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RE: Smoking - 2/5/2005 12:01:18 AM   
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I've noticed a common trend amongst many of the Fem Domme profiles here, and that is many seem to include pictures of them smoking.
So what's your take on it?

I'm not a smoker, unless I have a human ashtray, than I'll light up one or 2.. Fun... M

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RE: Smoking - 2/5/2005 12:10:33 AM   
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I choose not to smoke - why - well I grew up in a family of very heavy smokers and I was the one ALWAYS having to clear the ashtrays becuase the others didnt mind them getting fuller and fuller but it made me feel sick esp if we were eating at the table. So I am the only person in the family who doesnt indulge.
That along with watching my first husband die at 33 from lung cancer reassured for me that smoking wasnt ever going to be an option.

Here in NZ they have bought in laws which leave very few places in public to smoke - all bars, resaurants, clubs etc etc are now smokefree.

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RE: Smoking - 2/5/2005 9:01:14 AM   
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quote:

Here in NZ they have bought in laws which leave very few places in public to smoke - all bars, resaurants, clubs etc etc are now smokefree.


It is the same way here in California. Almost to the extreme. They will ban smoking all together sooner or later. Not sure if it is true or not but I had heard they were attempting to ban it in certain neighborhoods. Nothing like living in a free world. I may not smoke but I am an advocate for the underdog any time.

We spent a week in Nebraska visiting relatives this past summer. It was quite odd to go everywhere and see people smoking.

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RE: Smoking - 2/5/2005 9:21:58 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire
We spent a week in Nebraska visiting relatives this past summer. It was quite odd to go everywhere and see people smoking.


Yes, smoking is more common here in the Midwest. As in many things we are slow to change our ways. Give us another 20 years... we'll catch up.

Mercnbeth's comments about a smoking fetish seem to ring true. I remember once seeing an ad from a pro Domme who billed herself as "the Smoking Domme', with her posed in a 1940's femme fatale style, hold a cigarett off to one side. I thought it odd at the time, but a smoking fetish must be a real thing.

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RE: Smoking - 2/5/2005 9:42:13 PM   
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I realize that people have their various habits but smoking...nah, I don't like kissing an ashtray and I don't like smelling like I just left a saloon.

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RE: Smoking - 2/6/2005 1:40:34 AM   
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I'm a cigar smoker. Nothing quite like a good stogie after a good meal with a smooth drink, and after sex, well, ah, it's a good thing to quote Martha, LOL.

And I enjoy a good loose leaf tobacco in a pipe from time to time as well. Ray's been trying to get me to try a single malt scotch and I *finally* broke down and tried some cognac, but I don't think it was the good stuff, I didn't like it much.

I find pipe and cigars - when they are a GOOD finely made product, are very soothing and refreshing, and are worlds past a brand name cigarette.

My current semi-cheapo fav right now are the Al Capone Cognac Dipped cigarellos, the non filtered kind. Runs about 7 bucks a pack, though much cheaper if you buy them online. Just a widdle stogie, but pretty smooth, rich and moist flavor (do NOT try the rum Al Capones unless you like a dry harsh smoke, and DON'T try the filtered cognac Al Capones unless you prefer a hyper-sweet smoke that runs closer to mix of a swisher sweet and clove combo, gives me a headache just smelling the things, and it's amazing how the smells and tastes differ between the filtered and non filtered ones), has a good firm silky ash, and just is a nice little smoke all in all.

Ray and I have a yen to try a real cuban like nothing else, LOL.

Living in the first smoke free city in California - we both have been toying with opening a smoking lodge, where we sell cigars and loose tobacco, and have a smoking lodge room for the members of the lodge in the back.

I'm thinking old english style. Yeahhh, overstuffed chairs, humidors everywhere, leather and mahogany paneled walls, bookshelves, thick rugs, mahogany furniture, very masculine and yet with that air of elegance and sensuality.

And smoking jackets! Yeah! And a pool table! Maybe PingPong! FoozBall (sp?)! Oh and definitely darts!

Oh yeah and an air filtered room. Stale smoke os NOT pretty. Fresh smoke can be yummy.

Hey I can dream! LOL

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RE: Smoking - 2/6/2005 10:22:19 AM   
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Some people are going to die because they were exposed to too much tar in their cigarettes. Some people are going to die because they ate too much fat, and th fat caused plaques to build up in their arteries. Some people are going to die because they got on their bike sans helmet and hit the median at 70 miles an hour. Some perople are going to die because they spent so much time stressing over other people's vices, they created their own arrythmia and keeled over in the middle of their latest lecture on other people's vices.

