sarah Palin and he disparaged her so bad and also claiming Republicans are like pure evil. That was like, I guess I didn't feel comfortable with his point of view and with him anymore.

On the other hand, my BFF who is also one of my FwB is totally left leaning but we can disagree on politics in perfect harmony and still fuck. That's rare though, usually politics get quite heated.

The thing is, my BFF even though he disagree with me but he articulates his point of opposing view with so much rational sense. That I respect his view points. The other dude, I thought was raving bias lunatic.

And I also have men whom if I switch to political questions and absolutely refuse to touch any topics on religion or politics. That also, will never end up in bed. Because I feel like, what's going on? What are they afraid of?


Donald Trump as an aphrodisiac?

Well it might work for some!




Chaska -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 7:43:24 AM)

Personally I have a difficult time understanding why political views are a prekursor to personal and sexual relationships or why they have such adverse effects on them. If we were so completely identical it would be a boring world.
As an aside, I appreciate a wee bit of humor.




Lucylastic -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 8:06:03 AM)

FR
Im a flaming liberal and proud, my ex was devout catholic conservative.. I was in that relationship for 18 years. I dont regret it.

So for me, fuck buddies or relationships dont predicate on politics in the slightest.

Politics isnt a deal breaker in nookie,for me, but again it would depend how "opinionated" the person is about it.




heavyblinker -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 8:31:03 AM)

To be honest, there is no way I would ever enter into any kind of relationship, including friendship, with a person who could support someone like Donald Trump.
Supporting him is like telling everyone you're proud of being a fucking moron.

If you support the GOP but not Trump, it's not good, but at the very least I won't immediately conclude you're a fucking moron.

That level of stupidity is okay for a one night stand where I don't want to see her again, but I wouldn't feel good about myself in the morning.




Lucylastic -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 8:34:51 AM)

I dunno if he supported Trump, I cant see it, while he was very conservative, he had compassion and was involved in his church in helping the community all the years I knew him. He was a reagan man, but I dont think he would support what trump is.
I havent spoken to him in nearly two years so, its a guess.




Greta75 -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 8:36:32 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Chaska
Personally I have a difficult time understanding why political views are a prekursor to personal and sexual relationships or why they have such adverse effects on them. If we were so completely identical it would be a boring world.
As an aside, I appreciate a wee bit of humor.

When I ask someone for his political view.

I am only interested to hear how he articulate his views, whether is it in a rational logical manner or is it emotional. It speaks volumes to me about the person. I tend to like men who are less emotional in their views. So that part is eliminates men who form opinions emotionally.

Not what views he chooses, but how he reach that conclusion, that, those are his views and how he arrive at it. I can respect and admire the way a person mind works, but I don't have to agree with the conclusion of what he thinks ha ha.

It's why my BFF and I are like polar opposites in political view but except maybe he got a little frustrated with me about my pro-Trump stance. Him being American who lives outside of America, he felt he was really embarrassed about having Trump as a President when people ask him how did that happen ha! One time he was like, "This is not funny! That guy is a joke!" When I was gloating happily. He was such a strong Hillary supporter.







Greta75 -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 8:41:32 AM)


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ORIGINAL: heavyblinker

To be honest, there is no way I would ever enter into any kind of relationship, including friendship, with a person who could support someone like Donald Trump.
Supporting him is like telling everyone you're proud of being a fucking moron.

If you support the GOP but not Trump, it's not good, but at the very least I won't immediately conclude you're a fucking moron.

That level of stupidity is okay for a one night stand where I don't want to see her again, but I wouldn't feel good about myself in the morning.

Lol, because you are a very emotionally driven person :). But then that's how I feel about Muslim men. Refuse to have sex with one ever because I cannot understand what reasonable circumstances could a man possibly have in idolizing Islam as THE go to Religion.




ResidentSadist -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 8:53:00 AM)

Thank you for your wishes.

As far as sexual style goes, we are pretty eclectic. From romantic and seductive to resistance rape, it all depends on the mood and situation. The deal with the garage meeting was that we were crazy hot for each other and it was our first meeting. We were both past being romantic at that point because we had been trying to get together for a while, but schedules clashed and a couple weeks went by before our meet. We were so hot for each other, it's lucky I ran into her inside the garage instead of outside in the driveway.

