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pixelslave -> RE: What are your fetish's? (10/21/2006 3:48:58 PM)
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ORIGINAL: atsirK
I agree that men who have foot fetishes are a bit of a turnon for me, too. I don't know why... perhaps it is because their own fetish is looked upon as disgusting by the majority of people (I have known two men (online only) who had foot fetishes, and both were highly ridiculed by others around them), but I like to indulge them in their fetishes by sending pictures of my feet or talking about how I like to walk around barefoot. Perhaps it is simply knowing that something so simple can so easily arouse these men, I just love it. Can anybody explain this? Perhaps somebody with experience in psychology? I would also like to know if my indulgence of their fetish would be more of a Dominant activity, or submissive...or could it simply be both, a desire to provide them enjoyment (submissive?) and also personal amusement at having such control over their arousal (Dominant?)? (For the record and for those who don't look up my profile, I am a Switch.)
I very definitely have a foot fetish and i can't say that i've ever experienced being ridiculed about it. There's no doubt that i *do* appreciate a woman with "pretty feet" with nicely polished toes. And if they've not been polished, a pedicure is something that i'm always more than happy to provide... Of course, a manicure is always easy to do while i'm at it at the same time! [;)]
I should mention that when i'm involved with a particular woman, my foot fetish becomes specific to Her as i don't tend to notice or get aroused by the feet of other women. But i also don't tend to notice other women in general or get aroused by them either. [8|]
I also wouldn't say that it's the visual appeal of a woman's feet that especially does it for me. I'm not one who could sit and masturbate to photos of what i'd call pretty feet. I definitely need to touch, hold, carress, lick and smell them, all while touching and rubbing them with my hands face and beard, along with massaging, kissing, sucking, (plus usually some reflexology while i'm at it), to pleasure the woman attached to them in order for me to really get aroused by her feet. There's absolutely no doubt that serving a woman in that fashion will get me very hot to the point that i'm quickly dripping non-stop & endlessly like a leaky faucet.
As to what indulging a man with a foot fetish makes you, in real time, it's my opinion that it could make you very lucky if you enjoy having your feet worshipped and pampered. [sm=flowers.gif] When online, it sounds like it might make you a woman who is kind, warm, loving and generous who perhaps also enjoys being a flirt in addition to the attention she gets from men who appreciate her for more than just a pretty face or other "physical features" that men often are notorious for focusing on in a woman. I'd expect it must be quite flattering to think that there are men who get turned on by your pretty feet and from just hearing you talk to them about walking around without shoes!
It doesn't sound at all to me as though you're being submissive, instead, you're being a woman enjoying the attentions of 2 men whom you seem to be able to entrance; something in my experience, that only dominant or sensual and secure woman seem to know how to do! Continue to enjoy yourself, and i *do* hope that one day, you'll take the opportunity to experience the pleasures of what a man with a foot fetish can actually do for you. [;)]
- pixel
(who also has a fetish for wearing CB straps ;-)
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