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RE: what makes a good slave? - 11/26/2017 4:53:07 PM

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Your straight forward style isn't the problem - the problem was that i had no idea what you found to be a problem in my original post. So, basically, your lack of communication skills on-line would be the problem. Unfortunately, i couldn't hear the rest of the conversation in your head to explain your post.

There was no conversation in my head. I merely made an observation.

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RE: what makes a good slave? - 12/10/2017 8:00:20 AM

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complete honesty

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RE: what makes a good slave? - 12/13/2017 7:40:22 AM

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thank you, shaita11, for commenting. complete honesty...what does that look like? i am assuming that, that would be in response to if i am asked something, and the rest of the time remain silent. how does one get to complete honesty? fearlessness comes to mind (grin)

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RE: what makes a good slave? - 12/13/2017 6:48:52 PM

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Someone mentally sound who wants a solid partnership with a leader type.

Wounded birds need not apply.

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RE: what makes a good slave? - 12/13/2017 7:44:59 PM

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Why do you expect not to be allowed to speak unless he asks you a direct question?
Is that your idea of a fulfilling relationship, not being allowed to share good news or ask for support on a bad day?

Some of us are required to speak up and tell our partners that we’re angry with them or that we aren’t in the mood for sex, but we really need a hug.

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RE: what makes a good slave? - 12/13/2017 7:49:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Why do you expect not to be allowed to speak unless he asks you a direct question?
Is that your idea of a fulfilling relationship, not being allowed to share good news or ask for support on a bad day?

Some of us are required to speak up and tell our partners that we’re angry with them or that we aren’t in the mood for sex, but we really need a hug.

Probably because we call that "vanilla" Desi. Some men like conversation and ideas when they are rested and ready to hear it......Not just another annoying,unscheduled outburst from the ""drama llama."

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RE: what makes a good slave? - 12/29/2017 6:44:37 AM

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For us, a good slave is motivated, before all, fully understanding her role in the household, knowing how to please the Masters, and finding primarily in the satisfaction of the Masters her own pleasure.

After, you can go in details like in a fractal pattern, but mainly, we expect that from a slave.

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RE: what makes a good slave? - 12/29/2017 11:22:48 AM

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hello, i am gem7. while i have been a member for several years, this is my first time posting.
i am in training as slave 24/7. i wish to learn more about serving, to improve my service to Master.
so i am asking, what makes a good slave? what qualities and attributes do you value in a slave? i realize that each relationship, Master, and slave is unique, however, i want to be the best slave i can be for Master, and would appreciate any comments intended to help me improve my service. thankyou for your time.

Pay attention to you Master’s habit and practices. Learn to notice the smalls things he enjoys as well as the big things. Pay attention to detail. Learn to anticipate what he wants and when he wants it. Does he want to read the newspaper when he get home from work? Have the paper waiting for him on a table by his reading chair. Does he like his toast buttered on one side or both sides? What does he like to eat for breakfast? How much cream and sugar does he like in his coffee? Each person will have their unique wants, habits, desires. If you can learn them and anticipate his wants, it can help. Also having honest conversations with your Master asking if what you are doing make him happy or is there something else you can do?

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RE: what makes a good slave? - 12/29/2017 12:19:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: NoirMetal

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Why do you expect not to be allowed to speak unless he asks you a direct question?
Is that your idea of a fulfilling relationship, not being allowed to share good news or ask for support on a bad day?

Some of us are required to speak up and tell our partners that we’re angry with them or that we aren’t in the mood for sex, but we really need a hug.

Probably because we call that "vanilla" Desi. Some men like conversation and ideas when they are rested and ready to hear it......Not just another annoying,unscheduled outburst from the ""drama llama."

Relationship skills are universal. If you aren’t interested in fulfilling your partner’s needs, don’t expect them to want to fulfill yours.

You can’t treat intimate partners as toys you put on a shelf, ignoring them until you want to play with them.
If you want that, then the relationship must be inherently casual, fuck buddies, NSA.

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RE: what makes a good slave? - 12/12/2022 7:51:01 AM

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Absolute obedience to your Master.

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