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Old, but new? Learning curve? - 9/7/2006 10:05:29 AM

bignipples2share

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Well, I've decided to change my profile slightly.
I'm on a learning curve. What else can I say. I'm trying to go from a past history that has been about what the two individuals (at any given time) involved with it thought it was, to what others are labeling it.
It has taken me awhile to try to figure out what any community might view what I am,..... actually is. Heck, even I am trying to figure out what it is. I can only go on how it was, not what to call it. I have no problem that what I labeled it in the past has been controversial. That makes little difference to me.
I feel the need to explore now, more than ever before. I really am not a person to go to public play, but I now feel the need to learn, even though I'm a very private person and need to be such. In spite of the years of past history, I feel like a total newbie and all because of a new damn label and what that can entail LOL
This is a vulnerable moment for me. An unveiling, so to speak. Even though the core of who I've always been is exactly the same, I've alot to learn, yet I still want /need to do this discreetly. Many things could change due to public knowledge. How does one go about this? If I'm now a domme, now there's a second person that needs nuturing. Not that this is a bad thing, just that I really need to consentrate more so than before on positive results and outcome than I may, or may not have considered before. I may have been doing all the right things for them before, but I'd like to see a different perspective and make sure.

~Big

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RE: Old, but new? Learning curve? - 9/7/2006 10:10:19 AM

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ooo would ya looka her, she can't even look back at her sentence structure, or use spell check...LMFAO
Okay, okay, I can laugh at myself, but it's really hard to talk about myself in the second person.

~Big

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RE: Old, but new? Learning curve? - 9/7/2006 10:16:36 AM

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Changing and growing is never easy. In my journey, I've changed from Dominant to Master, from Christian to an ecclectic mix which is mostly Pagan and Native American and from seeing this as a fun hobby kind of thing to feeling it is a spiritual journey. I've also discovered that I have a masochistic side, am a Vampire of the Lilith line, and that sexual attraction is based on the person, not the gender.

Go for it. Labels can be a pain in the ass, but they are helpful when communitcating who you are and what you expect. Label away...but remember to be who you are no matter what label.

Master Fire

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RE: Old, but new? Learning curve? - 9/7/2006 10:18:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: bignipples2share

ooo would ya looka her, she can't even look back at her sentence structure, or use spell check...LMFAO
Okay, okay, I can laugh at myself, but it's really hard to talk about myself in the second person.

~Big

Word is a wonderful program. I only trust myself with about 5 sentences before I feel the overwhelming need for spell check.

Master Fire

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The power of who we are can be intoxicating. The power of who we could be is humbling.
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RE: Old, but new? Learning curve? - 9/7/2006 10:36:35 AM

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Thank you sor much for your words, they've definately been something I can relate to.

~Big

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