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RE: An American dialogue - 1/3/2018 2:39:37 PM   
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Oregon Bakery That Wouldn’t Bake a Cake for Same Sex Couple Loses Final Appeal
The now shuttered Sweet Cakes by Melissa, which refused service to and doxxed the gay couple will pay damages equalling $135,000
https://pdx.eater.com/2017/12/29/16830772/oregon-bakery-loses-appeal-gay-wedding-cake
This week, the Oregon Court of Appeals confirmed Melissa and Aaron Klein must pay damages equalling $135,000 for refusing to bake a wedding cake for a same-sex couple in 2013, to O reports. The Oregon Court of Appeals upheld a ruling that the Kleins’ now-shuttered Gresham bakery, Sweet Cakes by Melisa, violated the Oregon Equality Act, when it denied Rachel and Laurel Bowman-Cryer’s cake order based on sexual orientation.
The Oregon Bureau of Labor and Industries originally ruled against the Kleins in 2015, and this week’s ruling upheld that decision. Upon the 2015 ruling, the Kleins briefly refused to pay the damages demanded by the Oregon Bureau of Labor and Industries. That same year, the Kleins did pay the fine in full, plus interest, but soon after filed an appeal.
Before the Oregon Court of Appeals’s decision, the Kleins argued they had acted within their rights when they denied the cake order, seeking a religious exemption from the Oregon Equality Act. They also argued the Oregon Bureau of Labor and Industries had violated their free speech protections.
But on December 28, 2017, Judge Chris Garret of the Oregon Court of Appeals ruled the Kleins’ free speech rights had not been violated by the the Oregon Bureau of Labor and Industries, because its ruling "requires their compliance with a neutral law.” The Court also decided the Kleins provided no evidence to support their claim the State of Oregon had targeted them based on their religious beliefs.
Appeals court upholds fine against Christian bakers who refused to make same-sex wedding cake [Oregonian]


And that can change upon the decision by the SCOTUS in the Masterpiece Cakeshop case, no?



Different circumstances, so not necessarily.

Oregon pretty much had same-sex marriage as state law in 2008, so the Oregon Equality Act just went further to protect gay rights as equal rights.

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RE: An American dialogue - 1/3/2018 4:42:32 PM   
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And that can change upon the decision by the SCOTUS in the Masterpiece Cakeshop case, no?

Different circumstances, so not necessarily.


In other words, yes, Oregon's ruling can change upon the decision by SCOTUS in the Masterpiece Cakeshop case.

I never said it absolutely would. I said it can (which also implies that it's also possible that it won't change) change. So, you took to responding to tell me that, yes, it's possible.

Thank you.




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RE: An American dialogue - 1/3/2018 5:06:35 PM   
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FR,
Man oh man!! There is good reading out there!!
https://verdict.justia.com/2017/12/12/liberty-equality-sometimes-require-tragic-choices-just-not-masterpiece-cakeshop
https://www.frontpagemag.com/fpm/268678/gays-and-wedding-cakes-bruce-bawer

I wanted to say thank you for posting these two articles. I do admit to liking the first more than the second. Probably because I found the first more focused on points of law and very much in tune with many of the areas that have been discussed on this thread. (To me, that means at least some of our thoughts and ideas are on something of the right track when trying to talk about it here amongst ourselves.)
The second? I don't know if I would have used the term condescending as JVoV did, but I do think it applies. I came away more from it with this uneasy feel that there was definitely a 'chip on the shoulder' mentality from the author, and in this instance, I think it influenced his piece. Yes, I understand that it IS an opinion piece, but whatever is back there (from the author's past about the subject of marriage equality) might be almost considered baggage. This might have something to do with my personal opinion of authors who are quick to use terms as "the right" or "the left" with the implication that they are automatic derogatory terms and attach their own prejudices to them and my personal dislike of the tactic.


The "baggage" he has regarding marriage equality is that he is a married gay man who was pushing for marriage equality before it became a cause for liberals. "The left" and "the right" can be used as invectives, but they can also be used to generally point out a person's political leanings. We have ideas of the beliefs of those who are on the left or right politically.

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Mr Phillips actually has no problem selling homosexuals any of his baked goods. He just won't design one celebrating something his religious beliefs find offensive. The gay couple could easily have bought a cake from Mr Phillips. They (and nobody else) just couldn't get him to custom create one celebrating a homosexual wedding.

(Bold mine.)
I don't honestly know if this is the case. The man's been in business 20 some odd years, yes? In all that time, there weren't any same sex couples who purchased cakes for celebrating adopting children, housewarming parties, (aka the couple bought their home together) or anniversaries? Any kind of occasion where any same gendered couple obviously lived together and would be assumed to be engaged in a romantic/sexual relationship. It just seems weird to me that nothing ever came up until it was a wedding, which makes me wonder if it's *not* about the 'homosexual sex is a sin," and rather the ceremony. I still wonder things like had Phillips ever denied decorating a wedding cake in cases of het couples that lived together prior to getting married because that's also supposed to be the definition of living in sin.


I can't say one way or the other if any of those things happened. I do know there's no way I'd have gotten a custom-designed cake from a professional cake decorator to celebrate a housewarming. There is quite a difference between a wedding celebration and an adoption or first house. It's entirely possible, too, that Mr Phillips has decorated housewarming cakes, or adoption cakes for homosexual couples without even knowing the couple was homosexual.

I believe in the court documents, Mr Phillips stated he offered to sell them a non-custom decorated cake they make. And, they likely have a daily walk-in-walk-out business of baked goods that aren't custom decorated.

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Go to the Wedding cake page, there are pics of prior work and, at the top of the frame, a message: "Masterpiece Cakeshop is not currently accepting requests to create custom wedding cakes. Please check back in the future."

After thinking about this more since the last time we were interacting about this point, I have to give credit where it's due. This was a very strategic suggestion that must have been made to Phillips by the team arguing the case for him. Phillips is likely losing business during the interim of not selling wedding cakes at all. At the same time, it keeps him free of any additional discrimination complaints until the case is decided. It's a smart move.
One other thing I'd like to say. I realize that my posts on this thread make it exceedingly obvious how I would prefer the case to be decided. However, even aside from that, I find the case fascinating on just the legal aspects and the questions it has raised.


