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LadyPact -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 2:03:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83
You're generous. That photo is after lots of weight loss (and some gain). I cant remember the last time I weighhed less than 170.

You must be carrying more in the front (belly) that is harder to determine because of the baggy t-shirt. I'm guessing you might be on the shorter side, too.

Losses and gains won't be a part of estimating your weight if you go by your pants size that you wear right now. Of course, if your stomach area is greater than your waist, you might have to work with the higher end of the weight chart but you'll still be reasonable close.





Drakvampire -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 2:41:47 PM)

You will find that photo of him fake and he mocks strokes. And you know how I feel about that. You have him in hand?




Drakvampire -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 3:05:10 PM)

call me I am sure all women on here do




Drakvampire -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 3:06:32 PM)

He is too handsome for me did he woo you@?
i always wanted to be wooed




Drakvampire -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 3:12:28 PM)

Begin with I am




Drakvampire -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 3:14:15 PM)

Then I like to jump up and down abit




Drakvampire -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 3:30:22 PM)

Silence

i was hoping for a tummy rub and cuddle




Spellbinder83 -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 3:36:06 PM)

How are you not banned?




Drakvampire -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 3:46:33 PM)

You have no you to offer and yet you dare sit in judgment of me I should bullwhip you into last week
But I am sitting at 13 years with not a solitary wench. And yet here I am.
And yet every lass on this forum is worth more than 1000 of you.

You can of course bow now to me?




Wayward5oul -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 3:51:20 PM)

He has been banned several times. He keeps making new profiles. Just ignore him.




Spellbinder83 -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 3:57:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83
You're generous. That photo is after lots of weight loss (and some gain). I cant remember the last time I weighhed less than 170.

You must be carrying more in the front (belly) that is harder to determine because of the baggy t-shirt. I'm guessing you might be on the shorter side, too.

Losses and gains won't be a part of estimating your weight if you go by your pants size that you wear right now. Of course, if your stomach area is greater than your waist, you might have to work with the higher end of the weight chart but you'll still be reasonable close.



IIRC, the t-shirt is untucked. I know I've been crass, but I'm here to stay. Being a master fulfills a need that I recently realized.




peppermint -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 7:42:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83

Just like the title says. Is something wrong with my profile? My approach? I hardly ever can get anyone to message me back.

EDIT - Slaves seem to hate one-liners, so I put the first few questions I want to ask them. I don't do forms, but the questions are usually similar. "Hello (name/title), how are you doing? What are your limits? Preferred kinks? How is your gag reflex? Do you have any objections to Relyfe Programming? Do not consent unless you know what it is." And anything profile specific. However profiles are generally generic and non-specific.

EDIT - this might help - http://collarspace.com/personals/v/678060/details.htm


I don't give out personal private information to online idiots. Look at a lady's profile and find something else that you can ask questions about that do not have to do with her personal private life. I answered a Dom who wrote to me. He saw that I enjoyed gardening and he did also. So he started asking me questions about my garden. If you start out asking those other questions then you'll be seen as a horny net geek. Being a dating site does not mean one has no private life.

By the way, that Dom and I did meet. We did some play together. We remained friends for 10 years. So look for interests such as gardening, or pets, or cooking.




DesFIP -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/15/2017 8:22:19 PM)

Most of our time together is not spent having kinky sex. We go out to dinner, to movies, watch tv, read books. Men always want to determine kink compatibility first but women want to determine vanilla compatibility first.

Which for many of us includes family, pets, hobbies, politics and so on. Since you want to attract women, not men, you need to write things that appeal to women.

The sample message you wrote makes me feel that you lack social skills. I will be generous and assume you lost them from the stroke. As part of your rehab, I would try to relearn them.




Spellbinder83 -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/16/2017 4:40:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: peppermint


quote:

ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83

Just like the title says. Is something wrong with my profile? My approach? I hardly ever can get anyone to message me back.

EDIT - Slaves seem to hate one-liners, so I put the first few questions I want to ask them. I don't do forms, but the questions are usually similar. "Hello (name/title), how are you doing? What are your limits? Preferred kinks? How is your gag reflex? Do you have any objections to Relyfe Programming? Do not consent unless you know what it is." And anything profile specific. However profiles are generally generic and non-specific.

EDIT - this might help - http://collarspace.com/personals/v/678060/details.htm


I don't give out personal private information to online idiots.
Well that was rude.

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Look at a lady's profile and find something else that you can ask questions about that do not have to do with her personal private life. I answered a Dom who wrote to me. He saw that I enjoyed gardening and he did also. So he started asking me questions about my garden. If you start out asking those other questions then you'll be seen as a horny net geek. Being a dating site does not mean one has no private life.

By the way, that Dom and I did meet. We did some play together. We remained friends for 10 years. So look for interests such as gardening, or pets, or cooking.
I'm not a dullard. They don't put vanilla stuff on their profiles.




LadyPact -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/16/2017 9:32:04 AM)

Ummmm, yeah. That's not entirely correct. Are you trying to tell me that NO women here have vanilla interests on their profiles? Heck, even *I* have vanilla interests on my profile. All a person needs to do is click on the "Interests" tab.

However, I'm not sure that you're really observing certain things. I mean, I have it right in my sig line that I delete emails from people that I don't know unread. Yet, you sent me email, anyway.




MsLadySue -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/16/2017 9:57:28 AM)

Master of what?




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Improving Reply Rates (10/16/2017 12:41:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83

I'm way fat in all my other pics. Can't take another because I can't walk currently. Recovering from a stroke. EDIT - What's wrong with my profile text?

Ah, so your picture is misleading, wonderful.
And the text is poorly written, it is disjointed and rambles around more or less at random.




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