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RE: Smoking - 2/7/2005 7:39:56 AM   
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quote:

Ray and I have a yen to try a real cuban like nothing else, LOL.


i'm a real cuban *grins*

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RE: Smoking - 2/7/2005 9:51:06 AM   
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quote:

Living in the first smoke free city in California - we both have been toying with opening a smoking lodge, where we sell cigars and loose tobacco, and have a smoking lodge room for the members of the lodge in the back.

I'm thinking old english style. Yeahhh, overstuffed chairs, humidors everywhere, leather and mahogany paneled walls, bookshelves, thick rugs, mahogany furniture, very masculine and yet with that air of elegance and sensuality.

And smoking jackets! Yeah! And a pool table! Maybe PingPong! FoozBall (sp?)! Oh and definitely darts!


If you're ever down in Riverside look us up. There is a cigar club in downtown Riverside. We know several who are member's. In fact my one of my co-mods for Paddlers. Membership is pretty high. About a hundred a month. For that they get unlimited access. A small percentage off any tobacco purchased in the club and a small humidor there.
They do have the filtered air...but I have to say it doesn't do a whole lot for anything. I can cope with cigar smoke but not cigarette. I usually have to leave the private filtered back room.
If you started it, start it by the court house...etc. Where money walks around. They will have the money to pay the prices. A semi private place for private conversations. You'll make some serious cash.

Oh yeah and an air filtered room. Stale smoke os NOT pretty. Fresh smoke can be yummy.

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RE: Smoking - 2/7/2005 11:23:33 AM   
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It's interesting, but i would have bet the farm that the numbers would have been a little more even. At this point in time, even if you combine don't care and turn on, the majority seems to see smoking as a turn off. I thought i was the silent minority.

I have to be honest though, and no offence to smokers, but for me, if i'm watching a woman from across the room, and she's perfect in every way, the instant she lites up, my interest is completely lost. It's amazing just how much of a turn off this simple thing is for me. Next in line of course would be if she's vanilla. :P

sns

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RE: Smoking - 2/7/2005 11:40:57 AM   
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I quit three years ago, cold turkey, after 15 years of smoking. My wife quit at the same time I did after 30 years of smoking. While I can now tolerate it, it's no longer a matter of something I dont' care about. I like being able to smell and taste things.

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RE: Smoking - 2/7/2005 6:52:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sub4hire
If you're ever down in Riverside look us up. There is a cigar club in downtown Riverside. We know several who are member's. In fact my one of my co-mods for Paddlers. Membership is pretty high. About a hundred a month. For that they get unlimited access. A small percentage off any tobacco purchased in the club and a small humidor there.
They do have the filtered air...but I have to say it doesn't do a whole lot for anything. I can cope with cigar smoke but not cigarette. I usually have to leave the private filtered back room.
If you started it, start it by the court house...etc. Where money walks around. They will have the money to pay the prices. A semi private place for private conversations. You'll make some serious cash.


Gosh haven't been in ol Riverside in years since I moved up here.

Used to live in Scummymead before they changed the name Sunnymead to Moreno Valley - I'd imagine that dates me a tad lol.

Went to a catholic private school in Riverside for my freshman year - gosh what was the name ... ah .... Notre Dame! That was it!

Boy did I get in a bunch of trouble at that school. LOL!

But I'll totally take you up on that when we get to that area again for sure! Be nice to meet ya in real time, hehe!

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RE: Smoking - 2/8/2005 12:06:01 AM   
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I have never been a smoker, but it is no secret why people smoke. They enjoy it! Let them enjoy it. If they decide they want to quit, they will. If not, they may die from their habit. They have a one in three chance. It's their life.
And before anyone brings up second hand smoke, there has never been anyone dying from second hand smoke. That is just more anti-smoking baloney. Which is pushed by the left, in case anyone cares about who really wants to take your rights away.

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RE: Smoking - 2/8/2005 1:00:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

Smoking is a controlled suicide.


Bravo! My sentiments exactly and one of the reasons I don't touch cigarettes or cigars. I'm also rather allergic.

One summer someone left a cigarette burning in an ashtray in the garage. It had been burning for a while. I went into the garage to get something to eat for lunch around twelve and found that I'd passed three and a half hours on the garage floor because of a rather extreme reaction to inhaling too much of the smoke in the garage.

Both of my parents smoked. I easily convinced mom to give up the habit. However dad took a bit more persuasion. I'd snap his cigarettes in half... flush them down the toilet... hide the boxes - in the trash. He eventually gave it up because it was becoming too costly.