He has stated that he's lost 40% of his business since he stopped custom decorating wedding cakes. And, he chose to not create wedding cakes instead of risking being fined and losing his business if another homosexual couple came into his shop and asked him to custom decorate their wedding cake. If he wins, he will likely resume his wedding cake business. If SCOTUS rules against him, it's entirely possible he ends up going out of business.


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RE: An American dialogue - 1/3/2018 8:00:48 PM   
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That last seems rather disingenuous. In fact, as part of the original ruling, Colorado's CRC ordered that Masterpiece Cakeshop to change its company policies, provide “comprehensive staff training” regarding public accommodations discrimination, and provide quarterly reports for the next two years regarding steps it has taken to come into compliance and whether it has turned away any prospective customers. Instead, he's been challenging the ruling ever since.

The shop had reportedly refused same sex couples previously as well, but had no issues making the cake for a wedding for two dogs.

This is a business open to the public. As such, it is expected to treat all customers equally. If he cannot do that in good faith, because of his deeply held religious beliefs, then he needs to do the Christianly thing and glorify God by giving up those portions of his business and profits that may lead him into going against his beliefs.

Nobody ever said living your faith is easy, or that it would come without sacrifice of some sort along the way.

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RE: An American dialogue - 1/4/2018 1:11:15 AM   
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The "baggage" he has regarding marriage equality is that he is a married gay man who was pushing for marriage equality before it became a cause for liberals. "The left" and "the right" can be used as invectives, but they can also be used to generally point out a person's political leanings. We have ideas of the beliefs of those who are on the left or right politically.

We'll just have to disagree on the tone of the piece. I have no problem with us having different perceptions.

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I can't say one way or the other if any of those things happened. I do know there's no way I'd have gotten a custom-designed cake from a professional cake decorator to celebrate a housewarming. There is quite a difference between a wedding celebration and an adoption or first house. It's entirely possible, too, that Mr Phillips has decorated housewarming cakes, or adoption cakes for homosexual couples without even knowing the couple was homosexual.

Not to split hairs, but any cake that is ordered, rather than bought off of the shelf, is either a custom designed cake or a custom decorated cake. I'll also add that some people are more extravagant than I'd be for certain occasions, as the pictures from Mr Phillips' own gallery on the website makes obvious.

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I believe in the court documents, Mr Phillips stated he offered to sell them a non-custom decorated cake they make. And, they likely have a daily walk-in-walk-out business of baked goods that aren't custom decorated.

Based on what I've read, Masterpiece Cakeshop does a certain amount of walk in business. They have cake pops and cup cakes on several of the pictures that I've seen, as well as standard cakes displayed in the front case.

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He has stated that he's lost 40% of his business since he stopped custom decorating wedding cakes. And, he chose to not create wedding cakes instead of risking being fined and losing his business if another homosexual couple came into his shop and asked him to custom decorate their wedding cake. If he wins, he will likely resume his wedding cake business. If SCOTUS rules against him, it's entirely possible he ends up going out of business.

Stating he lost 40% of his business revenue since the case started isn't only from not doing wedding cakes. Granted, that's definitely a part of that 40%, as I would assume would be the same as any bakery that took one of the most expensive items (generally) off of the list of what is available. However, there are other factors to consider, so I don't want to be so quick as to determine that Mr. Phillips will be closing his doors if he loses. He's been managing to keep afloat during all of this, so hopefully, he'll continue to be able to do so with whatever decision is made.



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RE: An American dialogue - 1/4/2018 9:02:07 AM   
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That last seems rather disingenuous. In fact, as part of the original ruling, Colorado's CRC ordered that Masterpiece Cakeshop to change its company policies, provide “comprehensive staff training” regarding public accommodations discrimination, and provide quarterly reports for the next two years regarding steps it has taken to come into compliance and whether it has turned away any prospective customers. Instead, he's been challenging the ruling ever since.


Apparently, they've turned away every prospective wedding cake customer.

https://www.aclu.org/blog/lgbt-rights/lgbt-nondiscrimination-protections/masterpiece-cakeshop-case-what-you-need-know
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    [The Colorado anti-discrimination law doesn’t tell the bakery how to make its cakes. What it says is that if the bakery chooses to sell cakes, it can’t refuse to sell them to certain people based on their sexual orientation.
    [Italics mine]


And, change it's policies, it did. Do you have any proof that they are not in compliance with the Colorado CRC's orders? No? I didn't think so. Remember, it's "innocent until proven guilty" in the US. So, the default is that Masterpiece Cakeshop is in compliance with the CRC's orders. It's up to you (general usage) to prove they are not. Mr Phillips decided to stop custom decorating wedding cakes for every type of wedding. To that end, he is in compliance.

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The shop had reportedly refused same sex couples previously as well, but had no issues making the cake for a wedding for two dogs.


Nowhere in the Bible is there anything that says two dogs getting hitched or fucking is a sin in God's eyes. Yet, homosexuality is pretty clearly pointed to as a sin in God's eyes; in the OT and in the NT. Was the cake ordered? Was the cake made? I'm sure you won't be able to admit to it if you agree, but could it not be possible he "smelled a rat" and gave a quick quote because he knew it was bullshit?

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This is a business open to the public. As such, it is expected to treat all customers equally. If he cannot do that in good faith, because of his deeply held religious beliefs, then he needs to do the Christianly thing and glorify God by giving up those portions of his business and profits that may lead him into going against his beliefs.


They won't custom decorate a cake celebrating a homosexual wedding for any customer. That's pretty equal there.

I still think it comes down to typical retail sales (which he does not inquire about what the goods are going to be used for) and command work for hire.

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And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.


Yeah. That scripture applies. Oh. Wait. No it doesn't.




