Aine
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ORIGINAL: LotusSong OK.. let me see if I got this right~ A switch needs to switch and finds fullfillment in both roles But, there are times that a switch needs to have anolther partner that does not switch. Now why is this? Being a switch that is with a switch....I can't say on personal experience. But perhaps I can venture a guess. I think from what I've seen and who I've talked to, myself included going on time previous to my current relationship, that it truly depends on who that person gets involved with on certain levels. In speaking and getting close to many Doms, subs and slaves and a few switches, it all depends (as far as I can tell) on the personality compatibility of the non-switch they are getting close to. It may start out as a friendship, it may stay as a close friendship, it may progress into more. But that doesn't change the way that that non-switch makes them feel once it gets to that point. It may be that that non-switch makes them feel so strongly either sub or Dom/me that it just ends up working for them. And if it turns into a relationship that they were not actively searching for in the first place, they may stay that way, they may eventually come to an agreement on either someone for them to switch on, or a poly relationship. I guess what I'm trying to say is that it can come down to chance. I can't say for those that actively SEEK a non-switch, they'll have to answer that themselves. But if it happens by chance, it's all in how that person makes them feel.
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Honey, you obviously missed the "want to be used as a toilet fetish" thread or "where do I get instructions on setting my sub on fire" thread. LOL Thank you, DelRay for that one.
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