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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 9/30/2006 9:39:03 PM

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well, you whore you! shameless hussy, how dare you! give him all his money back, and support him so he can loll on the sofa all day and watch soaps and drink beer and fart.

I'm a medical transcriptionist, myself. I work at home, which is terrific and I love it.... except you kinda never *leave* work, and sometimes I have to make a concerted effort to get out of the house just to get away for awhile, you know? I personally will expect my slave to contribute at least half of the household budget... no more than what is fair. Of course, some guys *want* financial domination, or complete ownership, in which case some negotiation would be in order, of course.

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I am a CPA and make very good money. Yet, I still take his paycheck. Now what? Oh that must make me a prostitue with a job on the side. Damn me straight to hell!!!!!!!!!

Yes, Ma'am. I will get right on that. As soon as he gets here I will hand over the checkbook and tell him to quit his job in the morning. ROFL he for sure will ask Excuse me Goddess but have you bumped your head today...
Too funny...

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 9/30/2006 9:42:54 PM

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Heehee. It'd almost be worth it, just to see his face when you told him! LOL!

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Yes, Ma'am. I will get right on that. As soon as he gets here I will hand over the checkbook and tell him to quit his job in the morning. ROFL he for sure will ask Excuse me Goddess but have you bumped your head today...
Too funny...

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 9/30/2006 10:26:48 PM

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As women we should not tolerate prostituion in any form.

I am judgemental and I know the difference between right and wrong. Taking money for sex (and BD / SM play is a form of sex) is too easy. It allows women to fall into a trap and never allows then to reach their true full potential.

Become a doctor, engineer, nurse, accountant - do something meaningful with your life.................

I work in a specialized area of science where I have made some moderately respectable and reasonably well recognized contributions to the field. I have also operated a professional dungeon as a safe and positive woman-owned/woman-operated space that was freely available to the BDSM community for charity fundraisers and educational events. I would quite honestly have to say that I made far more meaningful contributions to humanity and the betterment of more people's lives during my years running the dungeon than I ever have as an academic. If I cared more about making a place of acceptance and compassion for people of alternative sexuality and less about chasing obscure science, I'd still be doing it. But at the moment I'm being selfish that way.

Women have every right to do as they like with their bodies. To deny women that right is to take away their power to choose the course of their own lives. The tradition of the educated courtesan who wields real power and makes her own bold choices about her own life and her lovers is far older than this society, and was once much more respected. I say let us revive the tradition of the hetaera and the temple priestess, and empower women with real rights over what they may do with their own bodies and their own sexuality. You cannot own a thing if you have not the right to sell it or rent it.

There are many evils in the world, and one of them is that in some places women are forced to sell their bodies not because they choose to, but because they have no other choices, or because their self-esteem has been damaged by abuse. That is an evil that needs eradicating, but it's not something that can or will be changed just by preaching to the women, or by claiming that prostitution itself is wrong. There is no wrong in a fair, honest and straightforward transaction in which no one is harmed and everyone gets what they want. There is only archaic religious taboo preached by prudes and Puritans that takes away women's free choices and claims ownership of their bodies. I will not be bound by those chains.

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 9/30/2006 10:32:54 PM

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Let me make myself perfectly clear.

Anyone who takes money for BDSM play or training, whether they be male, female, or some freaky combination of both, is a whore.

Ah, so folks who are teaching -- Jack Rinella and Midori pop into my head right up front -- who are training on BDSM for money -- are whores? And how is it that you've come to this conclusion?

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 9/30/2006 10:35:02 PM

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I'm betting a LOT of people are whores in her mind.

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Ah, so folks who are teaching -- Jack Rinella and Midori pop into my head right up front -- who are training on BDSM for money -- are whores? And how is it that you've come to this conclusion?

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 9/30/2006 10:43:35 PM

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I am a CPA and make very good money. Yet, I still take his paycheck. Now what? Oh that must make me a prostitute with a job on the side.

Anyone who lives with an Accountant should hand them their paycheck and feel very blessed they have an expert in the house. That is not prostitution, that is wise, fair and being an adult. ProDommes are for no-strings scenes (which based on the OP profile seems exactly whats in order for him). Thank goodness they provide that service because I certainly don't have time for it. They should charge whatever the market will bare based on their assets and skills like any other professional. I am not drawn to fulfill the wish list of sexual bottoms who are mistakenly calling themselves slaves or subs, in casual scenes focused on their own pleasure and agenda.

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/1/2006 2:02:53 AM

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Let me make myself perfectly clear.

Anyone who takes money for BDSM play or training, whether they be male, female, or some freaky combination of both, is a whore.

Ah, so folks who are teaching -- Jack Rinella and Midori pop into my head right up front -- who are training on BDSM for money -- are whores? And how is it that you've come to this conclusion?

Why are all of you falling for such a suckers play.....this is prolly the bald dude from NY.

- R

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/1/2006 2:08:05 AM

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Why are all of you falling for such a suckers play.....this is prolly the bald dude from NY.
- R

Bald? There's nothing wrong with bald... As I recall that man had a lot more unattractive things about him. Besides, I didn't fall for it. He difinitely sounds like an angry reject. M

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/1/2006 9:53:26 AM

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EbonyFtshGoddess, I must say you are very hot, and I love you profile. I'd pay you without being asked to.

i'm not a pro domme. although i've been getting a lot of requests & emails for sessions here lately. maybe i'm in the wrong business- time to give up mortgage banking and start beating people's arses for a living.

your compliments are well taken however.

I have a vastly improved idea: Come to Seattle, refinance some of my properties and then beat me.