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RE: An American dialogue - 1/4/2018 9:28:43 AM   
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The "baggage" he has regarding marriage equality is that he is a married gay man who was pushing for marriage equality before it became a cause for liberals. "The left" and "the right" can be used as invectives, but they can also be used to generally point out a person's political leanings. We have ideas of the beliefs of those who are on the left or right politically.

We'll just have to disagree on the tone of the piece. I have no problem with us having different perceptions.


Not everyone on here can accept that, sadly.

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I can't say one way or the other if any of those things happened. I do know there's no way I'd have gotten a custom-designed cake from a professional cake decorator to celebrate a housewarming. There is quite a difference between a wedding celebration and an adoption or first house. It's entirely possible, too, that Mr Phillips has decorated housewarming cakes, or adoption cakes for homosexual couples without even knowing the couple was homosexual.

Not to split hairs, but any cake that is ordered, rather than bought off of the shelf, is either a custom designed cake or a custom decorated cake.


Are you making a bald joke?!?

Custom cakes are "made to order" and not your standard off the shelf fare. We agree on that. I'm not sure why you brought it up, though. If it was typical for the Cakeshop to have "generically" designed wedding cakes on their shelves and he refused to sell on to a gay couple, then I would absolutely agree the Cakeshop ran afoul of public accomodation laws. But, that is not what happened.
What I have yet to read or hear, is that Masterpiece Cakeshop has denied a homosexual, a bisexual, or a transgender person any generic baked good they sell because of the sexual orientation of the hopeful customer.

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I'll also add that some people are more extravagant than I'd be for certain occasions, as the pictures from Mr Phillips' own gallery on the website makes obvious.


Right?!?

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I believe in the court documents, Mr Phillips stated he offered to sell them a non-custom decorated cake they make. And, they likely have a daily walk-in-walk-out business of baked goods that aren't custom decorated.

Based on what I've read, Masterpiece Cakeshop does a certain amount of walk in business. They have cake pops and cup cakes on several of the pictures that I've seen, as well as standard cakes displayed in the front case.
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He has stated that he's lost 40% of his business since he stopped custom decorating wedding cakes. And, he chose to not create wedding cakes instead of risking being fined and losing his business if another homosexual couple came into his shop and asked him to custom decorate their wedding cake. If he wins, he will likely resume his wedding cake business. If SCOTUS rules against him, it's entirely possible he ends up going out of business.

Stating he lost 40% of his business revenue since the case started isn't only from not doing wedding cakes. Granted, that's definitely a part of that 40%, as I would assume would be the same as any bakery that took one of the most expensive items (generally) off of the list of what is available. However, there are other factors to consider, so I don't want to be so quick as to determine that Mr. Phillips will be closing his doors if he loses. He's been managing to keep afloat during all of this, so hopefully, he'll continue to be able to do so with whatever decision is made.


You are assuming there are former customers who no longer spend their dollars there because of Mr Phillips beliefs. I believe that would be a fair assumption. It would also be a fair assumption that there are new customers there because the support and agree with Mr Phillips. It happens.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chick-fil-A_same-sex_marriage_controversy#Chick-fil-A_Appreciation_Day
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    In response to the controversy, former Arkansas Governor Mike Huckabee initiated a Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day movement to counter a boycott of Chick-fil-A launched by same-sex marriage activists. More than 600,000 people RSVPed on Facebook for Huckabee's appreciation event.

    On August 1, 2012, Chick-fil-A restaurants experienced a large show of public support across the nation with the company reporting record-breaking sales. A consulting firm projected that the average Chick-fil-A restaurant increased sales by 29.9 percent and had 367 more customers than a typical Wednesday.


Plus, the custom decorated wedding cake business might have been the most profitable part of his business. It's entirely possible those profits are what kept his cakeshop afloat.I wouldn't be surprised at that, either. You've already mentioned how extravagant some people can get, and wedding cakes tend to be the most extravagant type of cake anyone orders. I made an anniversary cake once with fondant and buttercream icing. It was just a sheet of fondant draped on the cake, but it was marbled and I did make the buttercream in our wedding colors. That's when I found out that you can only have an extremely thin layer of buttercream under the fondant (almost like just a thin "adhesive" layer) or it will be a real pain in the ass to cut. Oh, I also found out that fondant doesn't really taste like anything and has a weird consistency. I never dabbled in fondant again. lol

p.s. The buttercream designs I made didn't really even resemble the basic designs I was aiming for. My un-extravangant eyes were still quite far beyond my talent level.


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RE: An American dialogue - 1/4/2018 9:30:53 AM   
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Sadly this is true... I just wish our Christian defenders, when it comes to discrimination against gays, would think on this awhile.


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RE: An American dialogue - 1/4/2018 12:17:10 PM   
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Are you making a bald joke?!?

Not in that instance, but I can promise you that I think I'm funnier than what I really am any time I'm under the influence of cold medicine.

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Custom cakes are "made to order" and not your standard off the shelf fare. We agree on that. I'm not sure why you brought it up, though. If it was typical for the Cakeshop to have "generically" designed wedding cakes on their shelves and he refused to sell on to a gay couple, then I would absolutely agree the Cakeshop ran afoul of public accomodation laws. But, that is not what happened.

I've never said it was. However, the entire question, from a legal standpoint, is does the same service have to be made available to everyone regardless of race, gender, or sexual orientation. We can't just look at can anyone buy a cake that was already made and for sale. The service part also includes custom ordering and creation of a cake according to Masterpiece CakeShop's own advertising.

I know... I know... I'm even going to save you the keystrokes. (See, now I think I'm being funny. ) "Mr. Phillips won't custom create cakes for anybody for a homosexual wedding." It's that qualifying word before "wedding" that has pushed this case to the Supreme Court in the first place. It's not the only word that has done so but it's certainly in there.

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What I have yet to read or hear, is that Masterpiece Cakeshop has denied a homosexual, a bisexual, or a transgender person any generic baked good they sell because of the sexual orientation of the hopeful customer.

This is just a thought. Would the parallel be that a hotel will rent standard rooms to gay people, but not a suite, and only on certain floors? The hotel would be satisfying the public accommodation requirement, but in essence would not be treating people equally.

