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Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/20/2006 5:50:34 PM

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Something in the How does a Dominant decide to be (or not) a Daddy Dom? thread got me to thinking, and perhaps it's a matter of semantics -

Is there a difference between Daddy/daughter relationships and Daddy/littlegirl relationships?

Since my own thinking on it is still a bit cloudy, I'd like to know what others think.

If there is a difference - how is it different?

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/20/2006 6:00:38 PM

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Before I answer, are we talking about Male Daddys and female daughter/little girls only? Id hate to put in my 2 cents when my personal realtionship ISNT a Male/female one, but the opposite.

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/20/2006 6:12:37 PM

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IMO, semantics... inside every daughter there is a little girl,and inside every little girl there is a daughter.

Of course with gender twists and females role playing as Daddys, they will want their own label/name, and Daddy is a fairly fixed label... leaving possibilities such as.... "whoever that is under whoever is playing Daddy?

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/20/2006 6:15:41 PM

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Well, persnoal experience, my boy is femenized (or being) and he is going to be my baby girl. Which is why I asked the question. Being the "man" in the relationship, I do tend to be a daddy figure. AS t daughter, not so much for him, but then agian he is being specifically trained and dressed as to my desires, so I suppose if I wanted it there it would be as well.

My 2 cents.

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/20/2006 6:24:51 PM

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The label "Male Daddy" is just so unbecoming... and besides, us Daddy males were the first ones using "Daddy Dom".

Perhaps it's time to coin "Daddy Domme" to lessen the confusion and really clear up a lot of ambiguities?

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/20/2006 6:27:40 PM

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ummm shouldnt we call Dommes Mommy Domme???
sorry no disrespect meant I just think it makes more sence

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/20/2006 6:33:48 PM

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More semantics, though I'll politely step back out of this unintentionally hijacked thread and let everynoe get back to the OPs actual question.
Sorry for the sidetrack, I'll keep my virtual yap shut now

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/20/2006 6:34:13 PM

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Literally yes, but not when Mommy is role playing Daddy.... how could a "male daughter" call his Daddy Mommy???

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/20/2006 7:02:38 PM

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You would probably have to ask the particular dom using the name "daughter" or "little girl".

I think for some doms, it would actually squick them to consider being sexual with their actual unmentionable.

For others, it might be an erotic construct that works.

In my case, when I first called my dom "daddy' he did not really like it - it squicked him.

But as we grew into our relationship, he saw himself as a daddy figure and began to get ok with it. I am his little girl now.

i have done role play in the past that simulated daddy/unmentionable (teen, not littlie) and loved it. I have that experience ( as littlie) as a reality in my family, and there was nothing violent or abusive going on. Some doms could not go there. I actually used it to embrace my history in an empowering and nurturing way that allowed me to forgive and actually begin to revel in my kink and sexuality. But it's not for everyone. One has to be able to own the "game" of role play and not get lost or messed up inside it.

I did not have a choice about what was done to me as a child. But I do have a choice in how I view it and how I hold the people who did it in my mind. It took me years to be able to stop feeling like a broken piece for my taste in kink. I am an incredibly sexual being. Now that I have done the work of owning all of me, I love my sexuality and can share it completely with an amazing partner who can take pleasure in all of my response, and not be overwhemed by it. And i can have a balanced life where I am not dominated by my sexuality any longer, but can express it appropriately and do things most people would never have the courage to do or experience.

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/20/2006 7:14:15 PM

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Not if their butch or dyke and don't identify as women.

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ummm shouldnt we call Dommes Mommy Domme???
sorry no disrespect meant I just think it makes more sence

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/20/2006 8:14:35 PM

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Unless we're talking in a thread about genders themselves, I never limit my answers or perspectives based on physical sex orientation.

For me, the difference between daddy/little girl and daddy/daughter is how the person feels about it. I'd assume the "girl" involved would feel more like the daddy was a gaurdian rather than an actual parental person in her life. The dynamics might appear identical to the outside, but how the people approached it and felt connected to eachother would be changed.

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/20/2006 8:52:43 PM

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When I was with my previous dom, he and I did a LOT of daddy games....something about calling a man daddy just gives me that delicious feeling...but I swear, if a man, other than my biological father called me his "daughter"...well that crosses the line. Don't ask me why. I was, and am, a little girl but god forbid I ever become a "daughter". Just sounds too incestual to me.

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/21/2006 12:35:27 AM

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Is there a difference between Daddy/daughter relationships and Daddy/littlegirl relationships?

If there is a difference - how is it different?

I believe it depends on the relationship and where the interaction has gone. I have had a female Papa and also male Daddy as well. I would use the term Father towards someone that had a strong parental leaning. Meaning, they employed the characteristics and behaviors that one would associate with a parent or guardian. In regard to age, I have been all over the map but prefer to relate as a young girl. This is merely due to the fact that I've identified the age of my inner child and attempt to remain true to her nature.

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/21/2006 2:14:08 AM

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With out sounding stupid im a little confused can some one clear this up for me ? On another site i use to chat on they had rooms called DIPPERS were there would be adult / babys a huge fetish on Daddys and Mommys with there own lil ones i never really looked in to it as it seemed way off course to what i was searching about myself . i lost my father a good strong, loving, careing man who called me his princess when i was 13 a little part of me ( a healthy part ) has always wished to be in the protected place again , seeing these chat rooms didnt seem to fulfill them needs of being in such a child like world .so is it the same thing ? or am i well off course here ?

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/21/2006 2:32:46 AM

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Hi princess... You might want to find the original Daddy DOM thread -- which sees the Daddy/girl relationship differently than you must have found on that Dippers site... A Daddy is not just a sexual fun and scene relationship: a Daddy also is there to protect his sub, to nurture her, help her grow... He allows her the space, physical and mental, to return to that world where life was simple and easy and free of any concerns... Just what a Daddy does!

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/21/2006 4:12:39 AM

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ummm shouldnt we call Dommes Mommy Domme???
sorry no disrespect meant I just think it makes more sence

I think the title Daddy or Mommy shouldn't mean anything unless the Dom/Domme themselves choose the title for themselves and then it should hold reverence for the little girl/boy. It's all fantasy here, what works for the couple is what works.

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/21/2006 4:32:37 AM

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It's an interesting question and one I have never thought about. I am my Daddy's little girl and I guess that translates in my mind to daughter at various times. When we role play I think it is more prevalent then other times.

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/21/2006 6:33:43 AM

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seeing these chat rooms didnt seem to fulfill them needs of being in such a child like world .so is it the same thing ? or am i well off course here ?

Baby play/diaper play can be connected and involved with age play...or not. It's less common than age play in general and tends to be considered a more extreme interaction/type of play.

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/21/2006 6:48:43 AM

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I do not know what it means to be daddy/daughter or little girl. I know that is the way it is stated for others. I do not consider myself either of these. If I was forced to make a choice it would be "little girl" I suppose, but since I am not forced, I will say he just is Daddy, and I submit to him...

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RE: Another Daddy Dom Question - 8/21/2006 7:11:17 AM

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I think in most submissives and slaves there is a little girl that craves pleasing daddy probally from our first beginnings, maybe ( like me) we never got that what we sought in childhood, nothing I ever did was good enough hell it still isnt.
And I think in alot of cases Daddy/lilgirl and Daddy/Daughter are no different just different words chosen by the individuals.

I think the relationship on a whole is the perfect mix of discipline and nuturing sometimes not seen in the D/s / BDSM roles

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