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A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/1/2017 9:17:04 PM   
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Everyone know that there are 1,000 more male sub/slaves than there are Dommes.
So Domme's can charge astronomical prices.

However, when you talk to Domme's you begin to hear the same things:
** There are so many flaky men
** I can schedule 10 men and 1 may show up, if I'm lucky
** There are so many game players
** I'm not going to a guy's house - he might murder me.

So the idea is to require a Paypal deposit first to meet. The trouble is that most men won't do that. Plus, there are bold red letters saying not to send money to anyone.

To find a male submissive, who is willing to make a Paypal deposit, who won't murder or harm you, and have him as a regular is rare.
All of the sudden there are 1,000 more "Domme" than there are male submissives.

So why doesn't Supply & Demand work in that case?
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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/2/2017 10:44:09 AM   
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All of a sudden, what?

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/2/2017 11:38:41 AM   
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Yay, whinebucks is back...

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/4/2017 3:13:08 AM   
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and who are you to talk

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/4/2017 4:58:42 AM   
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So why doesn't Supply & Demand work in that case?

Because your premise is based on false assumptions.

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/4/2017 9:00:17 AM   
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Same with the corner store. Maybe they'll give you a card entitling you to one free donut with every ten coffees bought. But you seem to think they should pay you to drink their coffee. That's not how business works.

Or maybe, you aren't getting the free donut because you aren't as good a customer as you think you are.

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/4/2017 3:13:12 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

Everyone know that there are 1,000 more male sub/slaves than there are Dommes.
So Domme's can charge astronomical prices.

However, when you talk to Domme's you begin to hear the same things:
** There are so many flaky men
** I can schedule 10 men and 1 may show up, if I'm lucky
** There are so many game players
** I'm not going to a guy's house - he might murder me.

So the idea is to require a Paypal deposit first to meet. The trouble is that most men won't do that. Plus, there are bold red letters saying not to send money to anyone.

To find a male submissive, who is willing to make a Paypal deposit, who won't murder or harm you, and have him as a regular is rare.
All of the sudden there are 1,000 more "Domme" than there are male submissives.

So why doesn't Supply & Demand work in that case?



Well....uhhhmmm....it does.

As it would appear....you're still looking for some....and they still have (all of) it.

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/4/2017 3:23:40 PM   
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I find it odd that the OP seems to assume that all dommes charge. Pretty sure that isn't true.

Also pretty sure that there aren't one thousand more dommes than male subs.

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/4/2017 6:17:07 PM   
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I think you will find success if you are honest, forthright, respectful, and try to be interesting. There is no way to be satisfied with or be happy with a bought relationship. That is if it is a mutual relationship you want. If its just a casual scratch that itch relationship then be all means take some time to research Pro Dommes in your area but expect to pay a premium.

If there are none in your area then when you message women be honest in what you are looking for...and remember be interesting. There may very well be a Dominatrix that may enjoy a casual relationship.

Butch

< Message edited by kdsub -- 8/4/2017 6:20:19 PM >


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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/6/2017 6:57:44 PM   
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are you bothering me or everyone else?

snap that one up women- i just looked

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/6/2017 9:36:58 PM   
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OP, you don't have to pay anything if you walk up to any bitch and start having a toss while you perve. For self defense just use pepper spray.

Always works for me.

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/15/2017 11:48:09 AM   
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of course,Paypal con provide police with important leads once you murder the bitch!

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/21/2017 2:55:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub22

I find it odd that the OP seems to assume that all dommes charge. Pretty sure that isn't true.

Also pretty sure that there aren't one thousand more dommes than male subs.


I pay them anyway....I think it keeps the world in balance.

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/22/2017 3:03:02 PM   
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OooKkkkkkk........... in that case - I'm a domme - and you should pay me. Now, because we don't want the world to be unbalanced, do we?

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/22/2017 7:11:44 PM   
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OooKkkkkkk........... in that case - I'm a domme - and you should pay me. Now, because we don't want the world to be unbalanced, do we?


Well that is just it. I am willing to bet a very-very large portion of these "dommes" that charge, that the OP is referring to, aren't dommes at all. So it's not a case of supply and demand, is a case of scam and sucker.

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/23/2017 4:16:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: submgreenbay


quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub22

OooKkkkkkk........... in that case - I'm a domme - and you should pay me. Now, because we don't want the world to be unbalanced, do we?


Well that is just it. I am willing to bet a very-very large portion of these "dommes" that charge, that the OP is referring to, aren't dommes at all. So it's not a case of supply and demand, is a case of scam and sucker.


(Welcome to the 21st century).

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/23/2017 5:03:27 PM   
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If someone wants to be tied and beaten in just the way he enjoys, and someone does that for him in exchange for money to cover the time and tools used, how is that a scam? It isn't.

Again, if you go into Starbucks and order a frappicino, knowing from their menu that it's $5.50 plus tax, then how is it a scam and a sucker when you pay your money and get exactly what you ordered?

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/24/2017 7:48:28 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

Everyone know that there are 1,000 more male sub/slaves than there are Dommes.
So Domme's can charge astronomical prices.

However, when you talk to Domme's you begin to hear the same things:
** There are so many flaky men
** I can schedule 10 men and 1 may show up, if I'm lucky
** There are so many game players
** I'm not going to a guy's house - he might murder me.

So the idea is to require a Paypal deposit first to meet. The trouble is that most men won't do that. Plus, there are bold red letters saying not to send money to anyone.

To find a male submissive, who is willing to make a Paypal deposit, who won't murder or harm you, and have him as a regular is rare.
All of the sudden there are 1,000 more "Domme" than there are male submissives.

So why doesn't Supply & Demand work in that case?




All Dommes do not charge. In fact, few are pros, the many are simply women with a female dominating sexuality, just as there is a male sub sexuality.


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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/24/2017 9:06:52 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

Everyone know that there are 1,000 more male sub/slaves than there are Dommes.
So Domme's can charge astronomical prices.

However, when you talk to Domme's you begin to hear the same things:
** There are so many flaky men
** I can schedule 10 men and 1 may show up, if I'm lucky
** There are so many game players
** I'm not going to a guy's house - he might murder me.

So the idea is to require a Paypal deposit first to meet. The trouble is that most men won't do that. Plus, there are bold red letters saying not to send money to anyone.

To find a male submissive, who is willing to make a Paypal deposit, who won't murder or harm you, and have him as a regular is rare.
All of the sudden there are 1,000 more "Domme" than there are male submissives.

So why doesn't Supply & Demand work in that case?


You forget one important thing.
A lot of the "Domme" profiles on CS are owned by people who actually have hangy down parts and are in it for the $.

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/24/2017 2:03:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

If someone wants to be tied and beaten in just the way he enjoys, and someone does that for him in exchange for money to cover the time and tools used, how is that a scam? It isn't.



Speak for yourself, as that is not what I am seeking.

But your point is taken, as I suspect there are quite a few that want just that.

As for the other arguments;
Flaky men... yes there are also flaky women, game players exist in both sexes!
And believe it or not adding money/tribute to the mix doesn't necessarily change any of the above.

The bottom line, a shitty person can exist as male or female, dom or sub, pro or otherwise.


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