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Right?!?

I did a serious eyeroll about the dog wedding thing mentioned.

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You are assuming there are former customers who no longer spend their dollars there because of Mr Phillips beliefs. I believe that would be a fair assumption. It would also be a fair assumption that there are new customers there because the support and agree with Mr Phillips. It happens.

I think there's both, which should be considered differently than the prospect of the income lost due to not selling wedding cakes at all. Personally, I think some customers would be lost and some would be gained, though we have no way to know just what the percentages would be.

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chick-fil-A_same-sex_marriage_controversy#Chick-fil-A_Appreciation_Day
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    In response to the controversy, former Arkansas Governor Mike Huckabee initiated a Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day movement to counter a boycott of Chick-fil-A launched by same-sex marriage activists. More than 600,000 people RSVPed on Facebook for Huckabee's appreciation event.

    On August 1, 2012, Chick-fil-A restaurants experienced a large show of public support across the nation with the company reporting record-breaking sales. A consulting firm projected that the average Chick-fil-A restaurant increased sales by 29.9 percent and had 367 more customers than a typical Wednesday.

An interesting comparison.

I do have to say that I didn't participate in the 'ask for only water at a Chick-fil-A' movement. I found the idea more punishing to the employees than to the corporation, so I wasn't really big on the concept.

Plus, the custom decorated wedding cake business might have been the most profitable part of his business. It's entirely possible those profits are what kept his cakeshop afloat.I wouldn't be surprised at that, either. You've already mentioned how extravagant some people can get, and wedding cakes tend to be the most extravagant type of cake anyone orders.
Sorry. Had to split the paragraph in half.

I would have to think that wedding cakes would fit the description. In any business, we have to look at cost to create the material vrs time. In my opinion, many people will spend more money on a wedding cake than almost any other occasion they will ever celebrate.

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I made an anniversary cake once with fondant and buttercream icing. It was just a sheet of fondant draped on the cake, but it was marbled and I did make the buttercream in our wedding colors. That's when I found out that you can only have an extremely thin layer of buttercream under the fondant (almost like just a thin "adhesive" layer) or it will be a real pain in the ass to cut. Oh, I also found out that fondant doesn't really taste like anything and has a weird consistency. I never dabbled in fondant again. lol

I'm going to say now that you are a braver person than I am.

If I can't live up to the same quality of a professional service done, I'll just pay somebody. When it comes to cakes for formal occasions, I have no problem saying I'm not the qualified person. Can I make a cake? Yes. Can I decorate it at the same level as a person who makes a living from it? No. And, I don't have delusions of grandeur thinking that I can or anything along those lines. I want the cake to look pretty and if I suck at that, I'll give the job to somebody else.

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p.s. The buttercream designs I made didn't really even resemble the basic designs I was aiming for. My un-extravangant eyes were still quite far beyond my talent level.

I find this to be completely reasonable.




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RE: An American dialogue - 1/4/2018 3:08:25 PM   
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Are you making a bald joke?!?

Not in that instance, but I can promise you that I think I'm funnier than what I really am any time I'm under the influence of cold medicine.
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Custom cakes are "made to order" and not your standard off the shelf fare. We agree on that. I'm not sure why you brought it up, though. If it was typical for the Cakeshop to have "generically" designed wedding cakes on their shelves and he refused to sell on to a gay couple, then I would absolutely agree the Cakeshop ran afoul of public accomodation laws. But, that is not what happened.

I've never said it was. However, the entire question, from a legal standpoint, is does the same service have to be made available to everyone regardless of race, gender, or sexual orientation. We can't just look at can anyone buy a cake that was already made and for sale. The service part also includes custom ordering and creation of a cake according to Masterpiece CakeShop's own advertising.
I know... I know... I'm even going to save you the keystrokes. (See, now I think I'm being funny. ) "Mr. Phillips won't custom create cakes for anybody for a homosexual wedding." It's that qualifying word before "wedding" that has pushed this case to the Supreme Court in the first place. It's not the only word that has done so but it's certainly in there.


As for the part I put in bold: not everyone (especially JVoV) recognizes a difference between something "off the shelf" vs. custom ordering. And, in my mind, that difference is huge and the part that matters in this case. The "public accommodation" - in my opinion - should not extend to custom decorated goods. Custom decorated goods are not available to everyone at any time. They are special orders and are very different from "off the shelf" goods.

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What I have yet to read or hear, is that Masterpiece Cakeshop has denied a homosexual, a bisexual, or a transgender person any generic baked good they sell because of the sexual orientation of the hopeful customer.

This is just a thought. Would the parallel be that a hotel will rent standard rooms to gay people, but not a suite, and only on certain floors? The hotel would be satisfying the public accommodation requirement, but in essence would not be treating people equally.


I don't think they can discriminate that way and not run afoul of the public accommodation laws. The rooms are there and for rent. I think a hotel's rooms would be more analogous to "off the shelf" goods, and not custom created special orders.

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Right?!?

I did a serious eyeroll about the dog wedding thing mentioned.


I'm sure there are people who will buy their pets cakes and stuff like that, and I'm sure there are people who choose to spend their money buying a custom decorated cake. I don't have that kind of money to spend on a custom decorated cake for a dog and wouldn't choose to do so even if I did. But, some people.....

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You are assuming there are former customers who no longer spend their dollars there because of Mr Phillips beliefs. I believe that would be a fair assumption. It would also be a fair assumption that there are new customers there because the support and agree with Mr Phillips. It happens.

I think there's both, which should be considered differently than the prospect of the income lost due to not selling wedding cakes at all. Personally, I think some customers would be lost and some would be gained, though we have no way to know just what the percentages would be.


I can agree with you on that point. I guess it might depend on when sales started to drop. If they didn't drop until after he stopped custom decorating wedding cakes, it would make a stronger case for the sales losses to be because of that.

