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RE: Be careful a Dominant is for real - 12/17/2006 7:44:42 AM

shedreamz

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You said so much of what I was feeling -- and my relationship was not online; it was very much real, although we met online. And he, like your former Master, continues to prey on women. He is on every site imaginable -- bdsm, vanilla, swinging, whatever. I never really got as hooked into him as these others have. I am lucky. Single. No kids. No exes. A good income. My own home. No sick parents. And I am fairly young (42). Attractive. But these other girls -- wow, has he destroyed their lives. Some realized and move on. Some don't. From one he beat so severely that she has permanent damage to her back, to another who literally prostitutes herself to feed his insatiable greed (and sadly her own addictions). Then there is one who has been beaten down so long and so hard, she literally lacks a spirit. I have never seen such emptiness. I suspect incest that continues to today. I am sad. Angry. Disturbed. Concerned for others. Concerned for myself. You spend a lot of time looking internally after something like this happens to you.

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RE: Be careful a Dominant is for real - 12/19/2006 9:46:38 PM

MistressSassy66

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I enjoyed your story...except for one part.

I do not believe you have to study for years to be a good Dom/Master/Domme/Mistress.

I came into this without many years of study and seem to have a natural grasp
of what its all about...One is that there are no set rules.
You do what feels right,be true to you and know when to walk away from something thats not the true you.

I would like to add that people change once in a relationship of some kind,they dont have to impress and true colors come out.Thing that sucks is it takes a while before you realize they cant stay between the lines.
Best of Luck

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RE: Be careful a Dominant is for real - 12/21/2006 2:36:11 AM

mons

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greetings

your post speaks of so many wonderful thing. i have read post from some of the submissive and i heard things that made no sense at all to me i seen abuse and many will say he is my master he can do anything he wants this is not true. no a all they run to someone who is absive and mean no respect for they submissive i understand how pain is part of the lifestyle but i am a dominant woman i have some of the male write and ask for thing i would never do for them/. i beleive in respect for my slave and as you he has streght and is so smart he know what i can do and what i will never do hurt him in ways that would break his spritie his proud but there are ways to do this that train and teaches him . but not what i heard on some of the replies it just plain abuse and on post a so called master wanted to remove his slave pleasure area i do no know if he wrote back but it was so bad, so sick to remove it do she could not have pleasure. ii want to thank you so for writing what many of the submissive i hope will read and yes being alone is okay until you find that one person and this goes for dominant man and woman too wait for that right one . this should be a thread i hope i will be

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