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stillexploring -> what do you want from your mistress ? (10/2/2006 2:42:09 PM)

As far as myself is  concered i just want  three things .
1.Never  break  relationship ,  if  i disobey misbehave  punish me  inwhatever  way you like but donot threat me to break relationship .
2.My mistress should be faithful to me ,  if  i am going to have only one mistress , she  should have only one slave thats just me .
3.no public humilation/blood/toilet etc .
so what other slaves expect ?



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/2/2006 3:09:47 PM)

I expect them to be true to themsleves and honest to me about it.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_573343/mpage_1/key_expectations/tm.htm#573577
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_294870/mpage_2/key_expectations/tm.htm#295102
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Hercuckslave -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/2/2006 9:02:12 PM)

well, i have to disagree with you on some points....

if you misbehave, disobey, that might very well be grounds for breaking the relationship.  mistakes are one thing, but willfull disobedience breaks the dynamic, and therefore jeopardizes the relationship.

for me, this is what i expect from Mistress..
that she loves me and cherishes me for the man i am, as well as the slave.
that she doesn't set me up for failure, but rather nurtures an environment where i can be the best slave i can be for her.
that she always keeps my well being in mind.

everything else is just the nuts and bolts of things.  i can't impose any limitations on what she can or can't do, who she can or can't be with, etc....because to me, that is not submission.  i would be maintaining a control over her that i do not wish to have.  If she is the Mistress and i am the slave, for me, our roles are clearly defined.

M's m



Owned1 -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/2/2006 9:48:36 PM)

sex and money and..........ummm nope that about covers it

Owned[;)]



iamdownonmyknees -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/3/2006 2:07:21 PM)

That our deep and abiding love for one another continue.

To both  continue in the enjoyment of kinks that we both share and explore new fetishes if only once.

To feel loved and humbled, each at the appropriate time and in the proper place.

Richard



DivaDuchess -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/4/2006 4:50:29 AM)

Speaking from a Domme point of view ... service without complaint.  That, of course, doesn't count for screaming *lol*.  Devotion is a nice thing in a slave.  I give back the respect and devotion I'm shown.  If you keep thing even up and treat EACH OTHER fairly, things will progress well from there.

I have used dimissal only once.  I simply could not reach this slave.  To me, dimissal is a last resort.




subfever -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/4/2006 9:41:31 AM)

Hell... that's pretty easy. I want chemistry, compatibility, and communication.



PhDslave -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/4/2006 11:36:19 AM)

What all of the above  said....(oh, except for you 'Owned1'....smiles)



jimbo747 -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/6/2006 7:13:31 AM)

 
honesty
respect
love
 



smokeangelca -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/6/2006 10:44:34 AM)

A firm hand, a desire to grow together, and communicate, communicate, communicate.



babyboyk -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/8/2006 1:14:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: stillexploring

As far as myself is  concered i just want  three things .
1.Never  break  relationship ,  if  i disobey misbehave  punish me  inwhatever  way you like but donot threat me to break relationship .
2.My mistress should be faithful to me ,  if  i am going to have only one mistress , she  should have only one slave thats just me .
3.no public humilation/blood/toilet etc .
so what other slaves expect ?


i have to say, in both Mistresses & my opinion, this sounds like topping from the bottom. you say that Mistress should have only one slave, but its a Mistresses right to have more than one slave, if She so chosses, & you wont have a say in it, lol & be in no doubt that you will be punished if you misbehave, tis part of the deal isnt it????? and its a Msitresses right to terminate a relationship, but you must make a real mess of things for that to happen, lol




mellian -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/8/2006 8:44:18 PM)

-Someone I can trust
-Someone I can actually serve and be sub to in a D/s relationship
-Someone that won't turn psycho on me
-not to be ignored for TV or a computer game or something else and never really do anything with me
-Have some patience with me when trying something knew or still learning her ways
-providing opportunities  for me to explore and  experience new things
-and the list probably goes on, along with preferences for who I am looking for as a person.

-mellian



QuinnDexter -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/9/2006 11:14:19 AM)

What do I want from a mistress?
 
Wow well up front honest communication and tolerance would be a very nice start. I certainly don't want a money/financial domme lol nor do I want a submissive female pretending to be a domme so her master can make money off me : )
 
I want a Mistress who has her shit together and is not an imature child who yells and screams a lot when the world does not rotate around her. Be real and dammit be flexable!
 
Quinn Dexter
 



BalletBob -> RE: what do you want from your mistress ? (10/9/2006 12:55:48 PM)

Lets see. Understanding. Soneone who understands what I am about.

Someone who would tell me what to WEAR or Do, and have as much fun and enjoyment as I have, doing it.

Someone who doesn't mind Cyber, and not act like it's a Dirty Word. Since I am no longer with MADAM, I havn't found any Mistresses in Southern New Jersey, that aren't asking for MONEY ! I REFUSE to PAY! This should be mutual Enjoyment.

Someone who doesn't mind me being married. I don't want SEX, I just want to please and have fun with my Mistress, who ever she might become to be.

Someone who doesn't mind Cross Dressers at times, and act like that's a Dirty Word too.

Waiting for Halloween and a Mistress, BalletBob



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