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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

Lol do you blame me for showing anger by the way women are on here? I have been contacting women on sites such as this for a couple of years. I never used to think this way about about it but now I do. Thats why I have my profile this way. I have approached many women in a polite and respectable manner for a long time and I always get the same result in the end. I either get ignored or just a sorry email because women expect more than just the average looking guy that is not a sleaze. So why cant I be bitter? I get the exact same result as I do when I am nice anyway. Women are bitter to men right from the start, even if the man puts on a kind impression at the start.

We are all labeled as potential sleaze or rapist in the first place anyway. Thats bitter within its self. Most men are not good enough for every woman on here, its ridiculous. Thats why you see the same women on here for months or years and they get offers daily or weekly. If a male got offers daily or weekly, he wouldnt stay on this site for long.

Women are too picky and it makes us males frustrated. I think the average looking male would feel lucky if he got as much attention as the below average looking female does in here. Do you blame me being bitter? I think women need to change their attitudes in here more than anything not so much men. If females got it how us males have it, they would be complaining more than me. But than again, due to the fact that women have it a lot better than men, they still find something to complain about. But when a male complains, due to the fact that he has it a lot worse than women, women never think it should be justified. I think women would go nuts if they didnt get any attention at all from males. Most males dont get attention at all from sites such as this but we have to live with it. Only the super duper males get attention and the below average looking women still get luck.

I think most women in here have too high expectations. I see my self as an average looking guy. I am not ugly but I am not what you call hot. Even average looking women reject the average looking men. Than men lower their standards to get a better chance and the below average looking women even reject the average looking men. I really dont know what the above average looking women expect in here. I think women in here and in any personals site on the net have egos bigger than their brains. Women seem to think just because they have a vagina, their own standard of them self is worth more than someone who doesnt have a vagina.

If you are a male in a site such as this, you are practically a second class citizen. Thats what makes me bitter. If only men got treated fair, I wouldnt be bitter the first place. I am sick of bending over backwards and trying to be as nice as I can when I dont get the favor returned.

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ORIGINAL: Owned1

Hmmmm one wonders why certain people cannot find what makes them happy, could it be they are simply unhappy people.  In order to find someone you need to have something to offer,  nick do you have anything to offer other than your negative thoughts?  I dont think they will get you far.

Take sometime to relook at what you are seeking, take a trip away from the computer, find some local groups and go and visit people in the flesh.  However I would strongly suggest a huge attitude adjustment first.  Even reading your profile you come across as very negative. 

If you apply for a job would your resume read with all the things you cannot/will not do and what expectations you have as to what the job will give you?  A well written profile should read the same, positive giving others some insight to the you you are willing to share. 

Good luck in your search

Owned

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

Lol do you blame me for showing anger by the way women are on here? I have been contacting women on sites such as this for a couple of years. I never used to think this way about about it but now I do. Thats why I have my profile this way. I have approached many women in a polite and respectable manner for a long time and I always get the same result in the end. I either get ignored or just a sorry email because women expect more than just the average looking guy that is not a sleaze. So why cant I be bitter? I get the exact same result as I do when I am nice anyway. Women are bitter to men right from the start, even if the man puts on a kind impression at the start.

We are all labeled as potential sleaze or rapist in the first place anyway. Thats bitter within its self. Most men are not good enough for every woman on here, its ridiculous. Thats why you see the same women on here for months or years and they get offers daily or weekly. If a male got offers daily or weekly, he wouldnt stay on this site for long.

Women are too picky and it makes us males frustrated. I think the average looking male would feel lucky if he got as much attention as the below average looking female does in here. Do you blame me being bitter? I think women need to change their attitudes in here more than anything not so much men. If females got it how us males have it, they would be complaining more than me. But than again, due to the fact that women have it a lot better than men, they still find something to complain about. But when a male complains, due to the fact that he has it a lot worse than women, women never think it should be justified. I think women would go nuts if they didnt get any attention at all from males. Most males dont get attention at all from sites such as this but we have to live with it. Only the super duper males get attention and the below average looking women still get luck.

I think most women in here have too high expectations. I see my self as an average looking guy. I am not ugly but I am not what you call hot. Even average looking women reject the average looking men. Than men lower their standards to get a better chance and the below average looking women even reject the average looking men. I really dont know what the above average looking women expect in here. I think women in here and in any personals site on the net have egos bigger than their brains. Women seem to think just because they have a vagina, their own standard of them self is worth more than someone who doesnt have a vagina.