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chick-fil-A_same-sex_marriage_controversy#Chick-fil-A_Appreciation_Day
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    In response to the controversy, former Arkansas Governor Mike Huckabee initiated a Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day movement to counter a boycott of Chick-fil-A launched by same-sex marriage activists. More than 600,000 people RSVPed on Facebook for Huckabee's appreciation event.
    On August 1, 2012, Chick-fil-A restaurants experienced a large show of public support across the nation with the company reporting record-breaking sales. A consulting firm projected that the average Chick-fil-A restaurant increased sales by 29.9 percent and had 367 more customers than a typical Wednesday.

An interesting comparison.
I do have to say that I didn't participate in the 'ask for only water at a Chick-fil-A' movement. I found the idea more punishing to the employees than to the corporation, so I wasn't really big on the concept.


I didn't participate in either the water only nor in dining there on that specific day. Back then, there was only one CFA that I knew the location of in my area, and it was 20 minutes away. I had better things to do than to protest/counterprotest. I now have one 5 minutes away, and another 10 minutes away (plus there are more in the area than back then). I had only been to a CFA once before 2012, and that was early 90's (it was inside a shopping mall, but has been gone for quite some time).

You think much further than most people do, I must say. The "water only" protest would be a big pain in the ass for the workers, and one day of sales isn't really going to hurt the owners. It might put a pinch on that franchisee, but it's not going to hurt Dan Cathy.

What really tickles me, though, are the "gas holidays" where you're supposed to not buy gas on a specific day, from any station. The morons think that's going to kill Exxon, BP, etc. What that does is change one day's worth of sales, and those sales still end up happening; just not on that one day. I laugh - hard - at people who push that stuff.

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Plus, the custom decorated wedding cake business might have been the most profitable part of his business. It's entirely possible those profits are what kept his cakeshop afloat.I wouldn't be surprised at that, either. You've already mentioned how extravagant some people can get, and wedding cakes tend to be the most extravagant type of cake anyone orders.

Sorry. Had to split the paragraph in half.
I would have to think that wedding cakes would fit the description. In any business, we have to look at cost to create the material vrs time. In my opinion, many people will spend more money on a wedding cake than almost any other occasion they will ever celebrate.


I've never spent on a cake anywhere near what was spent on my wedding cake. But, I'm not a cake guy; I much prefer pie. I can recognize the beauty and artistry that goes into most wedding cakes (and some other cakes), but I truly don't give a shit. It's cake. I think I watched one episode of Cake Boss (or whatever the cake show was with Duff). He made a really cool 4th of July cake that looked like a cannon, and it even shot fireworks. Neat, but unnecessary, in m opinion.

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I made an anniversary cake once with fondant and buttercream icing. It was just a sheet of fondant draped on the cake, but it was marbled and I did make the buttercream in our wedding colors. That's when I found out that you can only have an extremely thin layer of buttercream under the fondant (almost like just a thin "adhesive" layer) or it will be a real pain in the ass to cut. Oh, I also found out that fondant doesn't really taste like anything and has a weird consistency. I never dabbled in fondant again. lol

I'm going to say now that you are a braver person than I am.
If I can't live up to the same quality of a professional service done, I'll just pay somebody. When it comes to cakes for formal occasions, I have no problem saying I'm not the qualified person. Can I make a cake? Yes. Can I decorate it at the same level as a person who makes a living from it? No. And, I don't have delusions of grandeur thinking that I can or anything along those lines. I want the cake to look pretty and if I suck at that, I'll give the job to somebody else.


I knew it wasn't going to live up to the standards of a professional, but that didn't matter. It was a cake for my wife of 5 years, our two year old son, and me.

Fuck fondant.

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p.s. The buttercream designs I made didn't really even resemble the basic designs I was aiming for. My un-extravangant eyes were still quite far beyond my talent level.


I find this to be completely reasonable.


I've taken a Wilton class, but I don't have the patience to put the time and effort into it to make it look good. The instructor had been decorating cakes (including wedding cakes) for over a decade, so she's had a ton of experience. Plus, I wouldn't doubt for a moment she had creative artistic talent with her hands for drawing, etc. I give a damn good massage, but that might transfer to kneading bread dough more than decorating a cake (or damn near anything else).


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RE: An American dialogue - 1/4/2018 6:04:37 PM   
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I'm not even gonna attempt to deal with the quotes.

Any business that offers goods or services to the general public is a public accommodation, by definition. Cake is a good. Custom decoration is a service.

We are talking about a specialty food that is always a custom order. Not even Walmart or the neighborhood grocery store just has wedding cakes made fresh everyday for anyone that happens to walk in.

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RE: An American dialogue - 1/4/2018 11:01:46 PM   
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As for the part I put in bold: not everyone (especially JVoV) recognizes a difference between something "off the shelf" vs. custom ordering. And, in my mind, that difference is huge and the part that matters in this case. The "public accommodation" - in my opinion - should not extend to custom decorated goods. Custom decorated goods are not available to everyone at any time. They are special orders and are very different from "off the shelf" goods.

Ha! I don't even know if *I* understand. That's part of the question too, isn't it? One of many, really.

Is the case about religious freedom?

Is it about "art"?

Is it about equal treatment, rather than discrimination?

Is it about public accommodation?

All of these different aspects make the case interesting to talk about

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I don't think they can discriminate that way and not run afoul of the public accommodation laws. The rooms are there and for rent. I think a hotel's rooms would be more analogous to "off the shelf" goods, and not custom created special orders.

I'm looking for a good analogy that would reflect more of a 'it's available to you, but not to YOU' situation. It wouldn't be hard to look at even recent history regarding race but I don't want to go for the easy answer.

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I'm sure there are people who will buy their pets cakes and stuff like that, and I'm sure there are people who choose to spend their money buying a custom decorated cake. I don't have that kind of money to spend on a custom decorated cake for a dog and wouldn't choose to do so even if I did. But, some people.....

Someday, we'll have to have a talk about why I dislike shows such as "Keeping Up With the Kardashians" so much.

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I can agree with you on that point. I guess it might depend on when sales started to drop. If they didn't drop until after he stopped custom decorating wedding cakes, it would make a stronger case for the sales losses to be because of that.

