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pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 10:04:31 AM

makeaslave

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I've come to the conclusion that probably 80% of straight women that profess to be Dommes here, are pros, is it my imagination, or is there some other reasons Ma'ams, Ladies, Mistresses

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 10:19:16 AM

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I don't know if it is your imagination. Where did you get your statistics?

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 10:53:58 AM

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Really? Oh isn't it great to be gay *sings*

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 10:54:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: makeaslave

I've come to the conclusion that probably 80% of straight women that profess to be Dommes here, are pros, is it my imagination, or is there some other reasons Ma'ams, Ladies, Mistresses

Is this the same fellow that, last week, was claiming that 80% of us were actually men? LOL

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 10:56:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: makeaslave

I've come to the conclusion that probably 80% of straight women that profess to be Dommes here, are pros, is it my imagination, or is there some other reasons Ma'ams, Ladies, Mistresses

By the way, congratulations on your first dimwitted post.

(And this is FREE harassment from a bitch who sits when she pees. I won't send you a bill.)

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 12:07:02 PM

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Yes its your imagination.

Have a nice day!

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 12:07:45 PM

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I get such a kick out of males who bitch about ProDommes. I bet they would be offended if I bitched about them calling themselves Professional Plummers, or Golfers, or whatever they are that they charge a fee for a service that is in demand by people. Why are males so threatened by Women who deserve to be paid for a great service seemingly (my opinion, only) because there isn't sex involved in the exchange? I do have many males who are glad there is no sex involved because they feel bad enough that they cannot share BDSM with their partner, wife, girlfriend or otherwise. Get over it!

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 12:34:46 PM

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Dear makeaslave, Ladies and Gentlemen;

As much as imagination hops around like a cricket running away from the fly swatter, I bloody well think your imagination will take a good swat or so for such a comment. [Laughing good naturedly]

I will also mention, that there may be more non-professional Dominatrix about, that practice more polished skills as to seem that they are professional Dominatrix. Perhaps this may aid you in your "polling."

Respectfully submitted for consideration with a tad bit of wit,
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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 12:39:34 PM

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Gee, he figured us out and he did it in one post. How'd he manage that?

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 12:43:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: makeaslave

I've come to the conclusion that probably 80% of straight women that profess to be Dommes here, are pros, is it my imagination, or is there some other reasons Ma'ams, Ladies, Mistresses

Some other reasons? Reasons for what?

There are plenty of pros. Sure, but unless youve gone through EVERY profle, adn dont the math yourself, Id love to knoww here you got 80%
And for that matter, what the heck your talking about. Its hard to answer a question that seems to be mising half a thought.

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 12:43:29 PM

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*Sigh*

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 12:52:29 PM

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Ooooooeeeee! Rough talk from LadyHugs!

If I'm a pro-Domme, I'm not doing too well. Wait, maybe I'm not straight ... nope, just a lady in that other 20%.

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 12:54:29 PM

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Indeed, there are rather a few Pros on this site. It is free and open to everyone. If you were advertising your business, wouldn't you take every free opportunity? I would.

Reputable and respectable Pro Dominants have their place is our society...a very important place...and they fill needs that others aren't suited to fill. If seeking the service of a Pro isn't something you'd like to do, simply skip their profiles. Yes, it can be frustrating if they don't say they are pro right up front OR you find out later that they're less than repuatable. But, filtering is part of the process. We all have to do it...and believe me, we get crap in our mailboxes all the time.

If I may suggest, consider adding a picture to your profile and "fleshing" out the worded description to include, politely, what you are and are not looking for. Be sure to phrase things politely and your chances will go way up for finding a match.

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 1:41:14 PM

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First reason that comes to mind is what criteria you're likely using to search.

If you're looking for hot photos and vivid description of (ahem, *cough*) play, indeed, you will find a lot of ProDommes attached to those profiles.

(I believe it goes without saying that there are many, many Pros I respect very much - ones whom I've known and scened with IRL during My time as a ProDomme, and a number here on this site as well, and the 'wank profile' does not fit any of them, or their interests. They do not need to resort to baiting the lure when their skills and knowledge speaks for itself.)

MasterFireMaam put it better than I, but yes, there are pros here, and if that is not what you are seeking, do take time to search avidly with a wider criteria, read profiles thoroughly, and work steadily on your own as well to raise your odds for finding a better suited match. In the meantime, alienating many of the more active Dommes here by posting in this manner will not get you the results you're seeking.

Best of luck in your search,

~Thea

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 1:44:12 PM

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Really? Oh isn't it great to be gay *sings*

Indeed it is.

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 2:20:08 PM

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Gawdammit... we're way over the quota for men bitching about pros this month in the Ask A Mistress Forum... when you come back whining about being suckered into sending pic of your cock to a man you thought was a woman be sure to direct your comments to this area:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_333200/mpage_1/key_complaints/tm.htm

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 2:38:04 PM

naughtynick

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DameDeviante

I get such a kick out of males who bitch about ProDommes. I bet they would be offended if I bitched about them calling themselves Professional Plummers, or Golfers, or whatever they are that they charge a fee for a service that is in demand by people. Why are males so threatened by Women who deserve to be paid for a great service seemingly (my opinion, only) because there isn't sex involved in the exchange? I do have many males who are glad there is no sex involved because they feel bad enough that they cannot share BDSM with their partner, wife, girlfriend or otherwise. Get over it!

How about getting a real job, you might get respect from people than. You cant be a Pro Domme forever. Once you get all wrinkled and old, how will you be earning money? Oh let me guess the government will be paying you? Too bad you have no proper work experience to keep going. You are pretty much well doomed once your looks go from age.

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 5:30:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick
How about getting a real job, you might get respect from people than. You cant be a Pro Domme forever. Once you get all wrinkled and old, how will you be earning money? Oh let me guess the government will be paying you? Too bad you have no proper work experience to keep going. You are pretty much well doomed once your looks go from age.

Whoa...now that was uncalled for!

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 5:40:16 PM

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Will the Mistresses of the forum be levied a fine for this abuse of a topic thread? This is a matter of some concern and may well call for a special union meeting! btw..very funny MstrssPassion.

On a serious note, as MasterFireMaam so eloquently pointed out, why ever in the world shouldn't professionals avail themselves of the marketing opportunity?

*edited 'cause matter does so have an 'a' in it

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RE: pro dommes on here - 9/6/2006 7:27:48 PM

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i have no problem with a number of Pro Doms on Collarme. A long time ago i saw 2 Pro Doms. They were my first real experiences in this lifestyle. At that time in my life they definately served a need for me.

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