If you are a male in a site such as this, you are practically a second class citizen. Thats what makes me bitter. If only men got treated fair, I wouldnt be bitter the first place. I am sick of bending over backwards and trying to be as nice as I can when I dont get the favor returned.

You pretty much put yourself in the "butt awful ugly" category with your attitude.  With a better attitude, a great personality and a nice smile, an "average guy" can be incredibly hot to women. 

Akasha


Oh yes and women show a lovely attitude towards men dont they. I just love it when they say that "men only think with thier dicks" "We are all jerks" and all the male bashing threads as for the "No Mistress does not want" thread. *rolls eyes*

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

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ORIGINAL: Owned1

Hmmmm one wonders why certain people cannot find what makes them happy, could it be they are simply unhappy people.  In order to find someone you need to have something to offer,  nick do you have anything to offer other than your negative thoughts?  I dont think they will get you far.

Take sometime to relook at what you are seeking, take a trip away from the computer, find some local groups and go and visit people in the flesh.  However I would strongly suggest a huge attitude adjustment first.  Even reading your profile you come across as very negative. 

If you apply for a job would your resume read with all the things you cannot/will not do and what expectations you have as to what the job will give you?  A well written profile should read the same, positive giving others some insight to the you you are willing to share. 

Good luck in your search

Owned

Hey thanks for the advice. But even a positive profile for men does not work. I am bitter because women are bitter to me and men in general in the first place. As I have said. I have approached many women in the past with a polite and positive manner but I get negative feed back at the end. What women need to understand is, its not so much with men who need to change, its women. But all the sleazy men that beg for sex, cyber or meeting need to change also. Women have a a few negative encounters and than blame all men for it. Than when the nice men come along they ignore them anyway.

I wouldnt be complaining if only a few women do what I have said but sadly 99 percent of women ignore men on here no matter of they are polite or not and its really sad. My profile was not always like this and my attitude was not always like this. It takes a large majority to change it. I just think women need to look at their own behavior more than only looking at everything men do wrong. Many women seem to think their own shit doesnt smell but these same women have more faults than men.

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I think being a prostitute is lower than being unemployed. If someone asked you what do you do for a living, what would sound best? I am a prostitute or I am unemployed? I think I would be more interested in the unemployed woman.

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"To learn the art of submission a slave must first give up the desires that drew him to submission in the first place." Mistress Jasmyn Jan 2005.

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

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ORIGINAL: Owned1

Hmmmm one wonders why certain people cannot find what makes them happy, could it be they are simply unhappy people.  In order to find someone you need to have something to offer,  nick do you have anything to offer other than your negative thoughts?  I dont think they will get you far.

Take sometime to relook at what you are seeking, take a trip away from the computer, find some local groups and go and visit people in the flesh.  However I would strongly suggest a huge attitude adjustment first.  Even reading your profile you come across as very negative. 

If you apply for a job would your resume read with all the things you cannot/will not do and what expectations you have as to what the job will give you?  A well written profile should read the same, positive giving others some insight to the you you are willing to share. 

Good luck in your search

Owned

Hey thanks for the advice. But even a positive profile for men does not work. I am bitter because women are bitter to me and men in general in the first place. As I have said. I have approached many women in the past with a polite and positive manner but I get negative feed back at the end. What women need to understand is, its not so much with men who need to change, its women. But all the sleazy men that beg for sex, cyber or meeting need to change also. Women have a a few negative encounters and than blame all men for it. Than when the nice men come along they ignore them anyway.

I wouldnt be complaining if only a few women do what I have said but sadly 99 percent of women ignore men on here no matter of they are polite or not and its really sad. My profile was not always like this and my attitude was not always like this. It takes a large majority to change it. I just think women need to look at their own behavior more than only looking at everything men do wrong. Many women seem to think their own shit doesnt smell but these same women have more faults than men.

LOL...dude you are so off about a positive profile.
I have met and still have as submissives several men from CM.
Check out the POSITIVE MEETINGS section and you will see many people find what they want here.
Perhaps if you looked at their profiles you would see what works.