I've refrained in prior posts discussing just how much I would be interested in having that kind of data. Yes, it almost sounds like an invasion of privacy regarding the customers of the shop who are one time customers, return customers, customers who wouldn't use the shop because of the case, or the case made them want to be customers of the bakery, but I would LOVE to know that kind of information. What little bit of inner geek that I have could have a blast with quarterly reports, customer feedback, and opinion polls.

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I didn't participate in either the water only nor in dining there on that specific day. Back then, there was only one CFA that I knew the location of in my area, and it was 20 minutes away. I had better things to do than to protest/counterprotest. I now have one 5 minutes away, and another 10 minutes away (plus there are more in the area than back then). I had only been to a CFA once before 2012, and that was early 90's (it was inside a shopping mall, but has been gone for quite some time).

Well, keep in mind, I lived in middle of nowhere Alaska at the time. It's not quite as altruistic as it sounds.

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You think much further than most people do, I must say. The "water only" protest would be a big pain in the ass for the workers, and one day of sales isn't really going to hurt the owners. It might put a pinch on that franchisee, but it's not going to hurt Dan Cathy.

Precisely.

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What really tickles me, though, are the "gas holidays" where you're supposed to not buy gas on a specific day, from any station. The morons think that's going to kill Exxon, BP, etc. What that does is change one day's worth of sales, and those sales still end up happening; just not on that one day. I laugh - hard - at people who push that stuff.

We agree again.

Buying gas on Wednesday or waiting until Friday to "make a statement" that we're not buying it on Thursday isn't really much of a thing. I don't see it the same as people choosing not to patronize any particular business.

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I've never spent on a cake anywhere near what was spent on my wedding cake. But, I'm not a cake guy; I much prefer pie. I can recognize the beauty and artistry that goes into most wedding cakes (and some other cakes), but I truly don't give a shit. It's cake. I think I watched one episode of Cake Boss (or whatever the cake show was with Duff). He made a really cool 4th of July cake that looked like a cannon, and it even shot fireworks. Neat, but unnecessary, in m opinion.

Unfortunately, I can't say I'm entirely with you here.

I'm shallow enough that if I'm hosting something, I want the food to look good, especially the desert. Not my area and certainly not at the level of Mr. Phillips.

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I knew it wasn't going to live up to the standards of a professional, but that didn't matter. It was a cake for my wife of 5 years, our two year old son, and me.

Fuck fondant.

p.s. The buttercream designs I made didn't really even resemble the basic designs I was aiming for. My un-extravangant eyes were still quite far beyond my talent level.

Oddly enough, the cake that was made for the wedding reception that MP and I had, was made by a friend. Anybody who's been in my home in the last fifteen years has seen a picture of it hanging on the wall. Could I have made it? No.

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I've taken a Wilton class, but I don't have the patience to put the time and effort into it to make it look good. The instructor had been decorating cakes (including wedding cakes) for over a decade, so she's had a ton of experience. Plus, I wouldn't doubt for a moment she had creative artistic talent with her hands for drawing, etc. I give a damn good massage, but that might transfer to kneading bread dough more than decorating a cake (or damn near anything else).

It's not in my skill set. I don't consider myself that artistic at all, which is probably why I have a certain appreciation for those who are talented in such a way.



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RE: An American dialogue - 1/5/2018 4:17:25 AM   
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I didn't participate in either the water only nor in dining there on that specific day. Back then, there was only one CFA that I knew the location of in my area, and it was 20 minutes away. I had better things to do than to protest/counterprotest. I now have one 5 minutes away, and another 10 minutes away (plus there are more in the area than back then). I had only been to a CFA once before 2012, and that was early 90's (it was inside a shopping mall, but has been gone for quite some time).

You think much further than most people do, I must say. The "water only" protest would be a big pain in the ass for the workers, and one day of sales isn't really going to hurt the owners. It might put a pinch on that franchisee, but it's not going to hurt Dan Cathy.

What really tickles me, though, are the "gas holidays" where you're supposed to not buy gas on a specific day, from any station. The morons think that's going to kill Exxon, BP, etc. What that does is change one day's worth of sales, and those sales still end up happening; just not on that one day. I laugh - hard - at people who push that stuff.



It's funny you touched on something that was a thought of mine that day and it "inspired" me into action.

I had never visited a Chik-Fil-A store up to that point. I knew there were a few in the area (three within a 20 minute radius). I heard about the protests and did a little reading about what it was about. As soon as I was finished, I headed out the door.

I was determined that every non-management worker was going to get a "tip" from someone , that day.

I drove to the three "local" stores and made sure everyone who was non-management did get a tip. It was a semi-expensive day for me, but I felt like the people who were most affected by the idiocy got something for their trouble.



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RE: An American dialogue - 1/5/2018 7:22:34 AM   
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I don't like ChikFilA, so I don't spend my money there anyway. The biscuits are too sweet, and their chicken sandwiches are too dry. I also think they're overpriced. Also, the one closest to me is always too slow, and overly crowded. But it's close to WalMart and Target, and the only ChikFilA for 15 to 20 miles around.

Give me a greasy spoon over a drive thru for breakfast any day, but if drive thru is the only option, I'm going to Hardee's. Breakfast Frisco, hash rounds, a couple of cinnamon raisin biscuits. Omnomnom.

If I am in the mood for a chicken sandwich, then I'll hit Checkers. The Spicy Chicken is good, and the Big Chicken Club is even better.

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RE: An American dialogue - 1/5/2018 12:08:11 PM   
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It's funny you touched on something that was a thought of mine that day and it "inspired" me into action.

I had never visited a Chik-Fil-A store up to that point. I knew there were a few in the area (three within a 20 minute radius). I heard about the protests and did a little reading about what it was about. As soon as I was finished, I headed out the door.

I was determined that every non-management worker was going to get a "tip" from someone , that day.

I drove to the three "local" stores and made sure everyone who was non-management did get a tip. It was a semi-expensive day for me, but I felt like the people who were most affected by the idiocy got something for their trouble.



Peace,


Michael


They take tips there? I honestly didn't know.

