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RE: REGRETS??? - 8/13/2006 2:48:37 PM

akisha

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Really regret is a wasted emotion. There is nothing you can do to change a past decision so why beat yourself up about it. Learn and move on.

Yes there are things I have done that probably could have been better thought out, but because I can't do anything about it, I don't dwell on it. If i hurt someone I apologize and mean it, but really all of life is a learning experience and dwelling on the past isn't going to change things.

Take the mistakes you make and don't forget them so that you make them over and over and over again. Realize that every decision you've made in your life is what makes you the person you are today.

There is nothing I have done that I would undo, but there are things I would have liked to have done differently.

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RE: REGRETS??? - 8/13/2006 4:45:48 PM

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regrets, hmm I regret staying with my ex Dom/feance as long as I did. he and I wanted diffreint things in life and my stubronness kept me with him for three years. to many people were telling me that it wouldent work wouldent work wouldent work and i kept saying to myself yes it will if I work hard enough if I am good enough it will work, now I see that no matter how much effort one person puts into a relationship if both people dont want the same things out of it it wont work. I really regret not seeing that sooner.

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RE: REGRETS??? - 8/14/2006 12:18:01 PM

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My only regret is that it has taken me so long to meet my current Master.

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RE: REGRETS??? - 8/21/2006 1:20:24 PM

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I regret I could not keep a nipple ring in. I had a allergic reaction to the metal where it was basically rejecting it. After 8 months it still hurt like hell to even lightly touch it & it kept bleeding. I had to remove it even though I really wanted to keep it.
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RE: REGRETS??? - 8/22/2006 10:27:12 AM

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my regret is that i trust too quickly and fall too fast. i always think i've waited long enough to let go and let myself feel deeper, but it is usually too soon.. either i find the person didn't deserve the trust or the emotion, or i spook the other person with my intensity.

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RE: REGRETS??? - 8/22/2006 10:55:11 AM

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I'm with the crowd that believes life is too short for regrets. I try to view any mishap/unplanned event/poorly planned event as a learning experience instead. Essentially, if it doesn't kill me it makes me stronger, wiser or both. This allows me to embrace life with a "I'll try anything once, twice if it doesn't kill me!" attitude, and I therefore get to experience a lot more than I otherwise would. And what is this life for, if not experiencing all the enormous range of emotions/feelings/sensations/etc. that are available to the human form? The only things I've come close to regretting are things which leave permanent, undesirable marks -- i.e. an aborted tattoo on my ankle, and a keloid scar on my left breast from a fetish piercing. But...even these things I have learned from, so I don't beat myself up over them by any means.

Good luck turning regrets into learning experiences!
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RE: REGRETS??? - 8/22/2006 11:10:50 AM

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BDSM related regrets?
Allowing myself to feel as though I belonged to someone I'd been with for just a couple months, and then dismissing various semi-abusive actions because I felt it was my 'duty.' Brilliant choice, that one.

Non-BDSM?
Falling in love with my best friend, and being totally oblivious to the fact that he was stringing both me and one of my other friends along. Then being betrayed and surprised when he chose her over me, due to proximity among other things.

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