BTW....I guess you missed the part I posted about earlier about being raped and NOT judgeing all men on the basis that they are "all" like that.If anyone has a right to judge men I would think a rape victim would be it.But I dont assume that all men are rapists just like I dont assume all Pros are whores/hookers/prostitutes.
I wouldnt even say that 99% are like that.I base each person on them not on the others before them.Try it you might find it works.But I know that you wont...its so much better/easier to complain than to fix it.
Lots of Luck to ya.

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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

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How about getting a real job, you might get respect from people than. You cant be a Pro Domme forever. Once you get all wrinkled and old, how will you be earning money? Oh let me guess the government will be paying you? Too bad you have no proper work experience to keep going. You are pretty much well doomed once your looks go from age.

 
Oh how little you know grasshopper
 

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I have no respect for anyone who expects me to pay them for sex or anything sexual related as for BDSM. This should be for free. I think they are sluts,whores, or what ever. Those words only apply to me when a person expects money for sexual pleasures. I dont believe in using the words slut, whore on a woman who sleeps with lots of men for free. I see nothing wrong with that.

 
Now that's your first mistake...to coin a cliche ... nothing in life is free. 
 

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I think being a prostitute is lower than being unemployed. If someone asked you what do you do for a living, what would sound best? I am a prostitute or I am unemployed? I think I would be more interested in the unemployed woman.

 
Pfft, don't play precious ya sanctimonious fuck...

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As for what you said about people visit Pro Dommes for experience and not looks. That is garbage to some extent. Yes, people do go for experience but being a Pro Domme, you have no choice of which clients you participate with. If I was looking for Pro Dommes, I would choose the most attractive one because in real life as for dating or relationships, I wouldnt have a chance with the really good looking ones. When you are paying her as a Pro Domme she has no choice but to accept you. I think most men would go for the more pretty looking women because them women have no choice unless you are the type of Pro Domme who actually chooses which men to play with.

Come on grasshopper covering ya arse is a lazy way to debate ... on one hand you say a pro dom has no choice, then on the other hand you say a pro dom does have choice ... make up ya mind ...either we have a choice or we don't ... pick a side ... or are you cosy with a fence post up ya bum no babies?

I turn down more sessions than I take...primarily because of the attitude they have...go figure..an attitude that is akin to yours.  Like I said, please stay on your side of the Tasman. 

 

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

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As for what you said about people visit Pro Dommes for experience and not looks. That is garbage to some extent. Yes, people do go for experience but being a Pro Domme, you have no choice of which clients you participate with. If I was looking for Pro Dommes, I would choose the most attractive one because in real life as for dating or relationships, I wouldnt have a chance with the really good looking ones. When you are paying her as a Pro Domme she has no choice but to accept you. I think most men would go for the more pretty looking women because them women have no choice unless you are the type of Pro Domme who actually chooses which men to play with.

How did I say pro dommes have a choice and than say they dont have a choice? what do you mean?

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ORIGINAL: carolsea

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

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As for what you said about people visit Pro Dommes for experience and not looks. That is garbage to some extent. Yes, people do go for experience but being a Pro Domme, you have no choice of which clients you participate with. If I was looking for Pro Dommes, I would choose the most attractive one because in real life as for dating or relationships, I wouldnt have a chance with the really good looking ones. When you are paying her as a Pro Domme she has no choice but to accept you. I think most men would go for the more pretty looking women because them women have no choice unless you are the type of Pro Domme who actually chooses which men to play with.

How did I say pro dommes have a choice and than say they dont have a choice? what do you mean?

Geez, she quoted it for you, and I copy and paste it here.  She even put it in bold for you.  Read it one.... more.... time....

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"To learn the art of submission a slave must first give up the desires that drew him to submission in the first place." Mistress Jasmyn Jan 2005.

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

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"To learn the art of submission a slave must first give up the desires that drew him to submission in the first place." Mistress Jasmyn Jan 2005.

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"To learn the art of submission a slave must first give up the desires that drew him to submission in the first place." Mistress Jasmyn Jan 2005.

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ORIGINAL: HBGMaleSub

A Question:

Why can't there be one, JUST ONE, D/s personals site on the internet that is not infested with these "Pro Dommes"? "Infested" is the only word I can use to describe the situation with D/s personals and "Pro Dommes".