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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 7:20:27 AM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: justheather


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ORIGINAL: raevyntc

Little girl, first please learn to spell; second if you wish to check my "identity" feel free to meet me at Ben Wick's Pub on Parliament Street in Toronto on the third Tuesday of the month, ask to be seated with the DSSG group. I will be the very tall silver haired gent with the nun tattooed down my arm.
 



Are all Canadian psychiatwists so vewy vewy sewious?


Hello A/all,

In addition to diagnosing psychiatric disorders from reading posts over the internet, Canada frequently provides medications over the Internet to people in the US to allow them to avoid the Pharma companies price fixing on medications in the US.  I am looking forward to obtaining the appropriate perscriptions for what ails us posted for julia and myself in a few posts.

I cant wait.

I cannot speak for the educational system in Canada, but to become licensed in most states to practice psychiatry or counseling in the United States, the following standards generally apply.

A counselor is somebody you can go to talk to about problems and psychological issues.  They have 7 or more years of study in psychology and counseling.  A Dr. of Psychology can go even further with this, as their level of expertise is 8-10 years in the study of psychology and counseling.

A psychiatrist goes to pre-medical school and then medical school to earn their M.D. and then does a year or so of study in psychiatry from the standpoint of using medications to alleviate symptoms of psychiatric disorders.

To summarize:  A psychologist can provide expert counseling, advice, etc., to their patients.  A psychiatrist might (this would not be their specialty; you dont ask the plumber to fix your car, for example) be able to provide some general forms of counseling, but more importantly, they can provide medications to aid the afflicted should medications be required. 

They both have their place in the field of mental health, but I personally find the distinction to be extremely important when choosing a mental health care provider. 

Thank you for the lovely (and free) psychiatric advice, Raevyn, but we are good.

Sinergy


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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 7:40:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

lmao


Knight pourquoi êtes vous riant, je réalise mon anglais n'est pas le monde meilleur car ce n'est pas ma langue maternelle, souvent deux fois avait dit elle a souhaité que nous pourrions message instantané chez la personne mais je me penser ai parlé assez tout simplement pour être compris.
 
Ainsi je vous répondrai se servant du langage de ma naissance pour une meilleure compréhension sur votre partie.
 
Bien que je conteste ce que vous aie été plein d'humour considérant votre réputation antérieure pour la pensée dirigée de niveau que votre attaque était sans garantie et unprovoked, deux fois fait aucune insulte à vous.
 
Car j'ai commenté plus tôt à votre animal de compagnie ou le protocole représente tous ou absents, c'est une chose déshonorante pour l'appliquer autre sage.
 
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ORIGINAL: justheather

Are all Canadian psychiatwists so vewy vewy sewious?


A few days removing barnacles from the hull of my boat with your teeth should cure that apparent speech impediment. Does your Master lend you out? I would return you much improved.
 
 
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ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

I think what he meant was, unless Singery was KOMs sub KOM really has no right to tell twice she did not speak in the most appropriate way to prove her point. Following protcol  Only twices, Master/Mistress should correct her.I could be wrong


Sweetling you are correct, if Sinergy  was Knights sub and wanted Twice to follow protocol then he should have as well, meaning exactly what you said; he should have taken the matter up with Scooter and Jewel. If Sinergy is not his sub then he had no right to comment on her behavior citing protocol violations as the reason for doing so.
 
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ORIGINAL: OhReallyNow

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As a psychiatrist, perhaps you would be willing to comment on the psychological danger of somebody vesting their emotional stability in the opinions of others.

Oh dear 
Ok, this slave can not hold it back  
Well said Sir
 lolEven Master chuckled over that one


So you agree this Sinergy should consult a professional? 
 
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ORIGINAL: OhReallyNow
She also finds it very amusing that Twice, who claims to be so able to stand on her own, would need the words of another to defend her.


Need? No my pet.

Want? Twice probably thinks I have been at the red wine again, though I have not, and wishes I would cease.

Going to have my humble self doing so anyway? For the moment yes, if for no other reason than it amuses me for the moment.
 
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I will check myself into the hospital you work for, and which is this again?

What school did you go to again?


I have my own practice and am associated with Saint Michaels in Toronto. I am an alumni of the
University of Saskatchewan

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Perhaps you can email me your name.. since you are so ethical I think I would like your board to know how you use your credentials, which is to attack women you do not know on internet message boards.


Careful little girl your Daddy will probably come home and spank you again.

In what way were you attacked? 

I'll email you mine if you email me yours, as well as your job information and family contacts, fair is fair after all. If you wish to play show and tell with my associates I get to play with yours. 




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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 7:48:27 AM   
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Careful little girl your Daddy will probably come home and spank you again.



raevyntc,

Please grant me the common courtesy of not making such abrasive and/or threatening comments at the property of other Dominants.

Additionally, please do not attempt to intrude yourself into my relationship with my submissive without discussing it with me first.

I appreciate your forthcoming decision to respect my wishes in this matter.

Regards,

Sinergy

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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 7:51:18 AM   
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Good lord, what sort of mess has this thread turned into? I don't wanna read all 20 pages, is there a reader digest condensed version in print yet?

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 7:55:11 AM   
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Summarizing then;

Men have penises and women have vaginas (for the most part of humans)

That is about the short shrift of communal agreement here.


Bill is in the mail. LT,

Ron

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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 8:14:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: justheather


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ORIGINAL: raevyntc

Little girl, first please learn to spell; second if you wish to check my "identity" feel free to meet me at Ben Wick's Pub on Parliament Street in Toronto on the third Tuesday of the month, ask to be seated with the DSSG group. I will be the very tall silver haired gent with the nun tattooed down my arm.
 



