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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/24/2006 4:08:24 PM   
peaceNservice


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Status: offline 		Bearlee - Yes I am very fortunate in finding him. By no means are either of us perfect he knows the good, bad and ugly about me. He has helped pull me up from a very dark place in my life and the 5 months that we have been together has taught me so much. But like he told me, he has learned from me also. He is 48 and I am 37 so alot of things that we each are used to dealing with needs to be re-examined and guide lines set forth so this type of thing doesnt happen again. He did assure me that if I came to a public forum before I speak with him, will have serious consequences. He said if I want opinions and how others might deal with something to help us deal that is ok AFTER I speak with him.

No I am not the Master asking this under another name LOL! I have never posted before and made the name so he didnt see my name but that was a wasted thing. Just goes to show, I cant hide from my Master lol.

This has been a lesson for me and him, plus I finally read all the posts and this all shows we handle things differently. I never brought up penis size because it wasnt an issue. I can say all the names, I can get nasty with the best of them I just was trying to lighten the mood, MY MOOD. I may have been foolish but in the end, I talked with him and got everything out in the open.

Many thanks again!

peaceNservice

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/24/2006 5:16:17 PM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		Bearlee ... thanks so much for the vagina links.  They were awesome!

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/24/2006 5:27:30 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		5' hard is not small at all and is VERY different from the cute as a buttin1'2 inchest you told us yesterday... I dont know I find that a bit odd..
      Maybe its just me but I really dont think these forums was the best place to bring this issue!
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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/24/2006 5:37:23 PM   
peaceNservice


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Status: offline 		Master explained to me that playing for a hour with toys and his fingers, I did get stretched out a bit. Ive never had children nor think I am the Holland Tunnel either. lol  From the time he pulled out till the time I cleaned him up and "saw" it, was a few minutes, he had to untie my hands, so he had some shrinkage. Today I felt him, with nothing else before hand going inside of my pussy. Nor was I as wet. Bringing this to the forums before speaking to him wasnt right but I dont see how it is wrong discussing it here. He took it all instride and we actually had fun today! It wasnt so heavy but more lighthearted and fun. His main goal was to reassure me. Because it was bothering me. I dont feel foolish bring it here at all.

peaceNservice

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/24/2006 6:04:31 PM   
Lordandmaster


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ORIGINAL: Bearlee

It made me wonder if my clit is big or small.  Ya know, I don't know!  I know my breasts are large and I know my nipples are small...but I really don't know if I've a large or small or average-sized clit; same with the rest of my vulva...who knows?  I've been with a very few women in my lifetime...not enough, and not recently enough, to know how I 'compare' to them with regard to genitalia.

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/24/2006 6:08:42 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Because, contrary to popular belief, we don't all line up regularly and compare cock sizes.  Besides, you don't measure the flaccid size, so it doesn't matter how big or small his penis is when he urinates.  It's the erect member that matters.

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ORIGINAL: MLskajira

and  Lordandmaster,,,, how could he "not" be aware of how small he is? unless he has always squatted to pee, he had to touch it at some time in his life

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/24/2006 6:20:52 PM   
FirmhandKY


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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/24/2006 6:22:47 PM   
submit2one


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Status: offline 		peaceNservice,

There's a condition called juvenile genitalia, where the genitals simply never grow beyond a given stage in childhood.

I dated a football linebacker in college who was a great bear of a man.  He'd been laughed at and ridiculed by so many young women that he was very difficult to get to know.  When I finally got close enough to find out why he was such a private person, his penis was no larger than the first segment of my thumb, literally.  He had balls and a scrotum that were fairly small, too, but the size of his penis just threw me into a fit of giggles.  Alas I was no different than all those ladies who had emasculated him before me.

Many years later, I ran into a wonderful man, with heart, soul, gentility, honor, so many amazing qualities that once we got to the point of intimacy I never cared that his cock was the size of my little finger.  I had finally matured to the point where I learned that manhood has nothing whatsoever to do with his genitals.  Of course, he was very sensitive and self conscious about his size.  After two decades of marriage, one night he just blurted out in the middle of intercourse that for once he'd like to strap on one of 'those cock extenders' and really put it to me.

I was absolutely stunned, but curious enough to find out if he was sincere.

He was.

We purchased.

It was FANTASTIC!  He was given the joy of making me so sore I couldn't be touched for days, and careful selection of the penile extender gave us a toy that felt so real I nearly fainted underneath him.

We don't use it often, just when he's in the mood.  He often asks me if I want to use it, and I very often decline, sincerely, because once I learned to sensitize myself to 'really feel him' that's what I wanted to feel to be satisfied.

Sometimes I am delighted when he asks to use it on me.  I never ask him to strap it on for me because I don't want to emasculate him in any way.  His happiness and security are far more important to me than my own.

