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A Pleasing Slave - 8/12/2006 12:06:47 AM

Yourkajira

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what characteristics in a slave most please You?

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/12/2006 2:42:20 AM

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Being true to themselves

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/12/2006 3:00:45 AM

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Female, submissive, local and hopefully compatible. Seems basic enough but the last two are proving most difficult to resolve.... lol

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/12/2006 3:20:58 AM

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Intererity,honesty and to be true to themselves

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/12/2006 3:32:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: Yourkajira

what characteristics in a slave most please You?

The desire to please and obey me. Being trustworthy in both word and deed. Intelligence and humor.

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/12/2006 4:33:27 AM

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Other than the obvious stuff like loyalty and honesty, etc, I have to say intelligence and independence. The number one thing that will drive me nuts about a sub is if she needs to be micro-managed or needs constant attention. She has to be smart enough to think and decide what to do without asking me all the time, and has to have her own life activities aside from those I give her.

Of course, those same great qualities would drive some doms crazy, which is what makes the world go 'round

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/12/2006 4:52:37 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: obis

Other than the obvious stuff like loyalty and honesty, etc, I have to say intelligence and independence. The number one thing that will drive me nuts about a sub is if she needs to be micro-managed or needs constant attention. She has to be smart enough to think and decide what to do without asking me all the time, and has to have her own life activities aside from those I give her.

Of course, those same great qualities would drive some doms crazy, which is what makes the world go 'round

I agree with obis on this one. I want my slave to be trustworthy, fun and independent. I don't have the time or energy to micromanage anyone and an attention whore would find me ignoring them real quick.

~Lashra

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/12/2006 8:18:30 AM

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The abilty to keep thier promises without resorting to trying to control my emotional state.

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/12/2006 8:34:14 AM

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Its funny as I grow, I find My desires change---I think humility and a sense of humor are the most desireable.

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/12/2006 9:11:22 PM

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Obedience, loyalty, good communication, humor, service.

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/13/2006 12:54:33 AM

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Loyal, educated, and can communicate freely what is on her mind.

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/13/2006 8:12:46 AM

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I found this Lady close to be my ideal slave: http://thisgirl.wordpress.com/2006/07/23/this-girl-is-a-submissive-woman/

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/13/2006 8:21:48 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Yourkajira

what characteristics in a slave most please You?

Patience, grounding, discretion, poise and grace, discernment, great conversational skills, a thirst for knowledge, self awareness, culture, dependability, trustworthiness, perseverence, independence, leadership, and humility.

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/13/2006 8:33:18 AM

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I have to agree with obis on that one. Micromanagement makes it pointless to have someone else doing something.

I want a slave that can provide mre than just sexual company. Mind you, the intimately physical is important to me, but that's not all there is to my own personality, so I don't expect it to be everything with theirs.

I also have to agree with MHOO314. My own desires are not written in stone from year to year, a good slave should be adaptable to that regard.

But this is just my own $0.02.

Dauric.

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/13/2006 8:44:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: Yourkajira
what characteristics in a slave most please You?

A preternatural authenticity—both inward and outward—is what pleases me most in one who would serve.

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/13/2006 9:20:49 AM

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Oh damn... and here I was hoping to see Ron chime in on this one..

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/13/2006 1:47:10 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

quote:

ORIGINAL: obis

Other than the obvious stuff like loyalty and honesty, etc, I have to say intelligence and independence. The number one thing that will drive me nuts about a sub is if she needs to be micro-managed or needs constant attention. She has to be smart enough to think and decide what to do without asking me all the time, and has to have her own life activities aside from those I give her.

Of course, those same great qualities would drive some doms crazy, which is what makes the world go 'round

I agree with obis on this one. I want my slave to be trustworthy, fun and independent. I don't have the time or energy to micromanage anyone and an attention whore would find me ignoring them real quick.

~Lashra

Bravo to the both of you!!! I couldn't have said it better myself. I actually had an attention whore once. And when I didn't give her the attention in this negative manner she labled me as a "bad Domme".

Yourkajira to answer your question, I would have to say for a sub/slave to show me everything inside of her and then giving all. As in her trust, body, mind, and heart. However if you are new to bdsm and are looking for ways to please a new Domme/Mistress in your life or soon to be in your life. Perhaps when you are in a conversation with Her about what may please Her, (depending on if she allows you to talk about your concerns or keep them in a journal) then maybe you could express your feelings about what it is you can do to please her. Now please realize I am not stating that this situation actually exist. I just thought I would throw that in there just in case you were having trouble finding new ways to please Her. I hope this helped in some way.

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/16/2006 7:16:51 PM

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In a slave? Not in a sub?
From a slave I expect the same as from any other organ of my body: to function appropriately and as capable.

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/16/2006 7:29:14 PM

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I know you want me to go off, and everything, but I am in agreement with most of what is here, I have most of what I want in general terms on my profile, if I had to get a little more specific, something on the order of a geisha, but not in kimono all the time, and not so obtuse in many ways, someone who will hone her skills in traditional, idealistic and inherent (as I see it) femininity. I will leave any more detail out, in public forums.

Sorry to have disappointed you , JessieMe......but never fear, I will go off again, somewhere.......just try to not be standing in harms way when it happens.....LOL.

Ron

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RE: A Pleasing Slave - 8/16/2006 7:43:16 PM

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Consistency (not to be confused with numbed-out sameness) counts for a lot. Communicative and expressive are two descriptors I like to be able to apply also. The desire to learn what pleases me and the initiative and drive to actually do those things are precious attributes. A trust-based acceptance of my decisions is also something that really makes me feel good. The single, most important thing to me is willingness and I think that comes from good old-fashioned relationship building.

Bob

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