I can't tell you how awesome it was to see her for the first time and discover she was hotter looking in person. I am not a shallow guy, driven solely by looks. But to have already fallen for someone's mind and heart from our conversations over the phone, then discover they are even more physically gorgeous than her pictures conveyed. . . wow. And she felt the same physical chemistry, so we couldn't get at each other fast enough. [:)]


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ORIGINAL: Greta75


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ORIGINAL: samdarella

It's been almost 5 years together now.

I am glad that you guys are still going strong. I was wondering why RS posted a topic like this.

You guys got a great story together, really standing strong together through thick and thin and I wish to see you guys make it through everything together!







heavyblinker -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 9:01:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Lol, because you are a very emotionally driven person :).


Haha... it's actually kind of cute when you try to act insightful-- like listening to a really naive child talk about something they're convinced they understand.
I bet you fuck with total abandon-- the crazy ones usually do.
[:D]




Chaska -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 9:13:13 AM)

Finally! We are in agreement on somethin, bout damn time. - LOL
It's difficult if not impossible to get along, much less have any kind of a relationship with someone that is so extremely opinionated they don't listen to the other party(s) point of view. To that end we also agree.

Thank you for the friendly/civil discourse. Hugs




Chaska -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 9:19:08 AM)

Congrats on finding another kindred spirit, wish you both the best in the years to come.




Lucylastic -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 9:33:22 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Chaska

Finally! We are in agreement on somethin, bout damn time. - LOL
It's difficult if not impossible to get along, much less have any kind of a relationship with someone that is so extremely opinionated they don't listen to the other party(s) point of view. To that end we also agree.

Thank you for the friendly/civil discourse. Hugs

I think we agreed on some things when you first started posting here.
:)
your welcome, my pleasure. And thank YOU for the post.




Musicmystery -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 9:35:27 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

You met online. You have the hots for each other. Would you fuck on the first date?

Sure, at least sometimes. I have. Handful of times.

Not sorry. It was great.

Sometimes a one night thing; sometimes the start of something.




UllrsIshtar -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 11:45:40 AM)


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ORIGINAL: longwayhome


Donald Trump as an aphrodisiac?

Well it might work for some!


Well... there's at least one guy trying to use Trump to get some kink going.

He posted a Craigslist add offering to let people spank him for voting for Trump:

http://www.vocativ.com/376387/craigslist-trump-spank-white-guy/




Greta75 -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 11:50:02 AM)


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ORIGINAL: heavyblinker

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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Lol, because you are a very emotionally driven person :).


Haha... it's actually kind of cute when you try to act insightful-- like listening to a really naive child talk about something they're convinced they understand.
I bet you fuck with total abandon-- the crazy ones usually do.
[:D]

Of course I fuck with total abandon. And scream the whole house down. That's the only way to have sex! If I am not getting murdered by orgasms continuously for hours, the guy is probably not doing a good job of fucking me properly.
And it's not crazy! It's called awesome sex!




Lucylastic -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 11:54:07 AM)


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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


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ORIGINAL: longwayhome


Donald Trump as an aphrodisiac?

Well it might work for some!


Well... there's at least one guy trying to use Trump to get some kink going.

He posted a Craigslist add offering to let people spank him for voting for Trump:

http://www.vocativ.com/376387/craigslist-trump-spank-white-guy/

LOL I bet he has fun




LadyPact -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 12:31:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
You met online. You have the hots for each other. Would you fuck on the first date?

While highly improbable, it's not entirely impossible.





MrRodgers -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 7:33:26 PM)

If you are not with the one you love...love the one you're with.

"Oh no, not on a first date !!" "Then how about the last one ?"





Greta75 -> RE: -=Would you fuck on the first date?=- (5/26/2017 8:04:39 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MrRodgers

If you are not with the one you love...love the one you're with.

This is like the super Asian spill for arranged marriages!
Love the one you're with! The Asian way! Ha!




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