So focus on both:  focus on 'finding what he feels like inside you'.  BenWa balls can be a great help, and so can very small 'pocket dildo's' that are approximately the same size of his cock.  Buy a few even smaller than his cock and practice with them, play with them on your own.  You'll be amazed at how sensitive you can develop your vaginal sensory perception on your own.

Then, when you have gotten to know him better and things are secure between you, explore the world of penile extensions and find one that suits you both.

Best of luck to you,

submit2one


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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/24/2006 6:30:43 PM   
Bearlee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Just send me a picture and I'll give you a full report.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

It made me wonder if my clit is big or small.  Ya know, I don't know!  I know my breasts are large and I know my nipples are small...but I really don't know if I've a large or small or average-sized clit; same with the rest of my vulva...who knows?  I've been with a very few women in my lifetime...not enough, and not recently enough, to know how I 'compare' to them with regard to genitalia.




   ...I shoulda seen that coming!!!  Uhhhhhhhh... No, Sir; but thank you, I'm sure!  LOL

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/24/2006 8:06:44 PM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

Nope. It's already crossed my mind that she might have a pussy that's big enough to parallel park a city transit bus in.  She's already created enough suspicion in my mind because she created another CM name just to hide and address this issue, and can't even SAY the word penis (and all it's other colorful words) without seeming to fall apart.  That stuff was already really evident.....


Pandora :)
 
What if this OP is said DOM under another name to discuss this :)  Ya never know..

Who knows.  And hey, since I've now been tagged a snarky bitch for making light of an uncomfortable situation......I guess it really doesn't matter now, does it?

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/25/2006 12:34:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've heard a rumor some women can use a strapon almost as good as some men can use a strapon.

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/25/2006 1:11:21 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		greetings

i want to say sorry i said something unkind whcih is not like me i said make sure he is not a woman i hope you can forgive me it was so mean and size dos not matter i have a male who was large oh the sex was great this was before i was a domme but i leanrn something after i had my son he left me even dog takes care of it own well so much for penis i would trade him for you guy in a mintue

mons take care he sounds like a wonderful man

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/25/2006 3:00:39 AM   
zero69u2


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Status: offline 		Size of Beep.. well get him some enzyte.. and he'll have a big game of golf like BOB. 

Sex the first time is usually bad. I've had women complain about me not cumming in a timely fashion..
when your not mentally intimately turned on.. the physical level where your hard.. does'nt matter you go on for hours.. she cums good then gets tired.. you have to take breaks and try something else..
Sex does get better when your with same partner for longer. I think because the mental bond between you gets stronger and your more attracted and into it.

Some embarrassing ED situations arise where your in group sex with people you are'nt attracted to (yeah it happens)..Or suppose your partner is attracted to them but your kinda like "I can't wait for this threesome/foursome to end so i can fuck her really good after these fuckers leave." Hopefully this never happens to anyone here.. but good sex is mental 90% and phyisical 10%.

But from your post.. your not happy with situation and need to be honest and find a man who's endowment is the right fit.


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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 9/25/2006 3:39:54 AM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		Well this is a happy ending and I am glad for you both. Wonderful that you could sit together, read the replies and discuss it freely and then play with a much improved understanding of what would work. you have a great Master there, many men (as some have freely admitted here) would have been far more sensitive and just clammed up completely. I had a vanilla boyfriend who could only muster 3" fully erect, and who hadn't been able to cum when we played. While I was not unduly worried and was focused on being patient until things worked for us (especially as he assured me it worked solo, so I figured it was just a matter of time), he pulled the pin on the relationship, deciding it was all too stressful. I was upset and begged him to stay overnight anyway, and just cuddle, which we did. In the shower in the morning, he said something which went straight to my heart and which I've never forgotten. "At least you didn't laugh like all the other girls". Here was this man, a brilliant academic and researcher, who is kind and warmhearted with a wonderful sense of humour, carrying this awful burden of ridicule. He has never had another girlfriend and I feel so sad about that. And now his Mother (whom he cared for diligently, I think he is a natural sub LOL!) has died, he is truly alone.

Fast forward a lot of years and i met Master ... a BIG Man in every other way (6'4" and a large body shape)! In that dept He is the same size as your Master. Fortunately W/we discussed it before W/we got together, and it wasn't an issue for me then. However it did mean some experimentation to find a good position and, trust me, rear entry isn't it for vaginal intercourse for U/us. (It works ok for anal though). The best for U/us is me on my back, legs up against His chest, feet by His ears, and for Him to kneel up to me then take me. This has another advantage, i find it a wonderfully submissive position and He just looks so incredibly Domly up there! Hope it works for you!

