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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/18/2006 8:54:25 PM

addisonclarkgirl

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Thanks porcelaine for the site. i'm going to go check it out in a bit.

i've always been a Daddy's girl, and i enjoy all the different dynamics of it. i just wondered how submissive i am in the role. Of course, i want to please Daddy, to take care of Him, to fulfull His wishes and desires. He makes the rules, carries out the punishments, etc. i also, however, feel that i need things from Him, such as protection, to be cherished, taken care of. That makes me wonder if i'm demanding, if i'm in control somewhat. i don't feel so, but someone did mention it to me, and it made me wonder.

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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/18/2006 9:37:06 PM

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That actually brought back a memory of a vanilla girlfriend I had years ago. As always I was Dominate in that relationship and we use to play the daddy's girl for fun. Well for me it was fun for her she explained it as fullfilling. She said it made her feel wanted, needed and loved. I couldn't understand her feelings about it, so I kept doing this role to make her happy. It actually brought us closer emotionally. I never felt lowered or as if I were submitting to her. Even in that time frame of my vanilla life, I would have never submitted to anyone. I don't see it as lowering the Domme. (not that you were trying to say it is) I don't see it being different from any role play. To me it's like any other scene. As long as both the Domme and the sub/slave can keep in mind who they really are.
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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/18/2006 11:56:00 PM

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Pat Califa does a presentation called "Daddy has tits" or something along those lines. I have yet to be able to attend it.. but hope to get to it one day.

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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/19/2006 12:02:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Not for me, but I have lots of friends and acquaintances in leather families and its far more common there than in the modern het bdsm relationship.

But yeah, not following traditional gender stereotype roles does throw lots of people off...which can be fun, or aggravating. :)

Yeah... I generally stick to the Leather community moreso than the BDSM community (two different things). I do belong to a Family and even then.. when some folks found out in the BDSM community they thought I had broken up with my partner and gotten collared by someone else! lol

Being a Daddy to me isn't always about age play. It doesn't have to be. For me, it goes a different direction. Thinking about it, it could be because I deal with boys/bois and not the femme side of things. There isn't the batting of the eyelids or pouting.. it is more about RC cars and grimey things..lol.

But.. on the flip side.. I bat the HELL out of my eyelashes to get what I want from my partner! lol

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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/19/2006 12:04:23 AM

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Oh yeah.. and Dodger games!

I gotta find me a boy to take to the Dodger game!

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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/19/2006 1:39:04 AM

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I am strictly in a m/s relationship and we have never Daddy roleplayed. Reading this topic is confusing me. Fairly new to the lifestyle I do not see much of a difference between m/s and Daddy play. Both seem to have the same responsibilities. Both require discipline, respect, trust and the other basic elements of a bdsm life.

And daddy would be the dominant bc Daddy does rule the house as someone else mentioned.

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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/20/2006 4:32:40 PM

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The Daddy is not always roleplay, although often people enjoy it as so; for jilli and Me, it is a 24/7 part of the traditional Patriarchy, where the man is her firm guide, offering her His loving nurturing control; Daddy is the term that fits since He is a paternal presense in her life.

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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/20/2006 11:05:00 PM

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Good question. There are Daddy/girl roleplays where she is pampered and preened. I tend to put that roleplay out of the BDSM realm and more in the fantasy/fetish realm. I prefer to have a little girl I can treat strictly and spank (as appropriate), but that's not everybodies cup of tea. I have called subs "little girl" as a rather endearing term, meant to remind them I am the Dom/Daddy in charge and they are to follow my orders....

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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/20/2006 11:34:32 PM

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Please take care of your toys treat them with Love and respect, For broken toys are no fun at all!

-doll-

Some toys just cry out to be broken.

And some of us enjoy the breaking.

But you, BrokenDoll; are you really no fun at all?

I don't know anyone who wants a toy like that.

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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/23/2006 1:26:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: addisonclarkgirl

i've been wondering if being a Daddy's girl, enjoying the roleplay of it, falls under the category of BDSM? i'm sure it depends on what one incorporates into the play, but i'm just curious to see what everyone thinks. Also, is the little girl in the roleplay, isn't she the top in the situation? Doesn't she get spoiled? Doesn't she wrap Daddy around her little finger?

i feel that i'm submissive, but i enjoy this role so much. Is it truly BDSM and if it is, which role is the more dominant one?

*thinks about the many things done to my body*

Yes BDSM

The Daddy has the dominant role. As a little girl i may beg, i may plead, and i may even pout to get my way but...... The Daddy can sure stop all of it with a single look.

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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/23/2006 1:53:16 PM

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I see theres been a lot of missinterpretation of the DADDY MASTER basicaly i see it like this .......................
its not role play its REAL ................its a 24/7 LIFESTYLE ..........bringing up an adult baby is the fundamental grass roots of BDSM ..................you have the bonding where you feed from eachother , you have the beginings of watersports and possibly scat , bondage using the restraints and harnesses , the CAGE using the play pen , the total power exchange being the DADDY of an infant , POLY if breeding takes place , the punishment of the naughty child .............................

the list goes on ................... most importantly though DADDY rears his child as a blank canvass .............he teaches her over the months and years about things sexuall ................and eventually designs his own personal slut .............she is perfection personified , tailored to his own very specific requirements in every detail ............................ but its not an easy task .......................................

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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/23/2006 2:22:23 PM

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i think however, Luton, that there are two ways one could incorporate Daddy play. What You're referring to is ageplay. It could either be roleplay or something that is lived 24/7. i think if one uses it as roleplay, than it's not necessarily BDSM. The other dynamic of being with a Daddy however, is the emotional aspect. A girl wants to be cherished and loved, protected, taken care of by her Daddy. He guides her and teaches her, punishes her even, but it's not something that would be related to anything incestual or deal with ageplay.

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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/23/2006 5:48:43 PM

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As individual as one's biological Daddy is from the next person's bio Daddy... so goes the dynamics in a Daddy/girl or Daddy/boy relationship. It is what you make of it or want from it.

I respect your views Luton on what it means to you. I disagree with your definition though. That isn't what it means to me at all. To be honest, your definition strikes a bad cord inside of me altogether. It is your way of seeing it.. and I say again.. I respect that.

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RE: Daddy's Girl - 8/23/2006 11:59:09 PM

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I was merely trying to make a definition ...................i have no problem with couples that tie there wrists to the bed using bath robe belts or pink furry hand cuffs bought at an ann summers party ..............or indeed wear pvc nurses uniforms or roleplay and say CALL ME DADDY during lovemaking ..................
there but for the grace of god go i .................................................
but its kinky vanilla sex not BDSM.......................................................................

as were discussing the topic on a BDSM web site i merely gave my veiws as to how i see the role of a DADDY ...................................................and how i see ADULT BABY relates to BDSM ........ i happen to think its status is of note

and in that context most BDSM DADDY MASTERS would be in the same ball park of agreement .......................( i think ) .......................

i wish all contributers a good day and there lives are full of peace and harmony

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