Are all Canadian psychiatwists so vewy vewy sewious?


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Ah, Cwist Awmighty, I have a migwaine now, I need to swawwow some aspwin!!!! 



OMG I love this.  You people are bad.

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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 8:17:07 AM   
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is there a reader digest condensed version in print yet?


People get pissed off, their friends get pissed off, some kink is spiritual, some people have disturbing issues (sorry Julia, I can't help it   )


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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 8:18:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Good lord, what sort of mess has this thread turned into? I don't wanna read all 20 pages, is there a reader digest condensed version in print yet?


Don't ask.  Up until page 17 or so, there was some interesting dialogue, interspersed with some bickering.  Then about halfway down page 18, it turned into the Jerry Springer show.

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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 8:23:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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is there a reader digest condensed version in print yet?


People get pissed off, their friends get pissed off, some kink is spiritual, some people have disturbing issues (sorry Julia, I can't help it   )



And to think, before this thread I was a well adjusted individual with a life and a family....

Well perhaps I was not THAT well adjusted, and I still have a life and a family

and to LaTigresse

One camp:
Has a label maker and they have left their plastic tags all over WIITWD

Other camp:
doesn't like that

Just me could be wrong

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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 8:45:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

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ORIGINAL: raevyntc

Careful little girl your Daddy will probably come home and spank you again.


Please grant me the common courtesy of not making such abrasive and/or threatening comments at the property of other Dominants.


You mean the way you did with Scooter and Jewel's property Twice?

Either this is an open forum where all are free to converse as they choose or it is not. As you so admirably demonstrated you feel quite free to direct comments of this nature at the property of other dominants so please explain to me why i should extend this courtesy to you?

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Additionally, please do not attempt to intrude yourself into my relationship with my submissive without discussing it with me first.


If you do not wish her to converse with me perhaps you should tighten her leash and instruct her not to.

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I appreciate your forthcoming decision to respect my wishes in this matter.


I give respect where it is earned, from your previous ill bred behavior towards a friend of mine i think you need to put considerable effort into earning  mine.


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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 8:56:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail


Summarizing then;

Men have penises and women have vaginas (for the most part of humans)

That is about the short shrift of communal agreement here.


Bill is in the mail. LT,

Ron


Thank you Ron, the check is in the mail.

Looks like alot of hot air to me. Is the AC broke?


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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 8:59:19 AM   
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The faux warm up before the Gales of November came early.....


Ron

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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 9:12:24 AM   
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Thanks, I *really* needed that song on replay in my head.  arghhhhh

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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 10:54:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Thanks, I *really* needed that song on replay in my head.  arghhhhh

Oh, that song makes me cry.
Tear.


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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 10:59:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: raevyntc
A few days removing barnacles from the hull of my boat with your teeth should cure that apparent speech impediment. Does your Master lend you out? I would return you much improved.
 


Is that a euphemism? That's hot.

I don't have a master. I am not a slave.
Did you not read the handy manual of BDSM Definitions and Acceptable Uses for Terminology when you signed up for your account yesterday?



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And paste me in that book you always carry.
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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 1:26:09 PM   
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Unfortunately, twicehappy, i think you are correct.  We have become a society (vanilla/bdsm) of instant gratification and 'honor' or doing the 'honorable' thing has gone by the way side.



I think for many, those here for the instant gratification this is true, but i know of many who even though they wince when the hear the word honor due to it's over use still have honor in their lives.

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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 3:26:00 PM   
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I don't have a master. I am not a slave.


Whatever!  You've been officially dubbed by a psychiastrist, let's see you weasel your way outta this one Slavejustheather.






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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 4:45:39 PM   
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and to LaTigresse

One camp:
Has a label maker and they have left their plastic tags all over WIITWD

Other camp:
doesn't like that

That about sums it up, and lost in the shuffle were some pretty good definitions offered up by teamnoir on page 17. Unfortunately he's gonna perish along with the rest of us because his definitions aren't biased like those offered by the first camp.

Oh, and now we have a psychiatrist demonstrating his sanity by taking on all comers in a pissing match. Just remember there is a new rule for the forums -- as a woman you need to follow proper protocol if you want to join in.

< Message edited by happypervert -- 10/3/2006 4:47:23 PM >


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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 4:57:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ScooterTrash
Interesting cowardly approach! As an FYI "raevyntc" is a legit shrink


Hello A/all,

What is curious is that the poster gave out enough information for me to contact St. Michaels Hospital, get the phone number of his practice, and contact him if
I so choose to ask him about his postings on this message board regarding
his comments to my submissive.  This is not done because I am interested in stalking him, I personally find his comments to be reprehensible and completely out of line with the protocols espoused by people I know in the Toronto scene.

Not that I would be so base as to engage in such behaviors, but I find it curious that an alleged upstanding member of the professional community in Toronto would really want it made public knowledge of his activities in this lifestyle.

I personally think that this person is a legitimate psychiatrist.  What I also suspect
is that his nickname and professional credentials are being hijacked by somebody else to further his or her own agenda. 

Just me, could be wrong, but there you go.

Sinergy


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RE: BDSM Definitions? - 10/3/2006 5:09:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Sinergy
What is curious is that the poster gave out enough information for me to contact St. Michaels Hospital, get the phone number of his practice, and contact him if I so choose to ask him about his postings on this message board regarding his comments to my submissive.  This is not done because I am interested in stalking him, I personally find his comments to be reprehensible and completely out of line with the protocols espoused by people I know in the Toronto scene.


I would think that a phone call that would definitively clear the matter up would be preferable to an accusation. Just me....I could be wrong.

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