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RE: Collared slave that owns a sub. - 12/29/2006 7:23:42 AM   
sleazy


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Status: offline 		This is a topic that I have discussed in the past with partners and other folks on a purely intellectual/hypothetical basis, rather than with any intent. Each time I have figured that certainly what appears to be the best way for me/us at the specific time has been something along the manor house lines, that I would have virtually zero interaction with my subs sub, but all would be subject to my rules of the house. The theory has always been that the sub's sub would be primarily a domestic, and then as a sexual plaything for my sub I would not interact physically with the 3rd either sexually nor sceneing except possibly as an observor or mentor. Where my sub passed one of her duties, lets say cleaning the kitchen floor, to her sub, I could hold my sub liable for her subs failure. having a 3rd would be there as an aid, not an excuse.

I bet none of that makes sense, as I am more than a little tired and typed out, but shall continue to watch with interest.

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RE: Collared slave that owns a sub. - 12/30/2006 6:30:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddysmira
How do I keep up my Domme strength to my sub while showing my own sub side to my Master and not overstepping my boundaries?


I use a "middle management" comparison.

A person has employees who report to her, and a boss to whom she reports.  She interacts with each of them every day.  There are different behavioral expectations within each relationship, yet she has no problems with talking to a boss and an employee at the same time.

Each of our non d/s relationships have different behavioral expectations.  And we manage each and every day to keep them appropriately separate.  Why do the d/s relationships have to be different?

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RE: Collared slave that owns a sub. - 12/30/2006 6:32:31 PM   
ImpGrrl


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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

As a Slave, remember that your subs are really his subs. You have no subs.


That depends on the relationship, and the owner's wishes.

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RE: Collared slave that owns a sub. - 12/30/2006 6:36:51 PM   
ImpGrrl


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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

quote:

ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

As a Slave, remember that your subs are really his subs. You have no subs.


And having to have your Dom's permission to Domme another.. isn't really domination.. it's aquiesing to your master.  If your sub wants a Domme.. can he/she really believe he/she has the "real thing"? 


When/if we're talking *relationships*, and not an occasional play session, the above is a completely false assumption.

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