Whiplashsmile4
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One the evils in play here is the possible trapping of posturing.
The only way to find out is to actually try to engage in message exchanges and not go by purely what is written on a profile. It may stun you that there's a hell of a lot not written on a profile.
I myself can talk a lot of trash but I'm also after real communication too. A profile is always a bit of a facade to persons full psyche anyways. Just a mere fragment of the person you are dealing with. Keep this in mind and be bold enough to take the adventure and explore what's truly behind it.
I love to beat girls, piss all over them, whip, spank, flog and fist 'em. Call them dirty fucking worthless whores and drag them around by the hair and make them crawl on the floor, tie them up and stuff them into closets and shit. If post a lot of this shit on my own profile it does not mean I'm void of polite and civil conversation. This also does not mean, that other things don't matter to me either.
The bitch about profiles striking a balance between coming off bad ass enough for a response, or not bad ass enough to get a response to what one is looking for. Also, what is interesting is how a lot of these "desires" we all have actually over-ride certain emotional aspects, otherwise many people would be over at Match dot com and other places.
I'm going to copy paste something I wrote to somebody in an IM exchange not too long ago, for some insight.
"It's about a connection of mutal interests and desires. The whole energy flow even with all the sexual stuff and everything else. Ironically, something as simple as cup of hot coffee and the feeling of human touch. It's just my world is all kind of screwed up for me have a so called Vanilla relationship. I can't stuff that much of me inside a closest and make it all work. It's a twisted world, when I can truly appreciate and value and adore somebody which I'm free to do many twisted things with, and it stimulates me mentally. I do have my own sense of morality. I'm not looking for love nor expecting for love in the traditional sense of the word. I know I can't make somebody that which they are not, nor fight myself over things."
This is very much directed at one, to which I'm into doing the whole subhuman property deal with, complete with verbal humiliation and degrading them. I would go into details about all the shit I'll do and say. It is exceptionally demeaning, insulting, and condescending (as you mentioned). BTW Fuck Pig is part of my vocabulary. So shit, like "your dirty little fucking worthless cunt fuck pig whore ass is mine" is a very good idea of what kind of asshole Dominant I can and will be when shit is going down. But, I'm not stuck in that state 24/7 either. I am able to express things such as "good girl", "good little pig" or whatever else fits within the context of things. Caress their face and cherish them and the moment.
Also, dare one such as myself would admit it. I would never want any "true harm" to come to them. I know the concept of "true harm" is a little sketchy, but it fits with my own sense of morality. Me pissing down somebody's throat ain't true harm (damn light weights LOL). If however, breath play mishap occured... that's awhole different dimension of what is true harm.
Recently somebody shared an activity shown in a cartoon, to which I've never encountered before. It stunned me, and I expressed that I was not comfortable with doing it. Unless I did my research and first tried it out on myself. Like anything else, try it out all tame and mild and work up the intensity until I myself have a clear understanding of WTF is going on. I made jokes about probably doing this out of their sight and I tend to do self-experimentation which I may or may not openly talk about. This too, is to not trainwreck the illusion or imagery of being all bad ass. One has to keep up the asshole status, especially when it comes to literally being that asshole humiliating and using somebody else.
My whole damn point here, is to try and peek behind these vails... that us demeaning, insulting, and condescending asshole Dom/mes throw up at times. Ironically, there's a hell of a lot of shit which we assume should be "givens" when it comes to anybody experienced in this madness. Then again, there are clearly troll fantasy profiles, which scammers, fakes or people just looking for wanking material to get off on for some hot fantasy. Also, some people are true sadist through and through too. Sadism even varies. I have an Ex which figured out she's a true sadist especially mentally, she enjoys mentally hurting the men she get's involved with. She's opted to seclude herself away from most social interactions outside of work. She's taken up to being a "Cat Lady". So keep this shit in mind. I would go on more about this shit.
What's behind the vails of a profile, you yourself should dare explore. It may or may not suprise you. Although keep in mind, that's there's a vast amount of fakes, scammers, posers and all that shit being this is online and all. That's more than enough frustration to deal with. Turn over the rocks and stones in the rubled landscape. Peek behind some of those vails or facades.
Good luck in your search.
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