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Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 5:50:36 PM

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Is this a reasonable request? I've read that some Dominants and Masters want their submissives or slaves to be nude at home all the time. They are simply not allowed to wear clothes in the home. I am wondering how this actually works for them in a practical sense.

I am not ashamed of nudity, but - what if a pizza delivery man or a mail person, or a friend or relative comes to the door who either 1) Is not aware of their bdsm life-style or 2) Doesn't necessarily want to see them nude? What then?

I see this listed as a "requirement" for potential submissives and slaves in some Dominant profiles, and am wondering if they actually do live this way, or are mostly just fantasizing and hoping someone will agree to it someday.

What say you?

Thanks for any replies.

- Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 5:52:58 PM

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Is this a reasonable request? I've read that some Dominants want their submissives or slaves to be nude at home all the time. Thye are simply not allowed to wear clothes in the home. I am wondering how this actually works for them in a practical sense.
I am not ashamed of nudity, but - what if a pizza delivery man or a mail person, or a freind or relative comes to the door who either 1) Is not aware of their bdsm life-style or 2) Doesn't necessarily want to see thme nude? What then? I see this listed as a "requirment" om some Dominant profiles, and am wondering if they actually do live this way, or are mostly just fantasizing and hoping someone will agree to it someday.

What say you?

Thanks for any replies.

- Susan

Any "requirement" that does not allow for reality and for the consent of others, is unreasonable in my opinion.

I know one leatherman couple where the slave is supposed to be nude all the time but I also know (from both he and his master) that he just isn't -- socks to keep his feet warm, more clothing as the seasons change, clothing when guests come over, etc.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 5:53:36 PM

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Yes it's reasonable.
And He is after all "payin the cost to be the boss"

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 5:54:45 PM

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Thanks for the reply, tammyjo - that's another thing I was wondering about. Health concerns. Winter can get cold, and even in Summer, in a house with A/C it can get cold....and yes, something about it strikes me as bordering on being non-consensual in term s of inviting some potential "vanillas" into a life-style they may well have no interest in participating in. I think that might just qualify as not a great thing, but that's just me.

I am thinking now that the requirement sometimes allows for reasonable self-coverage when delivery people or others not wanting to see, or comfortable with, nudity are at the house. Hoping this is the case. Of course, it's not my life, so I really don't care. I am wondering about it, though.

- Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 5:57:12 PM

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My first thought ... who's paying the heat bill?

When submissives get in touch and tell me that they want to clean for me in the nude, I think of how chilly my apartment is in the winter -- prohibitively so!

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 5:57:41 PM

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We don't need no stinkin' AC with nude slaves to fan us all summer......

Get real.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 5:58:07 PM

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It strikes me that this is one of those things that possibly could work out, depending on your living situation. If your home is fairly private, so that neighbors can't see in and the like, who is to know other than those invited in? If a delivery man shows up, you can always hide in the back bedroom or something. And if necessary, clothes could be put on, even just a robe for example, on a temporary basis. I think this is qualitatively different from something like being perpetually caged, for example, which seems much less practical.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:00:02 PM

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As I love to "share" friends would not be a problem at all, exhibition is something a good slave should be able to learn to submit too...however for those not in the lifestyle (or in the sharing circle) adjustments to real (vanilla) life may have to be made for relatives and such. Be sure before you choose a Master what will be required of you.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:00:35 PM

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Though Daddy prefers I am nude most of the time, exceptions are made. When there is company coming I can dress normally, or that time of the month. For colder times of the year, I can wear a long tshirt, with no panties in place of full nudity. I have an apron I wear when cooking, so I don't get burnt and I also usually wear something when cleaning, chemicals and all of that. When he isn't home, I can pretty much wear what I want though, it's when he is home that this all is required.

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I did have a bit of an issue at first, it's strange to walk around nude all of the time when you haven't ever done it before. I was told though, that he wants me this way for easy access and I have to agree that he takes full advantage of this part. I don't mind anymore though, I find myself turned on most of the time because I just never know when I will be bent over something and taken. Not a bad trade if I do say so myself.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:01:19 PM

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I see this "requirement" mentioned often enough for me to believe that some people actually do this. I am wondering how it works on a daily basis for them.

Anyone out there actually living this way, please write in. The rest of you also please write in, your opinion counts too, of course.

Thanks to anyone who has replied so far.

- Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:01:27 PM

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ummm I dont think it is reasonable at all aspecially ones or if you bring unmentionables in the picture... if the couples has unmentionables this cant be done at leat not all the time. and then there are delivery people and other relatives. There was ones a post here that a Dom said he had his slave anser the door for the pizza person naked with a vibe in her.... my reply was that it isnt even legal to do that because the delivery person a) hasnt consented and b) may not even be of legal age. You cant forse your life style on others!