I was in a BK (that's Burger King for those in other places) last month. E and I placed our orders, and out of habit, I started looking around for a tip jar. Upon not finding one, I asked. The person behind the counter told me they didn't take tips there. I actually thought that was weird.




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RE: An American dialogue - 1/5/2018 12:16:57 PM   
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They take tips there? I honestly didn't know.

I was in a BK (that's Burger King for those in other places) last month. E and I placed our orders, and out of habit, I started looking around for a tip jar. Upon not finding one, I asked. The person behind the counter told me they didn't take tips there. I actually thought that was weird.





Actually, from my experience, most fast food joints don't allow tips because of distrust of (well ... everyone, really) the cashiers. The cashiers don't want to get "caught" putting cash in their pockets.

On the day I referenced, there was kind of no choice. In all three places, I went in and asked to speak with the manager. I told them what I wanted to do and in two of the cases, the manager gathered the whole crew (no more than six and that was just at one location. The other two had five, each) around and let me hand out the tips to the employees. I believe the third did the honorable thing (especially since I told one of the employees what I'd done).





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RE: An American dialogue - 1/5/2018 12:33:42 PM   
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I'm not even gonna attempt to deal with the quotes.
Any business that offers goods or services to the general public is a public accommodation, by definition. Cake is a good. Custom decoration is a service.
We are talking about a specialty food that is always a custom order. Not even Walmart or the neighborhood grocery store just has wedding cakes made fresh everyday for anyone that happens to walk in.


"Cake is a good." Yup. Aaaaand, he'd sell a "cake" to anyone.

Wedding cakes "are" a specialty order item. They are more than just a cake. When you order a customized wedding cake, you are ordering a cake, and the time, labor, and talent of the decorator. Which, oddly enough, is why it shouldn't be part of "public accommodations." How have you not gotten that yet?


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RE: An American dialogue - 1/5/2018 12:38:19 PM   
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They take tips there? I honestly didn't know.

I was in a BK (that's Burger King for those in other places) last month. E and I placed our orders, and out of habit, I started looking around for a tip jar. Upon not finding one, I asked. The person behind the counter told me they didn't take tips there. I actually thought that was weird.





Actually, from my experience, most fast food joints don't allow tips because of distrust of (well ... everyone, really) the cashiers. The cashiers don't want to get "caught" putting cash in their pockets.

On the day I referenced, there was kind of no choice. In all three places, I went in and asked to speak with the manager. I told them what I wanted to do and in two of the cases, the manager gathered the whole crew (no more than six and that was just at one location. The other two had five, each) around and let me hand out the tips to the employees. I believe the third did the honorable thing (especially since I told one of the employees what I'd done).





I'm kind of out of the loop about such things.

Keep in mind, in 2012, I was living in a very different place, and I probably couldn't have even told you where the closest Chick Fil A was, much less whether I could tip or not.


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RE: An American dialogue - 1/5/2018 1:08:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri
As for the part I put in bold: not everyone (especially JVoV) recognizes a difference between something "off the shelf" vs. custom ordering. And, in my mind, that difference is huge and the part that matters in this case. The "public accommodation" - in my opinion - should not extend to custom decorated goods. Custom decorated goods are not available to everyone at any time. They are special orders and are very different from "off the shelf" goods.

Ha! I don't even know if *I* understand. That's part of the question too, isn't it? One of many, really.
Is the case about religious freedom?
Is it about "art"?
Is it about equal treatment, rather than discrimination?
Is it about public accommodation?
All of these different aspects make the case interesting to talk about


It's about all of those things.

Obviously, it's about religious freedom, as it's a religious belief as the underlying reason Mr Phillips turned down a request to customize a cake.

Art? Sure is. If you use the very basic definition that if you get paid for doing something, you're a professional at it. In this definition, Mr Phillips is a professional artist, a professional cake decorator.

Who said:
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    The answer is simple, and timeless: a free society is based on the principle that each and every individual has the right to decide what art or entertainment he or she wants -- or does not want -- to receive or create. Once you allow the government to censor someone else, you cede to it the the power to censor you, or something you like. Censorship is like poison gas: a powerful weapon that can harm you when the wind shifts.
    ...
    The First Amendment is based upon the belief that in a free and democratic society, individual adults must be free to decide for themselves what to read, write, paint, draw, see and hear. If we are disturbed by images of violence or sex, we can change the channel, turn off the TV, and decline to go to certain movies or museum exhibits.

    We can also exercise our own free speech rights by voicing our objections to forms of expression that we don't like. Justice Louis Brandeis' advice that the remedy for messages we disagree with or dislike in art, entertainment or politics is "more speech, not enforced silence," is as true today as it was when given in 1927.


Granted, this was more about government censoring someone, but the opposite also rings true. Government can't force an artist to create art that he/she doesn't want to create.

Here's who said that: SOURCE

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I don't think they can discriminate that way and not run afoul of the public accommodation laws. The rooms are there and for rent. I think a hotel's rooms would be more analogous to "off the shelf" goods, and not custom created special orders.

I'm looking for a good analogy that would reflect more of a 'it's available to you, but not to YOU' situation. It wouldn't be hard to look at even recent history regarding race but I don't want to go for the easy answer.


I understand, and good luck.

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I'm sure there are people who will buy their pets cakes and stuff like that, and I'm sure there are people who choose to spend their money buying a custom decorated cake. I don't have that kind of money to spend on a custom decorated cake for a dog and wouldn't choose to do so even if I did. But, some people.....

Someday, we'll have to have a talk about why I dislike shows such as "Keeping Up With the Kardashians" so much.


Quite likely another area of agreement between us.

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I can agree with you on that point. I guess it might depend on when sales started to drop. If they didn't drop until after he stopped custom decorating wedding cakes, it would make a stronger case for the sales losses to be because of that.

I've refrained in prior posts discussing just how much I would be interested in having that kind of data. Yes, it almost sounds like an invasion of privacy regarding the customers of the shop who are one time customers, return customers, customers who wouldn't use the shop because of the case, or the case made them want to be customers of the bakery, but I would LOVE to know that kind of information. What little bit of inner geek that I have could have a blast with quarterly reports, customer feedback, and opinion polls.