While I understand your Master asking you to take things to Him first in future, I also understand that you didn't know how He would react this time with what was an extremely sensitive issue, in which case seeking advice in the forums instead of acting thoughtlessly was a good idea. I really hope you both continue with great love and great joy.

MIstress Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 10/7/2006 8:56:23 AM   
OrionStorm


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ORIGINAL: Areflectionofyou

I guess i may be a little different than most in the fact that as long as we both are pleased somehow and we love one another size doesn't matter. The size of his heart and brain are more important to me...shrugs.
jennifer


jennifer,
 
I am also like you. While I've not had complaints, I know this to be true, "its not the size of the wand, but the magic in it."
 
There are some that want for whatever reason certain size in the "southern hemisphere." However, with different positions, foreplay, and blending a bit of kink, and bondage, and you will be amazed at the depth of pleasure. Remember, sex begins between the ears, not the thighs.
 
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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 10/7/2006 11:04:05 AM   
WhipTheHip


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Status: offline 		LA wrote:
> Putting the person in the uncomfortable position of considering lying
> to not break the mood or hurt the other persons feelings.
 
So, when a partner asks, "Do I look fat in this outfit?"  I suppose the correct
thing to do is say, "Why certainly!  You are fat, hence you look fat in
every outfit."   Discretion is the better part of valor.  I am not going to
say something that will hurt a partner's  feelings, especially during
sex.  I don't consider this "lying."
 
Cheers,
Michael from N. Miami Beach

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 10/10/2006 7:44:06 AM   
Amaros


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ORIGINAL: peaceNservice

Let me start off by saying Yes this is a new name. Not my normal one but I am asking a question that is very serious to me, please don't think I am putting this out there for laughs.

I have been with Master 5 months real time.  Meeting, getting to know each other, getting comfortable, light playing, alot of teasing on his part to me but this far no actual sexual intercourse.  Which is fine with me.  We have played where he will use toys on me and hands etc.  So this past week was going to be IT, where I finally get the honor of touching him and pleasing him more then I have been.  Mind you, I've not seen him nude or touched him other then normal.  It hasn't been allowed.

I made him a great meal, we take a walk and come back to my house and we begin playing.  He gets me so worked up, so IN the moment and I am finally going to actually feel him in me.  Which I have been wanting for so long now and I was so ready.  I am with my face to the bed, arms tied behind my back, ass in the air... get the picture?  Dying, begging to feel my Master in me........ I feel his hips hitting me and he is saying "Can you feel your Master" etc along those lines ( I feel weird quoting it, like a bad porno or something) and its done and over with. 

My problem? (Im getting there Im getting there!!)  NO I did NOT feel him!  After it was over he sat me up and told me to clean him up with my mouth. I did as I was ordered gladly too!  But when you describe a mans penis, "cute as a button" shouldnt be how you describe it, epecially when it is as big as a button.  Do you see where I am going here?  I am blushing so damn bad just typing this!  I feel like an ass just saying this but don't know how else to describe it but I feel let down!  I have always been one of those that said "size doesn't matter" and it hasnt ever been an issue.  But I just feel like I'm missing out!  Am I a awful slave?  And god NO I haven't said a word to him.  I dont want to hurt his feelings.  Our dynamic is so great and we have had no significant problems a couple bumps here and there.  I know as a slave my pleasure isn't what it is all about but this is really bothering me and even more bothering me that it is such a big deal to me.

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!


I guess it comes down to: do want a dominant you love and trust, or do yo want a big dick? You could think of it as going lesbian, you know they don't have dicks at all, and somehow they still manage.

I honestly don't know what else to say here, except that I almost have to admire the guy for not making a big deal out of what is, for a man, practically a disability.

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 10/10/2006 7:53:23 AM   
Amaros


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Status: offline 		Insofar as your needs are concerned, if you really feel submissive to this man, grind it! Your frustration can increase the intensity. Personally, I love to watch a woman try to get herself off without using the usual appendage, cock or tongue: fuck my hand, my chest, my hipbone, my leg, etc., preferably with your hands tied behind your back, and maybe blindfolded heh. It forces you to become less passive, more active, get your whole body and being into the act - and it can really make you glow.

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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 10/10/2006 8:04:25 AM   
Bearlee


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ORIGINAL: Amaros

... grind it! ... Personally, I love to watch a woman try to get herself off without using the usual appendage, cock or tongue: fuck my hand, my chest, my hipbone, my leg, etc., preferably with your hands tied behind your back, and maybe blindfolded heh. It forces you to become less passive, more active, get your whole body and being into the act - and it can really make you glow.


  O M F G !!!
 
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RE: Need advice on size of Master's --beeeep-- - 10/10/2006 9:03:43 AM   
sugarcoatedscamp


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Status: offline 		FYI:  The US national average penis size is 5.25".

...the more you know...

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