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:01:42 PM

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Granted I live in Florida away from most of the trials of winter. I'm a house nudist as it is. Admittedly I tend to wear underwear to keep any unwanted juices off the furniture. If it gets cold, I turn the AC temp up, or if it does reach 45degrees outside, turn the heater on. Yes, it is a reasonable demand. I've been doing it for over 2 years now. If a guest comes over, clothes on. Pizza delivery guy, a long shirt at least. It comes down to simple logic.

And yes, I will require it of my slave. No way in hell will I be in my skivvys and she be fully clothed.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:08:49 PM

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well, mnottertail - I see you have found a way to keep those Summer A/C energy costs down!

Question: What about curtains? I have an exhibitionistic streak, and don't think I'd mind this - provided reasonable coverage was allowed for cold weather and for when someone like the aforementioned delivery-person or other "vanilla" friend or relative (heck, I guess anyone other than the Dominant) coming to the door.

But, I am thinking that if someone else could see in your front picture window, for example, this might well not even be legal (nor would I consider doing it then). Anybody know? Maybe this varies by locality. As for a Dominant who would not be able to answer this question, yet still want to require it, I'd see them as an ineffectual Dominant, for potentially getting us both into legal trouble.

- Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:14:52 PM

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with your aster I can see it riping like fruit. But I have tried this in a monogomous relation and found it hard when I have to go out all the time to get supplies or run errand or work or whatever.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:17:07 PM

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1. Be nude at home all the time.
2. Unless the doorbell rings, then put on some clothes before you answer it.

Simple, no?

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Is this a reasonable request? I've read that some Dominants and Masters want their submissives or slaves to be nude at home all the time. They are simply not allowed to wear clothes in the home. I am wondering how this actually works for them in a practical sense.

I am not ashamed of nudity, but - what if a pizza delivery man or a mail person, or a friend or relative comes to the door who either 1) Is not aware of their bdsm life-style or 2) Doesn't necessarily want to see them nude? What then?

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:19:01 PM

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At night, the blinds are closed and no one can see in. If someone during the day is close enough to see in my windows, I feel there are bigger problems at hand than whether I am nude or not.

I haven't ever heard that you could be in legal trouble for walking around nude in the privacy of your own home. I am sure if you stood right against a window and begged to be looked at, it might be a different story.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:19:22 PM

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odinlove: Yes, it seems sexy and intimate, but also seems like it could be somewhat inconvenient as a demand. I mean, if you want to go anywhere, you have to get dressed - go there - come home, get undressed. People go out of their house several times a day (many people do - some don't I guess).

Picture someone doing gardening, for example, and having to get supplies from inside for a half hour, then go back outside, etc. I am thinking some Dominants must not monitor this demand that closely - or if they do, base how much they "require" as far as adherence on what is convenient for them to monitor. Of course, if one agrees to it, one is supposedly doing it, monitored or not. Which means thinking of possible scenarios beforehand, as someone mentioned.

As for agreeing to doing this correlating in any way with being "shared" with other Dominants - I don't see a connection.

- Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:23:25 PM

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LAM: It seems mostly simple, yes - but, I can picture circumstances where it might not be that simple - and am wondering how much people think this through before they agree to it (both submissives/slaves and Dominants/Masters).
I am also wondering how many do this on a daily basis.

- Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:23:59 PM

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quote:

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I see this "requirement" mentioned often enough for me to believe that some people actually do this. I am wondering how it works on a daily basis for them.

Anyone out there actually living this way, please write in. The rest of you also please write in, your opinion counts too, of course.

Thanks to anyone who has replied so far.

- Susan

This was a requirement for awhile. And then I had a grease splatter while cooking, which left little red dots across the breasts. So I had to learn to cook more carefully. In the winter I was allowed to wear pants and a (cardigan-type) sweater. After awhile I asked if he would allow a bra, lest I be sagging and dragging by the time I'm 50. The request was granted.

My circumstance is different in that I do not live with him, but I have a cam on me at all times and he can tap in whenever. When he taps in, I automatically remove what clothing I do have on, and he is fine with that.

Sleeping must be naked, however. He prefers no covers but I tend to automatically cover up in my sleep when I am chilly. Master is a reasonable man, and does not have a problem with his slave keeping warm.

I am allowed clothes when family, friends, or company is here. As for windows, that is left up to my discretion if I keep them covered or not.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 6:24:57 PM

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I have that protocol only in a formal setting. While I like the protocol, it's really not practical on a daily basis for me. I find that thin slaves get cold faster than me, who has some padding (I'm not turning the temp any hotter). I find myself answering the door because I'm the only one dressed (annoying). I end up running those annoying little errands 'cause it's quicker for me to get in the car than to have someone get dressed, etc.etc. I also don't want the slave to get burned or hurt doing some task, either. So, the nude policy is part of my formal protocol, as it is suitable.

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