LMAO!! You go!! I wonder if Masterpiece Cakeshop's regular (I don't recall the timeframe) reporting to the Colorado CRC will end up being open to public view. Or, if records are brought about in the SCOTUS case, if that'll end up being part of the public domain.

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I didn't participate in either the water only nor in dining there on that specific day. Back then, there was only one CFA that I knew the location of in my area, and it was 20 minutes away. I had better things to do than to protest/counterprotest. I now have one 5 minutes away, and another 10 minutes away (plus there are more in the area than back then). I had only been to a CFA once before 2012, and that was early 90's (it was inside a shopping mall, but has been gone for quite some time).

Well, keep in mind, I lived in middle of nowhere Alaska at the time. It's not quite as altruistic as it sounds.


How did you deal with the fucking cold?!?!? This current arctic bullshit we're going through is horrible. I don't want to do anything but work, discuss on here, and curl up under the covers. I have a cousin that lives in Erie, PA. They've gotten 101.5" of snow already, including one storm where they got 50" in 48 hours. Erie is in a shitty location if you don't like snow, as it's on the Eastern edge of Lake Erie. But, unlike Buffalo, it's sorta south of the Lake, so "lake effect snow" isn't quite as bad as places like Buffalo, but, damn! He supplements his income by plowing, so he's over his head in work, literally.

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You think much further than most people do, I must say. The "water only" protest would be a big pain in the ass for the workers, and one day of sales isn't really going to hurt the owners. It might put a pinch on that franchisee, but it's not going to hurt Dan Cathy.

Precisely.
quote:

What really tickles me, though, are the "gas holidays" where you're supposed to not buy gas on a specific day, from any station. The morons think that's going to kill Exxon, BP, etc. What that does is change one day's worth of sales, and those sales still end up happening; just not on that one day. I laugh - hard - at people who push that stuff.

We agree again.
Buying gas on Wednesday or waiting until Friday to "make a statement" that we're not buying it on Thursday isn't really much of a thing. I don't see it the same as people choosing not to patronize any particular business.

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I've never spent on a cake anywhere near what was spent on my wedding cake. But, I'm not a cake guy; I much prefer pie. I can recognize the beauty and artistry that goes into most wedding cakes (and some other cakes), but I truly don't give a shit. It's cake. I think I watched one episode of Cake Boss (or whatever the cake show was with Duff). He made a really cool 4th of July cake that looked like a cannon, and it even shot fireworks. Neat, but unnecessary, in m opinion.

Unfortunately, I can't say I'm entirely with you here.
I'm shallow enough that if I'm hosting something, I want the food to look good, especially the desert. Not my area and certainly not at the level of Mr. Phillips.


I will sacrifice the looks of the food for taste, flavor, and overall satisfaction. My Dad makes gnocchi and each one is almost exactly the same as the next, and is mouthwateringly amazing. When I make gnocchi, they are not the same size, shape, or weight. Some will look exactly like his, but the next one will be lumpy as shit. But, my gnocchi taste exactly like his, so I'm perfectly okay with how they look.

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I knew it wasn't going to live up to the standards of a professional, but that didn't matter. It was a cake for my wife of 5 years, our two year old son, and me.
Fuck fondant.
p.s. The buttercream designs I made didn't really even resemble the basic designs I was aiming for. My un-extravangant eyes were still quite far beyond my talent level.

Oddly enough, the cake that was made for the wedding reception that MP and I had, was made by a friend. Anybody who's been in my home in the last fifteen years has seen a picture of it hanging on the wall. Could I have made it? No.
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I've taken a Wilton class, but I don't have the patience to put the time and effort into it to make it look good. The instructor had been decorating cakes (including wedding cakes) for over a decade, so she's had a ton of experience. Plus, I wouldn't doubt for a moment she had creative artistic talent with her hands for drawing, etc. I give a damn good massage, but that might transfer to kneading bread dough more than decorating a cake (or damn near anything else).

It's not in my skill set. I don't consider myself that artistic at all, which is probably why I have a certain appreciation for those who are talented in such a way.


I can appreciate art in most forms. But, if I have any talent in an area, I can appreciate so much more those that are more talented than I, in that same, or similar area. I played trombone through high school. I was pretty darn good. Back then, I also played in my church's service band. The church was eventually blessed with a trombone player who had retired from playing professionally in a symphony. THAT GUY was amazing on the t-bone. Throw on some good jazz, big band music, marches, etc., and I can definitely enjoy and appreciate musical artists.

Unless it's country music or rap. Fuck country music and rap.


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  • Help for the truly needy
  • Limited Government
  • Consumption Tax (non-profit charities and food exempt)

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RE: An American dialogue - 1/5/2018 1:13:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JVoV
I don't like ChikFilA, so I don't spend my money there anyway. The biscuits are too sweet, and their chicken sandwiches are too dry. I also think they're overpriced. Also, the one closest to me is always too slow, and overly crowded. But it's close to WalMart and Target, and the only ChikFilA for 15 to 20 miles around.
Give me a greasy spoon over a drive thru for breakfast any day, but if drive thru is the only option, I'm going to Hardee's. Breakfast Frisco, hash rounds, a couple of cinnamon raisin biscuits. Omnomnom.
If I am in the mood for a chicken sandwich, then I'll hit Checkers. The Spicy Chicken is good, and the Big Chicken Club is even better.


Well, I can't agree with your not liking CFA's food. I think it's great. I do agree they're overpriced, though. If I'm going to have a chicken sammich (which isn't likely), I'm heading to Arby's where I can ditch the chicken sammich idea and get some great meats as sammiches. I used to frequent greasy spoons as the end of a night of partying (and I do have to say what I call "partying" is more like warming up for people who party). I can dig into that stuff.

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What I support:

  • A Conservative interpretation of the US Constitution
  • Personal Responsibility
  • Help for the truly needy
  • Limited Government
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