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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/22/2007 7:46:46 PM

GuidingLite

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ORIGINAL: Solinear

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ORIGINAL: shamedmale

And no, im not immature,

I never implied it, you inferred it.

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I just happen to have an opinion, I happen to have the guts to express it

And this makes your opinion any more valid than everyone else's? The fact remains that if you want something that you can't get for free, you have to pay for it. It doesn't matter if it's food, shelter or a good spanking while you're tied to a rack (those are always cheap...).

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I dont care what any Domme thinks

I guess it's a good thing that I'm a Dom.

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I believe in my convictions and unfortunately there are not enough of people like me on this site

You're right, most people think that they should get paid for what they do. If you don't want to pay for food, go buy some farmland and animals. If you don't want to pay to get your computer fixed, learn to fix it yourself. If you don't want to pay for a Domme, then go find a girlfriend that is willing to do those things.

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I believe there are many good Dommes out there, but equally I feel the more avaricious need to be exposed whether its by me or someone else it doesnt matter.

I just don't understand how not getting paid equates to being good and getting paid equates to being bad.

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Male subs have a voice too and no one should be allowed to ride rough shod over our opinions.

Money talks.... you know the rest.

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I respect your opinion but I happen not to agree with it

The fact that you initially stated that I can't argue my point intelligently makes me infer that you really didn't agree with this statement. You can think what you want to think, but when you start calling other people names and degrading the way they make their living, to me you simply cross a line.

I generally try to lead by example, not by shouting louder than others and more frequently. I don't always succeed, but I try.

Good stuff here.

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/22/2007 7:50:13 PM

GuidingLite

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Hmmmm... Ten pages. Three months. One arrogant photo. Zero text in profile. One post in this thread. Zero OP responses. = One Troll.

:lol: And a troll who thinks all women are alike and hates em all.

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/23/2007 9:36:11 AM

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im not degrading anyone, i dont think i even criticised you , im not calling people's names , im just giving my opinion, i hope im allowed to do that
kind regards
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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/23/2007 12:35:53 PM

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i don't think a Mistress will be only about money. but maybe a Mistress will only be interested in you for your money and nothing else about you?

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/23/2007 1:19:57 PM

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thats precisely his point, he does not want to have to pay top dollar, well that s the vibe i get anyway
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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/23/2007 2:41:07 PM

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Dying to know what shamed has to say!

What if we offer money Mods? $300-00 an hour to get his posts approved quicker?

They have to be "interesting", they just have to LOL!

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/23/2007 3:33:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: shamedmale

thats precisely his point, he does not want to have to pay top dollar, well that s the vibe i get anyway
shamed

He does not HAVE to pay top dollar. He is free to shop around for a prodomme whose rates he finds more reasonable.

He could even *gasp* spend the time and effort in finding and establishing a relationship with a lifestyle domme.

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/23/2007 5:50:51 PM

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He could even *gasp* spend the time and effort in finding and establishing a relationship with a lifestyle domme.

Don't be ridiculous! Why should he and his God's gift self develop social skills, and actually treat women as anything more that vehicles to his kinky fullfillment?
Why should anyone take responsibility for his failures in forming human connections? Don't each of us have to at some point reconcile our needs/wants, and our outcomes? Don't we have to take responsibility for succeeding or failing due to our choices?
Yes there are people who suck in the world, and sometimes contribute to our failures, but a partner honestly presenting his/her requirements in order to enter into some sort of relationship does not qualify when the accepting other is an ADULT of sound mind. M

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/23/2007 5:54:32 PM

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I am new to collarme and I've run into the opposite problem. Subs think Mistresses are all about money. They think that if your the Domme you should support them. This has just been my personal experience.

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/23/2007 8:20:23 PM

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I am new to collarme and I've run into the opposite problem. Subs think Mistresses are all about money. They think that if your the Domme you should support them. This has just been my personal experience.

*nod* I've experienced this also, they want 24/7, but don't want to contribute to expenses at all, no rent, no utilities, no job to pay for their damn girlie clothes obsession, etc. I am honest with all potential 24/7 what their role will be, what their monthly home contribution will be, etc.and what will and won't be included (their own fetish wear comes out of their own discretionary spending monies).

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/23/2007 8:26:36 PM

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I am thinking troll o rama!!!!!!!!

Anybody seen a buck out of these guys????????

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/23/2007 8:45:08 PM

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This person has been going on and on ad nauseum on this issue. When Ive seen this Obsession from others they are in treatment for the anxiety disorder known as OCD. In other words he just can not help himself!! Best to ignore rather than feed the behavior.

Cheers!

MiLady

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ORIGINAL: shamedmale

im not degrading anyone, i dont think i even criticised you , im not calling people's names , im just giving my opinion, i hope im allowed to do that
kind regards
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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/24/2007 8:24:43 AM

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now that a totally different kettle of fish. If you move in with a Domme, use a Domme's house as well as her dungeon, then in effect you become flat mates, then yes definitely you must go halfo halfo, in order words, whatever you use , you have an obligation to pay for , you have an obligation to pay rent, but that is different. Any sub who moved in with a Mistress and wanted a Mistress to pay for everything, well let's just say they are as bad as the Mistresses who want lots of money from their subs for relatively little, thats if you like reverse exploitation, sub exploiting Domme, and no i wont be narrow minded, this does happen unfortunately too
best of luck
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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/24/2007 8:27:13 AM

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i wont say any more on the issue, i regret if people think im being judgmental, i of all people have no licence to be judgmental on anyone not after what ive been through, i did indeed suffer depression in the near past, thankfully its behind me now

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/24/2007 8:29:40 AM

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im surprised at your remark Lady Ellen, maybe its only an aberration, I also regarded you as a person who could argue competently and intelligently but i guess we all have our flaws, myself included by the way

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/24/2007 9:55:31 AM

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Hey shamed, of course I have flaws!

I'm going into pro-domme services after all

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/24/2007 2:13:17 PM

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just because your a pro domme doesent mean you are particularly more flawed than anyone else , it s your humanity which makes you me and everyone flawed, your humanity, my humanity and our humanity
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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/24/2007 3:25:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen
Dying to know what shamed has to say!

What if we offer money Mods? $300-00 an hour to get his posts approved quicker?

They have to be "interesting", they just have to LOL!
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Now you're just being sadistic to the rest of us... Why are you encouraging bad trolling; it almost makes me miss the guys who say "what would you make me do if I were your slave, and please be explicit with the sexual details?" M

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/24/2007 3:30:45 PM

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I really enjoy being dominated by a women but honestly is something I cant afford. Looks to me that its a fetish just for rich old guys, some mistresses ask for 300 an hour some even 500, come on !! thats a week salary and we dont even have sex.

Well, from your picture, it would appear you aren't old, however if your conclusions are correct, I'm thinking the first order of bidness for you would be to become rich.

It ain't that tough...but every minute you're complaining about being neither rich, nor old...only one of those two options is coming true.

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 1/24/2007 3:38:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW

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ORIGINAL: womenrule

I really enjoy being dominated by a women but honestly is something I cant afford. Looks to me that its a fetish just for rich old guys, some mistresses ask for 300 an hour some even 500, come on !! thats a week salary and we dont even have sex.

Well, from your picture, it would appear you aren't old, however if your conclusions are correct, I'm thinking the first order of bidness for you would be to become rich.

It ain't that tough...but every minute you're complaining about being neither rich, nor old...only one of those two options is coming true.