The other thing is that if you won’t exchange pictures or numbers, are only available to talk during work hours, are inordinately focused on discretion - those are all things seen in cheaters.
So if you walk like a duck and talk like a duck, expect people to apply Occam’s Razor and assume you are a duck.
Are you talking to the OP here? Only i just checked out his profile to check up on that, and either he's changed that information, or that isn't there.
That sort of thing would ring the alarm bells for me though. I would want someone willing to swap numbers and more photos at some point. Plus I want someone available at all times ... ish. Not when the wife/significant other isn't around. I want to be treated like a priority, not an option.
I deserved better. Not than you, but from you.