NoirMetal
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ORIGINAL: NoirMetal Tamika understands things about this dynamic that seem to elude your limited grasp. It's part of the initial negotiations-not everyone wants a bossy bottom in the house. Dude you are the one complaining here about being unable to control your submissive. So I am just making sure that you don't take tameka suggestion to attempt to "break her" because you don't seem to know what you are doing. If you did, your bottom wouldn't be bossy towards you, you'd have her under control and you wouldn't be crying about your submissive trying to "dom" you over here. And I bet you don't even realise how undominant you are sounding. I've never met someone who was naturally dominant crying about being unable to get their submissive under control. Even if they aren't BDSM dominants, but just natural domineering men, they got things under control big time as they know what they are doing and what they want to achieve. There are quite a few dominant regulars on this forum alone, and you'd never see any of them complaining about being unable to control their sub. And blaming their sub for it. Greta, you seem to think that he's talking about a relationship he's been in for a while. He's just talking about the initial chats, discussions, and negotiations. A lot of 'slaves' have demands and expectations that are more fantasy than reality. Sadly, most of the males on the other side seeking a Dominant male aren't reality-based to begin with. They expect to be kept at home, completely naked all the time, yet have no real domestic skills. They don't want to work and expect you to support their lazy asses. And they have a laundry list of kinks they expect you to fulfill on a daily basis, including constant surprise bareback gangbangs. Oh, and then there's the ones that want you to buy them boobs too. Ain't nobody got time fa dat. None of that is how I want my life to be, nor does it have anything to do with what I need out of a slave. There's a huge difference in 'losing control' of a relationship and not wanting to even start one with the person. Yup.
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