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Servicing - 9/27/2006 9:09:04 PM

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I have a slight gag reflex when i service my Dom (giving head)... It stems from a bad experience a while back, but He is helping me work through it. my question is this: i had heard that you can use either a mentholated cough drop, or something similar, i think if i remmeber correctly, to numb the back of your throat so it makes it easier to get past the gag reflex. Is this dangerous if you wait for the numbing sensation to go away before eating/drinking? And also, what can you suggest to use for this?

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RE: Servicing - 9/27/2006 9:23:04 PM

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Regardless of how 'far' you want to take it, this page about deepthroating has a few good tips to learn to control the gag reflex.. They may or may not work for everyone, but worth having a look at..

Iskander...

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RE: Servicing - 9/27/2006 10:40:36 PM

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That is a really good site actually. Oh, and if you want something safe and numbing for the back of the throat, try chloroseptic sprays.

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RE: Servicing - 9/27/2006 10:45:13 PM

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Frankly, due to jaw problems and small mouth, I use my mouth only 30% of the time doing oral sex.

My generic method is to start with my hands- massage the cock, scratch the balls a bit, get the blood flowing so you can start to sense when it's getting hard.

Then I use my mouth to lick it gently, get it more sensitized and a bit wet. This is about the only time I put my mouth into the cock- when it's still only half hard and can fit easily, and I can roll my tongue around it inside.

After that, I keep my mouth almost completely on the head, which is the most sensitive, just licking and keeping saliva flowing so that my hands, which are doing all of the shaft work by stroking regularly. The fingers cover more area and are more manipulative than the tongue and you can keep the pace going much better than with your mouth alone.

So, teeth aren't a problem at all.

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RE: Servicing - 9/28/2006 7:57:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

This is about the only time I put my mouth into the cock- when it's still only half hard and can fit easily, and I can roll my tongue around it inside.

After that, I keep my mouth almost completely on the head, which is the most sensitive, just licking and keeping saliva flowing so that my hands, which are doing all of the shaft work by stroking regularly.

While the head is the most sensitive that DOES NOT mean the rest of the member should be excluded. Just take what you can.

I am average size and some women can and some women can't or won't go deep. Contrary to most thoughts and the mere request for the act "Suck the cock", it is not about the sucking power at all, it is rather more about the friction and or pressure of the sliding in and out emulating the same motion of vaginal or anal intercourse. The real difference is during this pressure while deep within intercourse the ass or vaginal does not have a tongue.

If you are blowing your man only on and around the head, you are missing it in my opinion. Sure a hand job can help but it is NOT the same nor can it be disguised as such. Without knowing your technique completely the thought of a Blow job head only = C- maybe even D+ Sorry

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RE: Servicing - 9/28/2006 11:03:23 AM

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Somehow.. I just dont see LA getting all that many complaints from her partners LOL

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RE: Servicing - 9/28/2006 11:27:27 AM

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...Contrary to most thoughts and the mere request for the act "Suck the cock", it is not about the sucking power at all, it is rather more about the friction and or pressure of the sliding in and out emulating the same motion of vaginal or anal intercourse. The real difference is during this pressure while deep within intercourse the ass or vaginal does not have a tongue.

I'd have to say that a hand or hands wrapped around a slick, saliva-coated cock would most likely do the same thing... If one is physically unable to deep-throat, why penalize them for doing what they can in a way most men would find enjoyable?

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RE: Servicing - 9/28/2006 11:35:07 AM

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Is this dangerous if you wait for the numbing sensation to go away before eating/drinking? And also, what can you suggest to use for this?

Um, no - assuming the coughdrop is not still in your throat where it might get lodged. The active ingredient in coughdrops is typically Menthol, and it doesn't result in a powerful enough numbing effect to constitute any danger.

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RE: Servicing - 9/28/2006 12:35:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: DelRey

...Contrary to most thoughts and the mere request for the act "Suck the cock", it is not about the sucking power at all, it is rather more about the friction and or pressure of the sliding in and out emulating the same motion of vaginal or anal intercourse. The real difference is during this pressure while deep within intercourse the ass or vaginal does not have a tongue.

I'd have to say that a hand or hands wrapped around a slick, saliva-coated cock would most likely do the same thing... If one is physically unable to deep-throat, why penalize them for doing what they can in a way most men would find enjoyable?

You can say anytyhing you would like, but in this case you'd be wrong.
I'm not saying its bad by any means, just not as desirable.

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RE: Servicing - 9/28/2006 12:43:07 PM

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Well, not having a gag-reflex, it's never been an issue for me; but the men I've known don't really seem to mind one over the other, really. <shrugs> Seems to me the attention is all good...

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RE: Servicing - 9/28/2006 1:01:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: Bearlee

Well, not having a gag-reflex, it's never been an issue for me; but the men I've known don't really seem to mind one over the other, really. <shrugs> Seems to me the attention is all good...

Trust me, they did. And Yes it is all good. but the difference is Night and DAY
(when you have a good meal do you whine that it could have been better? I don't)

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RE: Servicing - 12/12/2006 10:04:54 PM

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Thank you, everyone, so much!!! i have actually worked past both the physical and mental barrier that prevented me from doing this, and i appreciate everyone's comments!! they really helped, but i do have to admit that it was a lot of patience and love on my Dom's part that helped me through this, as it was emotional as well. Thank you again!

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RE: Servicing - 12/13/2006 12:52:06 AM

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I rarely get a gag reflex, but what i try to do before hand, its to relax my throat, mind you that it doesnt always work, but Master likes to see me gag

Thank You Sir Iskander, the site is very informative.

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RE: Servicing - 12/13/2006 1:53:06 AM

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After a root canal on a rear molar my dentist told me that the best way to prevent a gag reflex from the surgery after the novocaine wore off, was to suck on peppermint candy or breath mints. i have used mint as home remedy for nausea too. It works! Also, to breathe OUT as penis goes IN works wonders.

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RE: Servicing - 12/18/2006 5:41:47 PM

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Do you realize that anything in your mouth that numbs your mouth will also numb the nerves in the cock and make it impossible to get off?

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RE: Servicing - 12/18/2006 7:43:37 PM

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Personally, I dislike the use of hands. It's like a food at Denny's: I can do that myself.

One long-term girlfriend had a small mouth and I didn't force her. However, she worked the head and as much as the shaft as she could, but the real excitement was how much SHE enjoyed it. What a turn-on.

Over time she got so she could handle more, but never more than half. What an amazing sight, though, to see that lump in the throat of a slender girl.

BTW, one girl on CM (you know who you are!) told me that the gagging sensaiton is a turn-on for her!

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