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What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/26/2006 6:13:01 PM   
knees2you


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Status: offline 		What are Your Health~Hard limits?

I know everybody has Hard limits,
I'm just wondering what "Health~Hard"
limits we might have?
 
Mine is Full Human Toilet.
Fire play.
Sword play.
 
quote:

"What I see, and What I feel, Is what You Crave!"
 
Ant, & LilBecque.
 
 
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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/26/2006 6:38:18 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		For Me and mine No scat, watersports, blood, fire, spitting. For Me those previous plus no heavy lifting or bending over or kneeling. With 2 ruptured disks and arthritis in my back now I just cant lift and move around as good as I used too.

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/26/2006 6:44:30 PM   
spanklette


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Status: offline 		No gags. I have TMJ...my jaw will lock and ruin an entire evening. I had the unfortunate experience of finding this out mid fellatio...

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/27/2006 5:06:01 AM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		To name a few, I avoid putting people into shock, breaking bones, excessive/arterial bleeding, scat, forced vomitting, and the recreational use of drugs.  

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/27/2006 10:52:22 AM   
WhyteRavenne


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Status: offline 		Good question!

Mine are most things physical.. which is why I play in the mind.

I have a health history Hel herself would cringe at.  Mid 20's stroke, cancer (breast and cervical), bad heart, arthritis, and freak if put under hypnosis.  I'm a sadomasochists nightmare!  However, in some ways, I used my disabilities to my advantage... I can go into a deep subspace if I get guided  well and trust.  lol... oh, and my glasses are like coke bottle ends.. take them off, and I'm blind!

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/27/2006 1:24:02 PM   
WhyteRavenne


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Status: offline 		this has nothing to do with this thread...

But, at the moment two Raven(ne)'s are looking at it.. hee hee

WhyteRavenne and VioletRaven

How cool is that (oh man, where's my geek card?!)

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/27/2006 1:53:57 PM   
hypnoticblue


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Status: offline 		Scat, blood, water play...  and I have a displaced tailbone so I have to be a little careful of that....

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/27/2006 3:55:47 PM   
diamonddreamlove


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Status: offline 		Scat, blood, fire, no condom no sex,  watersports, breath play hope this covers most of the health ones but if not will say when the topic comes up i know if i will consider it or not and if not will speak up!

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/27/2006 5:35:48 PM   
MistressSassy66


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Status: offline 		No scat or full toilet service.No blood(needles or piercings).
Enemas are another I dont do.

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/27/2006 6:03:15 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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From: Reed City, Michigan
Status: offline 		no bathroom play (enemas or otherwise), no knife play, no animals

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/27/2006 8:11:56 PM   
perverseangelic


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From: Davis, Ca
Status: offline 		Among other, more traditional things, no play that invovles submerging me in water or getting water in my ears. I have ear drum problems.

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/28/2006 1:48:43 AM   
yaqeta


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Status: offline 		My Master sets one limit for me: no unprotected sex with anyone else.  When I am with him, there are no other limits.  When I am playing without him, it varies depending on who the players are and how well I know them.

I guess my limits are not hard and fast rules for all times and all situations.  I adapt them to where I am, what I'm doing, and most importantly, who I am doing it with.

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/28/2006 2:43:06 PM   
defiantbadgirl


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Status: offline 		Unprotected sex (including oral), anal sex, blood, needles, animals, kids, strangulation, scarring, face slapping, or anything bisexual.

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/28/2006 8:50:58 PM   
bigjohnson


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Status: offline 		I think if i was to be involved right now I would have to avoid the bondage of my legs and being tied below my knee. I have 3 torn ligaments right now in my knee. It would be entertaining for me to see the look on a Domme's face when she saw my knee buckle though. My lower left leg is basically flopping around until surgery time. Which will be a whole nother story

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/28/2006 9:00:41 PM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		Other than all the ones noted above .... being awake for too long.  I used to stay awake for for 36-48 hours at a time, and there's no way I can do that now.  Sleep dep is not my friend, so weird interrogation scenes with someone would be right out.

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/29/2006 6:17:52 AM   
armorfati


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Status: offline 		Scat, watersports, animals, kids, anal fisting, human ashtrasy, poly- I think thats it 

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/29/2006 7:58:40 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		The limits he placed on me:

No Smoking/Drugs
No more than 1 drink in a setting (2 on rare/special occasions)
No sex (of any kind) with others unless he orders it
No death
No body part removal (hair cuts are ok, lol)
Nothing involving a human under the age of 18 (BDSM specific)

I believe everything else is fair game.


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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/29/2006 8:02:48 AM   
Frank01


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Status: offline 		No recreational drugs, period.

No doing physical or real mental damage.

If morbidly obese, must come down to healthy levels-if there is a "glandular problem" it's deal breaker.

Must have reasonably stable mental processes and attitudes.

< Message edited by Frank01 -- 9/29/2006 8:03:30 AM >

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/29/2006 12:05:05 PM   
maudite


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Status: offline 		No scat, watersports, breath play, fire play, knife play, piercing, or serious injury. I have arthritis, so anything that might cause major bruising or serious joint stress is a big no-no -- once the inflammation response is set off, my whole body joins the party. No really long blowjobs, either. A gag is one thing, since I'm not holding my own jaw open, but I can't perform fellatio for long without being in excruciating (and extremely unsexy) pain. (I've found that most men -- kinky and vanilla both -- aren't very sensitive to that last thing. I've been tempted to make fellatio of any kind a hard limit, just to prevent that sort of thing, but I *like* giving head as long as it doesn't hurt. Yeah, I know, I just need to pick better guys.)

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RE: What are Your Health~Hard limits? - 9/29/2006 2:06:09 PM   
TheShadows


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From: Southern Illinois
Status: offline 		We're heavy players, so a lot of things others would list doesn't even make an appearance on our list.

Absolutely no unprotected sex,
no sharing needles or insertables,
no bodily fluid swapping, including blood, 
no scat,
no profuse bleeding,
no animals,
no kids,
no breath play which involves unconciousness,
no people who have heart conditions, breathing problems, or seizure disorders...

That's about all I can think of right now.

As always, YMMV...

TheShadows

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