From: a mean old Daddy, but I like you - Joni Mitchell
You hit it square on. A guy wouldn't use the term thick as a fat insult. "Baby you are thick" is a compliment. By definition, and I quote "A "thick" girl has a curvy/slim waist with a big behind, hips, and thighs. Beyonce, Ashanti, and Kim Kardashian would be examples of being thick because they're not fat or skinny (they have hourglass figures)."
I think Nicki Minaj would be considered thick.
I agree that telling a girl she has a thick body part would be taken as an insult, as it is not a social norm. Even if you are like me and "thick thighs" are a massively hot sexy turn on. I wouldn't verbalize it without a definitive explanation first. And even then, she would have to be a rubenesque girl that is comfortable with her self image and aware of how sexy her thickness is. I love a plus sized girl with a nice phat bottom, big boobs and the plus sized sensuality to make it sexy. A girl like that can afford to have some belly on her because she has all those sexy female curves I love so much.
And fat is way different than phat. My slave wife is phat. A true Pawg and I just love it... she is sexy as hell.
Yes it is. I think it is regional and specifically originated from the US but maybe only specific parts. Because after googling too, many websites are claiming that when men say a woman is "thick", it's a compliment, to indicate that she got the perfect ratio of flesh on her bones that men like.
That if a man wanted to insult a woman for being fat, he would never use the word "thick". He'd just say "fat".
Definitely in my part of the world, describing a woman's body part as "thick" would be a clear insult. But ya know, sometimes, cultural differences on what "word" is considered a compliment is interesting.
And after being a part of this forum for many years. What Americans think is normal in America greatly differs from each other too, drastically, depending on where they stay, it seems.
It is a huge country after all.
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