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/1/2006 10:18:09 AM

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EbonyFtshGoddess, I must say you are very hot, and I love you profile. I'd pay you without being asked to.

i'm not a pro domme. although i've been getting a lot of requests & emails for sessions here lately. maybe i'm in the wrong business- time to give up mortgage banking and start beating people's arses for a living.

your compliments are well taken however.

I have a vastly improved idea: Come to Seattle, refinance some of my properties and then beat me.

lol that's a hell of an origination fee. hmm.. maybe i'll knock a couple of points off for ya

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/1/2006 12:58:30 PM

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Ahhhhhhh lets see, thinking back to the threads I have see about this whole money issuuuuuuuuue and another about no strings house work.

I don't want your damned money just clean my house!!!

(your still not going to get laid)

lol- You're too much! I simply adore you.

This money issue has been tossed around over and over. Everyone has an agenda and opinion they are entitled to. Drop the prostitution comments… it’s an ignorant stance. If any woman wants to charge for her time it is her prerogative and right. If someone wants to pay then let them. The world is all about dog eat dog and although this ain’t right in most people eyes, it’s a fact of life.

If a man is looking for casual kinky sex then he’s got to find a woman who feels as he does and make an arrangement. It can be mutual satisfaction or some other type of exchange.

If someone seeks a deeper meaning in a relationship then that’s what they need to throw out there into the universe and hope someone complies. It’s a complicated world out there, for sure so good luck. If you fall in love and fulfill your dreams and fantasies consider yourself lucky. If you come close you’re still lucky. The sooner you open your mind to the experiences in life without so many damn expectations the happier you’ll be. If it ain’t for you then say so and move on down the line.

I personally want to spend some time talking on the phone and exchanging email. I charge a fee for my time and for good reason. I have a lot of experience and I have a lot to offer. I just don’t have time to waste and to be honest with you 80% of it turns out to be a waste of time. I understand that there are women out there that take advantage of men strictly for money with no intention on meeting them. Just like there are men out there who play games pretending to be the perfect slave with no intention on showing up. There’s a risk but unless you invest yourself and consider the risk, you’ll never really know. Experience is your teacher. You rarely walk away empty.

So in my head I’m thinking that if someone truly wants to climb my mountain then they will walk their talk and prove to me that they are someone I want to invest my time into it. If they don’t want to play by my rules that’s ok. Move on. Once they are permitted to spend time with me I have expectations on how I want to be treated. This includes gifts and service. That’s just how it is. In my world they were placed on this planet to worship, adore and serve me at any capacity I see fit. I mean this quite literally in every sense of the word.

Damn now I’m out of breath!

Dianna

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/1/2006 2:08:19 PM

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<<<pounce>>>

DIANNA!!!! YOU'RE BACK!!!!

<<<ecstatic huggzzzz>>>

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/1/2006 2:10:28 PM

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EbonyFtshGoddess, I must say you are very hot, and I love you profile. I'd pay you without being asked to.

i'm not a pro domme. although i've been getting a lot of requests & emails for sessions here lately. maybe i'm in the wrong business- time to give up mortgage banking and start beating people's arses for a living.

your compliments are well taken however.

I have a vastly improved idea: Come to Seattle, refinance some of my properties and then beat me.

lol that's a hell of an origination fee. hmm.. maybe i'll knock a couple of points off for ya

Well, I coulda asked for a Jumbo 5/10 with a 20 year (re-am) after the first 10 at 0.75 over the 10 year treasury...but I didn't want to impose, you know :)

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/1/2006 2:27:09 PM

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Why on earth are we even thinking about justifing who we are and what we do to someone who is just a wannbe? I mean what I do in my life has got nothing to do with anyone other than those I let into it. Even they dont pay my bills and their opinion very rarely changes mine.

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/1/2006 2:29:32 PM

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<<<pounce>>>

DIANNA!!!! YOU'RE BACK!!!!

<<<ecstatic huggzzzz>>>

Yep! It was a long ass journey but I'm back home and looking forward to going with you to that BDSM club in NC.

DeviantLady - right on. I agree. I just enjoy throwing my two cents in and bitching a little. When you get right down to it, it don't mean nothing.

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/1/2006 2:35:01 PM

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I'd call you but I've had bronchitis for a week and my voice is nothing but an unintelligible croak right now. How was your trip? Are you back for GOOD now? The Castle has a new location and new management and is SO much nicer (not that it wasn't nice before!). Auburn Goddess came last night with her violet wand and did the demonstration, but I had to miss it because of this darn bronchitis <stew> <sulk>

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/3/2006 12:35:03 PM

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Well, I coulda asked for a Jumbo 5/10 with a 20 year (re-am) after the first 10 at 0.75 over the 10 year treasury...but I didn't want to impose, you know :)

LOL intrest only in THIS market? (which i tried to steer my loans from for the last several years)..

you want me to walk on water too? LOL.. yeah. i can work miracles.. hehe

i'm assuming these aren't owner occupied. . oooff.. crappy market right now.. i'm glad i'm in mortgage banking and not RE selling.

i wish rates would be what you said.. god bless the popping of the bubble.

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/3/2006 12:37:04 PM

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could it be that Mistresses are too "dominant" to follow orders form a inferior superior?

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/3/2006 1:02:59 PM

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Why on earth are we even thinking about justifing who we are and what we do to someone who is just a wannbe? I mean what I do in my life has got nothing to do with anyone other than those I let into it. Even they dont pay my bills and their opinion very rarely changes mine.

You said it!

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RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! - 10/6/2006 3:45:03 AM

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Well let's drop in that my Pro went to training, invested in tons of great toys, and went to a lot of shows. Plus do you think all those fancy cloths that they dress up in to make your fantisy real are cheap? Plus rent, food and other stuff. They are worth the price. The only way to stay in business is to have something over the next Pro. Trust me that is quite expenisve.

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