Now if only I could get away with getting him to quit with the Vodka before he completely kills the nerves in his legs. Guess he enjoys the idea of becoming a diabetic, one glass at a time.

Anyway... I'm a non-smoker and I don't touch the spirits. I don't condemn strangers for their choices but I don't sit idly by while someone I love lights up another nail in their coffin or abuses alcohol to the point where they're on their way to becoming necrotic.


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RE: Smoking - 2/8/2005 7:22:11 AM   
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as a smoker, i realize all of the risks involved in smoking...i know i can develop cancer, heart disease, emphysema, etc etc etc.... i don't think there is a smoker out there that isn't aware of this. One thing i find incredibly annoying is when i am smoking a cigarrette and someone comes up tp me and tells me the dangers of smoking and how i shouldn't smoke, yadda yadda....usually it's someone i don't even know, someone that could give a rats ass about me yet feels at liberty to bombared me with all their preachy b.s. i usually just say, yeah i know, it's a filthy habbit, now if you'll excuse me i'd like to enjoy my cigarrette ..... It's one thing to eliminate smoking from public places for obvious reasons, but this whole propaganda and the crusade against the "big" tobacco companies, and all this anti-smoking crap is really starting to get so ridiculously annoying...just like those peta folks...ya know, the left is usually so much into freedom of choice, right to choose, anti-censorship, etc... yet it's all good as long as it's the crap they want, they don't think about the rights of all, just the rights of whatever organization is hip at the moment, imho.


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RE: Smoking - 2/8/2005 11:15:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Estring

And before anyone brings up second hand smoke, there has never been anyone dying from second hand smoke. That is just more anti-smoking baloney.



Not to change general direction of the thread or anything, but Estring, i'd love to see the evidence or data you've compiled to support that theory. I doubt every doctor is a left wing radical spewing baloney.

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RE: Smoking - 2/8/2005 11:50:21 AM   
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I doubt every doctor is a left wing radical spewing baloney


No, as the commercials say it's usually "4 out of 5".

Okay, and now for something completely different - FACTS, STUDIES, and non-admissible "Anecdotal" comments/information.

First a word from Albert Einstein....Einstein, was very passionate about his pipe smoking. During one lecture, he ran out of pipe tobacco and borrowed some cigarettes from his students so he could crumple the tobacco into his pipe. "Gentlemen," he said, "I believe we've made a great discovery!" He later decided that his conclusion was premature.

His quote; "As Klein, the Cornell professor, notes, there is a direct link between freedom and the right to smoke. He writes: "Like other tyrants such as Louis XIV, Napoleon, and Hitler, James I despised smoking and demonized tobacco. The relation between tyranny and the repression of the right to grow, sell, use, or smoke tobacco can be seen most clearly in the way movements of liberation, revolutions both political and cultural, have always placed those rights at the center of their political demands. The history of the struggle against tyrants has been frequently inseparable from that of the struggle on behalf of the freedom to smoke."

Comment 'on-point'...

When it comes to those carrying out the current war on smokers, no other group matches their tactics, approaches and arguments as well as the Nazis. It’s a damn near perfect fit. The anti-smokers, of course, bristle at the comparison, quickly pointing out that they are not rounding up smokers and sending them to death camps. Hitler never did that to smokers either. He simply vilified them, taxed them, lied about them, restricted advertising of tobacco, and forbade smoking in public places.
Comparing Hitler’s treatment of those he murdered to smokers would be absurd. Comparing Hitler’s treatment of smokers to the behavior of today's anti-smokers is a perfect apples to apples comparison. Today’s tobacco nannies demand that no one ever smoke in any room they might enter someday. They claim hurricane force winds are necessary to clear smoke from a room. Adolph forbade anyone smoking in any room he might ever enter.

The phrase "passive smoking" was coined by Fritz Lickint in his book “Tobacco and the Organism,” which he produced for the German AntiTobacco League. With no evidence to back him up, he claimed that smokers were poisoning everyone around them. (He also insisted that coffee caused cancer.) Passive smoking is, of course, the primary battle cry of today's nannies.

But again anecdotal. You wanted a case study:

http://www.safeguards.org/pages/news_template.asp?id=124
A small quote from the study.
quote:

According to the study, which will appear in the prestigious British Journal of Medicine, exposure to secondhand smoke had no significant effect on death rates from lung cancer or heart disease. The rates were similar for those with spouses who smoked and those with nonsmoking spouses, the study found.


