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baddestca -> the myth of 24/7 /365 (4/16/2004 6:54:44 PM)

t amazes me that so many females that want a 24/7 life are advertising apparntly years in advance! When it comes right down to making an offer, its then when you discover the real life obligations they need to finish first[/quote](fldomcouple )

i a m simpley amased that so many say 24/7 when they could not possibley consider such a thing for al lthe other baggage they have in their life they choose to deal with first . Speaking from 51 years in this i cna tell you 24/7 is not a thing in this time and life but like the dino long gone nto extinction. This i base on the fact taht for the time it takesfor one to mature to the degree werethey have the patiance tollerance and understanding to form a dom point of view even undertake such a venture as well as the high leval of maintance neede to support such and indevour they are to old or considered to be by amny to be desired as they do not meet physical youth or other aspects that age changes

DBSM or what ever the wattered down version is today seeks only for part time use by anyone as all other ful time use is long gone from existance . There are very few Dom ho wuld have the patiance and time to invest in oe to take on a 24/7/365 existance especialy of the high maintance leval such as cuffed and caged would require . For gos sake most choose by other things weathe sub master or what ever to not have the time to maintaine a puppy

I am courious as to the amount of those here who feel that 24/7 /365 could be maintained by them not so much as a slave/sub but as a master /mistress,

How many know they have the time to invest in this greates of endivours to see it through. the patiance to tolerate the constant being there in their life and haveing to maintaine the understanding to for see any and all complications befoe they arise and guide he sub/slave past them so as to inhavnce their growth.

I forget there is super master of 19/20 he has the looks he has the talk he knows all the now thigns to say. the has the patinace of a monk the understanding of a god the compassion of a saint and the wsidom of the profits

realisticaly it is a great deal of work maintance and responcabuility to simpley just allow that to occure . That does not include the maintance factor far greater then forsure raising a pet cat so let me know your thoughts as i am very courious of this and what tohers think and feel on the matter

The greater reason is i seek a 24/7/365 slave with no or lees then no limits and i have become after doing this in the past whatthe details arethat are involved in it




Estring -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (4/16/2004 10:04:21 PM)

baddestca, what the hell are you saying?




GoddessMarissa -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (4/17/2004 12:58:36 AM)

I personally do not think I could have a 24/7 slave. I am a patient person, but not that patient. Because I am a Pro Dom I do not have time for a 24/7. That is why my profile says Pro Dom, to weed everybody out. I would consider a 24/7, but the person has to have the finances for me. I dont see that happening any time soon.[sm=rolleyes.gif]




londonswitch -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (4/17/2004 5:22:01 AM)

quote:

The greater reason is i seek a 24/7/365 slave with no or lees then no limits and i have become after doing this in the past whatthe details arethat are involved in it


I don't understand. Please, there is no coherence.




ShadowHwk -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (4/17/2004 6:55:57 AM)

Me thinks one should be sober, or at least mostly so, before sitting down at the keyboard to compose an essay.

But then again I am kind of fond of coherence.


Peace and Light
Terry




MistressDREAD -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (4/17/2004 7:31:23 AM)

I have to disagree being one whom lives with in
24/7 365 in Dominance over concensual slaves.
And I am Old and a Bitch and Ugly as all get out
in My Older age but none of these atributes interfear
with My ability to Dominant and maintain My Homes.
Nor does My Atributes stop slaves from aproching
Me for acceptance in servitude. I have slaves
from the ages of 26 up to 71 years old, of every
race, religion, gender, and ability or disability. 2
are wheelchair bound and in their last stages of life.
Ive maintained 4 Poly Homes since the passing
of My Two Masters/Mates for allmost 7 years now
and They thrived for 27 years befor I controled
them on My Own. I will not tell any fibs when I say
that to do this has taken Great patience, restraint,
control of not only My life but everyones life around
Me and a Overstanding as well as Understanding and
communication to teach all to get along under Me and
Mines Rules of house and still have a caring and loving
Group that all work together for the better good of the
Familly as a whole for a happy life of living. But We are
not by far extinct yet baddestca! I hope You can find
sum bit of happiness for Your self. I dident have any
trouble understanding a word that baddestca said...
Wonders where everyone elses brain was when They
read it................ ~giggles~




masterdstar -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (4/25/2004 7:46:58 PM)

I must disagree. I have had several 24/7 relationships including some poly. Yes it is work but they have all been wonderful and realistic. I am ISO of a new one now and frankly it is the only thing I have any interest in, the rewards are so great.
Enjoy your wonder-filled day




truckin2some -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (4/26/2004 3:10:19 AM)

To me, I don't see any problems in today's world with a 24/7 relationship. True, there are necessities and jobs and everyday life, but 24/7 doesn't mean to be bound in chains in a dungeon 24/7. To me it is a commitment, a mindset, and a lifestyle. Wife and I have begun a 24/7 Mistress/slave relationship and it doesn't affect our everyday activities. It just affects what happens at home and thoughts and actions away from home, in my opinion in a positive way.




MistressDREAD -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (5/22/2004 3:25:16 AM)

[:D]




TurboJugend -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (8/22/2009 9:57:16 AM)

sorry...browser went nuts..lol

thank you for peeking




leadership527 -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (8/22/2009 10:02:54 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Estring
baddestca, what the hell are you saying?

I could be wrong, but I think he was saying that Carol & I don't exist. That really kind of sucks because now I'm going to have to claim zero exemptions on my taxes *sighs*.




TurboJugend -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (8/22/2009 10:05:46 AM)

2004 > 2009




windchymes -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (8/22/2009 10:10:31 AM)

Well, technically, 2004 is less than 2009, but I think I get what you're sayin' [;)]




Apocalypso -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (8/22/2009 10:12:23 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527
I could be wrong, but I think he was saying that Carol & I don't exist.
He's a philosopher?




LadyPact -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (8/22/2009 10:19:24 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: Estring
baddestca, what the hell are you saying?

I could be wrong, but I think he was saying that Carol & I don't exist. That really kind of sucks because now I'm going to have to claim zero exemptions on my taxes *sighs*.


Don't let it bother you, Jeff.  He was saying it over five years ago.




Musicmystery -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (8/22/2009 10:23:11 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: Estring
baddestca, what the hell are you saying?

I could be wrong, but I think he was saying that Carol & I don't exist. That really kind of sucks because now I'm going to have to claim zero exemptions on my taxes *sighs*.


Don't let it bother you, Jeff.  He was saying it over five years ago.



I think people post things like this (except when they simply oppose M/s, and posters do from time to time) when they have unrealistic expectations about 24/7. It's not scening--it's living a life, a life with a clearly defined relationship.

Many vanilla couples would do well to have as clear an understanding as a good M/s one does.





leadership527 -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (8/22/2009 10:28:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Don't let it bother you, Jeff.  He was saying it over five years ago.

Aw hell, I've been trying to remember to check for necro threads. On the bright side, I'm relieved because I haven't really had enough coffee for deep existential ponderings.




DarkSteven -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (8/22/2009 10:37:45 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527
I think he was saying that Carol & I don't exist.


Okay.  Give me your DL number and car registration and go on webcam.  Prove your realness to me.




lally2 -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (8/22/2009 10:43:15 AM)

so im curious, how did it pop up.  surely someone found the question, decided it asked their question, albiet badly and is waiting on the responses. 

just curious.




LadyPact -> RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 (8/22/2009 10:43:34 AM)

Too funny.




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