But on counter point - there has been a recorded death directly attributed to smoking. All the details can be found on this site: http://www.davehitt.com/facts/

It describes the authors attempt to get confirmation of this information posted on the American Cancer Societies website: "On your website you claim that 63,000 people die from second hand smoke every year. Could you please name three or four or them?" Mr Hitt goes on to say; "I e-mailed Joe Cherner, a rabid activist responsible for the ban in New York City. He didn't reply. To be honest, I didn't expect him to, because I've had many e-mail exchanges with him in the past. He got into a snit when I asked him about the murder of Dana Blake. Dana was stabbed to death trying to enforce Joe's ban, making him the only employee whose health really was affected by SHS. Joe hasn't answered any of my e-mails since."


Hey, I don't smoke, and while eating I don't like to smell smoke, but the Libertarian in me requires defending people's inherent rights to partake in things bad for them even to the point of it killing them. I don't support laws regarding motorcycle helmets or seat belts either. Do you know why seat belts are on planes? It's so they can identify the bodies easier after crashes. Do you think everyone that dies in a plane crash DIDN'T wear a seat belt?

Besides who knows when they'll pass a law making BDSM play illegal - oh wait, it already is in quite a few places....


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RE: Smoking - 2/8/2005 5:10:25 PM   
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Hey, I don't smoke, and while eating I don't like to smell smoke, but the Libertarian in me requires defending people's inherent rights to partake in things bad for them even to the point of it killing them.


Speaking of people's rights......this company will fire you if you smoke AFTER work.

http://aolsvc.news.aol.com/news/article.adp?id=20050208101509990013

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RE: Smoking - 2/9/2005 10:29:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

Speaking of people's rights......this company will fire you if you smoke AFTER work.

http://aolsvc.news.aol.com/news/article.adp?id=20050208101509990013


This is disgusting.... i am a non-smoker, detest smoking, and even i think this is ridiculous. What is the next step, firing people for not exercising?

i am really hoping the court strikes this down, it is like paranoid conspiracy theories come true.....

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RE: Smoking - 2/9/2005 11:19:19 AM   
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What is the next step, firing people for not exercising?


phoenix52,

Actually that is the next step being considered.

This article is based on the same Michigan company, Weyco, but it covers the point you raise. Under the guise of controlling health care cost, Companies can use any criteria they want in work 'at-will' States. Currently there are 21 'at-will' States. I assure you that Companies are looking very closely at this trend and it has long range impact.

For a large company it may even be beneficial to relocate to an 'at-will' State. What is the financial consideration? It's simple to check, just look on any site or the next pop-up ad for life insurance. The difference in premium for a smoker to non-smoker in any age group is about the monthly difference for health coverage. The differential for overweight/obese may not be as dramatic, but it exists.

To fight this you will have to have a response to this argument. Your smoking/obesity is under YOUR control. The Company will help you change but after a fixed period of time, if your behavior has not changed - you are fired! Your smoking/obesity is know to cost the Company money (actual cost of extra health premiums), and time (lost work time for illnesses caused by smoking/obesity). The problem you'll have fighting this is that actuarial tables, the statistical data that insurance companies use to set premiums, support the Company's position.

Does anyone else see the huge irony in the fact that smoking was a liberal issue now being used by the big scary right wing economic block to justify firing employees? San Francisco will soon be the first city to ban smoking OUTSIDE at all public parks. What position will San Franciscan's take when Company's being to fire workers for smoking? And yes - California IS an 'at-will' State.

Quoting directly from the article...

quote:

Weyco's controversial move pits employers' rights against those of employees and may pave the way for other private companies to invoke their own potentially discriminatory tactics in the bid to lower rapidly ballooning health-care costs, legal experts say.

What's more, Weyco's policy may open the door for employers to make employment more difficult to obtain for obese people or those with genetic predispositions for diseases, some warn.

"When an employer tries to deal with health-care costs by selecting or promoting employees based on their non-work-related qualifications or qualities, you're really entering a slippery slope," said Kary Moss, director of the American Civil Liberties Union of Michigan, which supports smoking regulations at the workplace but not those that extend beyond it.

In Michigan, workers don't have legal recourse if they're fired for lifestyle-behavior issues; 29 states have laws protecting workers in those circumstances, she said.


Entire article:
http://cbs.marketwatch.com/news/story.asp?guid=%7B1D53E5CE-894E-4DB8-BB29-F48D9CB09DC6%7D&siteid=google&dist=google

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